Marriage fraud allegations from ex-husband

[brendaaa 27]

So my relationship with my husband didn't work and we got a divorce, I received my GC about a year and a a half ago,  it's been a few months since the divorce was finalized and now he has a new girlfriend that lives in Colombia, they met online.

He want's to marry her and bring her here, the girl is obviously trying to use him to get a green card but he can't see it, she has no internet or running water in her house, she lives in some poor rural area, has no job, and basically no life there.

He is saying he will be telling that he met her while we were still married and that I used him to get a GC, this is obviously not true, but he want's to throw me under the bus to get what he wants.

Can this hurt me? I have a 10 year GC.

What happens if they suspect that their marriage is fake, will this come haunting me?

[Crazy Cat 41,974]

Let it go.  There is no issue here which concerns you.  Move on with your own life and happiness.  His situation will not affect you.

Edited July 8, 2021 by Lucky Cat

[JeanneAdil 6,539]

only the emotional part can hurt so block him from your life

block him from your contacts (cell and facebook , etc)

 

you don't need his BS

and if he trys to say that to immigration ,  he can put himself on the chopping block 

ICE tells us both parties are responsible for any type of what they refer to as visa fraud (marriage fraud) so he would also be in  trouble if anyone took him serious (and i am sure no one does) 

if she is using him,  let it be an issue with him,  her  and immigration   don't let this be your problem 

Edited July 8, 2021 by JeanneAdil

[mushroomspore 3,044]

43 minutes ago, brendaaa said:

So my relationship with my husband didn't work and we got a divorce, I received my GC about a year and a a half ago,  it's been a few months since the divorce was finalized and now he has a new girlfriend that lives in Colombia, they met online.

He want's to marry her and bring her here, the girl is obviously trying to use him to get a green card but he can't see it, she has no internet or running water in her house, she lives in some poor rural area, has no job, and basically no life there.

He is saying he will be telling that he met her while we were still married and that I used him to get a GC, this is obviously not true, but he want's to throw me under the bus to get what he wants.

Can this hurt me? I have a 10 year GC.

What happens if they suspect that their marriage is fake, will this come haunting me?

He has absolutely no legal power in regards to your GC and legal status in the US. Move on and tell him to contact you only through your lawyer if he insists on trying to manipulate and intimidate you.

[arken 4,197]

54 minutes ago, brendaaa said:

the girl is obviously trying to use him to get a green card but he can't see it, she has no internet or running water in her house, she lives in some poor rural area, has no job, and basically no life there.

I wonder how would you know if the girl is trying to use him? You've been talking to that girl?

 

In any way, his marriage and petition to the new girl won't affect ur GC.

Edited July 8, 2021 by arken

[nastra30 2,288]

Op, don't worry yourself over him or his new girl. You are now divorced, enjoy your life, go stay happy. His relationship with the new girl doesn't affect your greencard so nothing will haunt you. And on top of that he is still bound by the I-864 affidavit of support sponsorship to you.

[Nitas_man 3,100]

15 hours ago, brendaaa said:

So my relationship with my husband didn't work and we got a divorce, I received my GC about a year and a a half ago,  it's been a few months since the divorce was finalized and now he has a new girlfriend that lives in Colombia, they met online.

He want's to marry her and bring her here, the girl is obviously trying to use him to get a green card but he can't see it, she has no internet or running water in her house, she lives in some poor rural area, has no job, and basically no life there.

He is saying he will be telling that he met her while we were still married and that I used him to get a GC, this is obviously not true, but he want's to throw me under the bus to get what he wants.

Can this hurt me? I have a 10 year GC.

What happens if they suspect that their marriage is fake, will this come haunting me?

The validity of your former marriage is established at your approval step and his issue is going to be sponsorship of multiple immigrants as he still has to declare you as sponsored as well as his new friend.

You have no issues.

Their conversation after her interview (unless he briefs her up front) should be pretty amusing - “household” size always comes up.  

Edited July 9, 2021 by Nitas_man

[Adventine 3,201]

It's time to cut communication with your ex-husband and move on with your life. He is making empty threats just to hurt you. The less you know about his new relationship, the better.

[milimelo 4,494]

Ex-husband will hopefully remember to still list you on the new I-864 as that responsibility doesn’t end with divorce. 

[Puneetashley 20]

18 hours ago, brendaaa said:

So my relationship with my husband didn't work and we got a divorce, I received my GC about a year and a a half ago,  it's been a few months since the divorce was finalized and now he has a new girlfriend that lives in Colombia, they met online.

He want's to marry her and bring her here, the girl is obviously trying to use him to get a green card but he can't see it, she has no internet or running water in her house, she lives in some poor rural area, has no job, and basically no life there.

He is saying he will be telling that he met her while we were still married and that I used him to get a GC, this is obviously not true, but he want's to throw me under the bus to get what he wants.

Can this hurt me? I have a 10 year GC.

What happens if they suspect that their marriage is fake, will this come haunting me?

How do you know the girl is using him. Didn't you got the green card? Why you are bringing your husband personal life here. Your green card is safe.

[sweetk328 26]

32 minutes ago, Puneetashley said:

How do you know the girl is using him. Didn't you got the green card? Why you are bringing your husband personal life here. Your green card is safe.

Not sure you read her question well? She did get the green card, which you asked and she already answered. I would assume the reason she discussed her ex's personal life is because its an important factor to the case. How does she know the new girlfriend is using him, not really something we need to be concerned with, she has posted a question asking for assistance, I would assume she did not include her whole life experiences with him, perhaps she knows something we do not.  Simple answer would be as you said her green card is safe. 

Edited July 9, 2021 by sweetk328

[arken 4,197]

It's always a good idea to look at all angles while responding when someone asks a question while alleging others of fraud. 

[retheem 566]

19 hours ago, brendaaa said:

So my relationship with my husband didn't work and we got a divorce, I received my GC about a year and a a half ago,  it's been a few months since the divorce was finalized and now he has a new girlfriend that lives in Colombia, they met online.

He want's to marry her and bring her here, the girl is obviously trying to use him to get a green card but he can't see it, she has no internet or running water in her house, she lives in some poor rural area, has no job, and basically no life there.

He is saying he will be telling that he met her while we were still married and that I used him to get a GC, this is obviously not true, but he want's to throw me under the bus to get what he wants.

Can this hurt me? I have a 10 year GC.

What happens if they suspect that their marriage is fake, will this come haunting me?

Lol relax. He has no proof and USCIS knows about angry ex spouses and what they can do. Enjoy your life

[SalishSea 17,915]

20 hours ago, brendaaa said:

So my relationship with my husband didn't work and we got a divorce, I received my GC about a year and a a half ago,  it's been a few months since the divorce was finalized and now he has a new girlfriend that lives in Colombia, they met online.

He want's to marry her and bring her here, the girl is obviously trying to use him to get a green card but he can't see it, she has no internet or running water in her house, she lives in some poor rural area, has no job, and basically no life there.

He is saying he will be telling that he met her while we were still married and that I used him to get a GC, this is obviously not true, but he want's to throw me under the bus to get what he wants.

Can this hurt me? I have a 10 year GC.

What happens if they suspect that their marriage is fake, will this come haunting me?

Anyone who has reason to suspect green card fraud may report it via the link on USCIS.gov.   
 

Good luck.

[Puneetashley 20]

1 hour ago, sweetk328 said:

Not sure you read her question well? She did get the green card, which you asked and she already answered. I would assume the reason she discussed her ex's personal life is because its an important factor to the case. How does she know the new girlfriend is using him, not really something we need to be concerned with, she has posted a question asking for assistance, I would assume she did not include her whole life experiences with him, perhaps she knows something we do not.  Simple answer would be as you said her green card is safe. 

Ohhh do you have any idea what she talking about here??? Read her post carefully before judging my post. She saying women who doesn't have water in her country and poor living condition must obviously using her ex husband for green card. I am asking again how does she know she's using him. So did she used her ex-husband for green card too. They got divorce pretty fast.  Because apparently  we are judging people here on there country and poor living conditions. Let her husband do whatever with new girlfriend it has no affect on op.

Edited July 9, 2021 by Puneetashley