How to marry morocco man?

[shumway1756 304]

[EmmNM 179]

6 hours ago, adil-rafa said:

1st of all don't send him any money

2nd most K's are denied in casa embassy

3rd  you would have to make several trips to Morocco, marry (not on 1st visit) and  meet the  income requirements plus  commingling fiances

4th check for other fake ID's in facebook and on dating sites to see how how many women he talks to

5th   tell him that your income is small but you would be happy to live in  with him in  Morocco and see how long the relationship lasts

 

6 hours ago, adil-rafa said:

how soon did he say he loved u?   Right away?    RED FLAG

 

3 hours ago, Love2020 said:

I read all the posts. Yes I see the red flags. Thank you for nice comments and some just saying it with no filters. 

I know falling in love based on hearing what you always wanted to hear from a guy. Maybe I need to share my thoughts and put it out for the universe to hear my heart hurting and I figure talk it out is a therapy thing. 

OP. Please Please take this ladies advice. Even if you decide to continue with this relationship it is going to cost a lot of money. She spent over $35000 on this process and many many years, 6 I believe it was? It is not fast and it is not easy with your red flags. You are going to need many visits and a lot of money. Miss adil-rafa was one of the few happily ever afters. It can be done but expect a long and hard journey. If you are going to continue with him I would make your initial trip there and see how he treats you in front of his friends and family. If he is serious he will do everything possible to cover expenses while you are there within reason. Do not pay for everything. And finally, I agree with everyone he may be in it for the green card. That is why if you do proceed, do it with eyes wide open.

 

Edited July 31, 2018 by EmmNM

[Diane and Chris 651]

8 hours ago, Love2020 said:

The guy is 18 years younger than me. He was the one that contact me and kept contacting me. We have not met in person. I do question him a lot on what he pick me or why he want to pursue a relationship with me even the age different. I even told him I can't just marry anyone for a green card. I am not going to waste my time I told him. He keep showing me on face time how poor he is and is not happy in his country. He don't practice his religion. I am catholic. The amazing part he dress just like a New Yorker with his style just like the guys here in New York City. 

 

Would age difference be a problem? 

Would I be making a mistake of marrying him? 

I don't care what religion or color you are .. if I like the person I like the person. 

Is this for real?  Seriously, get as far from this situation as possible. 

[Ban Hammer 12,904]

enough of the troll calling.  continuing to do so is a terms of service (tos) violation and will receive admin action.

 

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[JFH 12,189]

OP, you have received some excellent advice on the common traps used by those who abuse the kindness of some American women to try and fraudulently obtain a green card. This is a very real issue and not just something created by TV shows to increase viewer numbers. It causes real pain and hurt and I hope you can walk away from this before you get too hurt. 

 

Now is the time to focus on you and improving your self-esteem so that you don’t become the next victim. Have you considered working from home a few days or hours a week? Amazon and the like hire customer service reps to work from home on their online chat feature to answer customer questions. It seems you have good computer skills and the physical capability to type for hours. You seem to be a warm and friendly person so you could be just who they are looking for. Earning your own money and being able to afford little treats for yourself now and then does wonders for one’s self-esteem. I understand you don’t feel capable of going out to work but in 2018 the work can come to you. 

 

Onwards and upwards! 

Edited July 31, 2018 by JFH

[Scandi 3,987]

I admit, I haven't read the whole thread but here's my take on what I've read so far..

 

If you go through with this you will end up divorced, heartbroken, with even less money than now, and on the hook for the affidavit of support that you need to sign to sponsor him.

 

That's what I see when reading your posts. In other words - nothing good will come from this. For you. 

[Highmystic 234]

11 hours ago, Kastrs said:

you should know, many foreigners think all americans are rich, no matter if you tell them it is expensive here or you are struggling, so he probably does not believe you

Agree!  They seem to see things on TV all the time, movies, etc, and the US is always represented as rich or well off etc,  they don't see the streets in a certain west coast state where the streets are lined with tents of homeless people, poo, needles, etc.. 

[David & Diana R 1,005]

3 minutes ago, Highmystic said:

Agree!  They seem to see things on TV all the time, movies, etc, and the US is always represented as rich or well off etc,  they don't see the streets in a certain west coast state where the streets are lined with tents of homeless people, poo, needles, etc.. 

Yeah, and all we can hope for is that that certain west coast state succeeds from the union. 

[thinblueline 11]

3 minutes ago, David & Zoila said:

Yeah, and all we can hope for is that that certain west coast state succeeds from the union. 

At the rate they're going, all 3 of them can go! 🤔

[David & Diana R 1,005]

1 minute ago, thinblueline said:

At the rate they're going, all 3 of them can go! 🤔

Yeah, you're right!  America could be great again!  (Sorry I couldn't pass up that opportunity)  Aloha, david

[Cathi 5,630]

12 hours ago, Ben&Zian said:

He is 18 years younger.... yea red flag red flag red flag. Everywhere red flags.

I'm 21 years older than my Jordanian husband. Age was never an issue and never brought up. He's now a US citizen and we've been married 7 years. A visa cannot be denied based on age, it's discrimination. I was also divorced, had 2 children, we married on my first visit to Jordan and we're different religions. I really wish people would stop saying to every single woman on this sight who happens to be older and of different religion that there is no way they'l get a visa, it's not true. In fact, one of my friends is married to a Moroccan man she's older and they had no issues either. My husband and I didn't even have as much as an RFE at any point during the process.

 

As long as you do you research, get all of the paperwork you need and double and triple check it all you'll do OK. Just be diligent and organized. Casa is a difficult embassy, but not impossible.

[Scandi 3,987]

1 minute ago, Cathi said:

I'm 21 years older than my Jordanian husband. Age was never an issue and never brought up. He's now a US citizen and we've been married 7 years. A visa cannot be denied based on age, it's discrimination. I was also divorced, had 2 children, we married on my first visit to Jordan and we're different religions. I really wish people would stop saying to every single woman on this sight who happens to be older and of different religion that there is no way they'l get a visa, it's not true. In fact, one of my friends is married to a Moroccan man she's older and they had no issues either. My husband and I didn't even have as much as an RFE at any point during the process.

 

As long as you do you research, get all of the paperwork you need and double and triple check it all you'll do OK. Just be diligent and organized. Casa is a difficult embassy, but not impossible.

In all fairness, Ben&Zian was talking about red flags, not denials. Having red flags and being denied are two different things. Even if you don't like it personally, the things mentioned ARE red flags. Again, that doesn't mean an automatic denial though.

[SaRy 73]

I would not even bother making trips to Morocco to meet him if I were you (not worth the ticket, gifts and visa application money and trouble). Sorry, but this guy is simply in for the visa. I'm almost sure he's chatting with other women too at the same time as you (so whoever takes the bait would be his jackpot). And you said you don't understand why someone would go to great lengths to scam someone; desperation, my friend, that's why...

 

Why would you want to be with a guy who's trying to take advantage of a disabled person? It's better to be alone than to be with the wrong person.

You sound like a nice person, and you simply deserve better. Block him and move on and run away while you still can! 

 

 

[Soup Dragon 104]

Tell him straight you will move to Morocco.  Next week.  I bet you all his western clothes he will do a runner and you won't see him for dust.

[George & Roth 1,485]

21 hours ago, Love2020 said:

I been talking to this guy for a year and he is from Morocco. I am new to immigration rules and paper work. The other thing is that the guy is a few years younger than me. What should I do? If the guy is a few years younger than me will this be in questioning on what we want to get marry? I am also on SSA disability and the financial part of showing proof just puzzle me. If I go back to work I don't know if an employer would hire me based on my condition or will find a good higher paying job. 

What are your thoughts, feedback and comments? What should I do?  

The guy said he will love me and always stay with me which I find very romantic. I do not want to get divorced. 

 

You should get engaged and check out the K-1 process. The age difference will raise questions but not some huge barrier. 

 

Congrats on finding your love.