How to marry morocco man?

[mcdull 474]

1 minute ago, Jaquelly said:

 

If men were all about the looks, I'd feel bad for my husband, bless him.

  

I hate that good people get wrapped up in visa fraud. I am glad VJ exists for people for situations like this.

Does love really make people blind??? I mean, how could people not see the obvious stuff?

 

 

[Jaquelly 1,647]

1 minute ago, mcdull said:

Does love really make people blind??? I mean, how could people not see the obvious stuff?

Maybe some of us have been burnt more than others, which makes us harder and more questioning. I sort of envy those who love without doubt. lol

[CEE53147 559]

OP,  Being married to the wrong person is far worse than being single.  Get involved in your community. The best way to meet people with whom you have common interests is to get out. Just because you consider yourself to be disabled does not mean others will see you the same way.  You deserve better than this individual who is using you for his own benefit.

[Ben&Zian 4,397]

1 minute ago, mcdull said:

Does love really make people blind??? I mean, how could people not see the obvious stuff?

 

 

 

It does indeed.... it really really does haha. I've read quite a few so far out there stories on VJ about people buying into, and believing the strangest things because they 'loved' someone... for all  of us hearing or reading it, it's clear... but to them it's like destiny.

[Guest]

Thank you all for responding. 

I need advice and want to hear it out loud. 

 

First of all, I am not that stupid to rush into marriage. I am just wondering cause this guy talk to me for a year and its almost on the hour or every hour or every minute for a whole year. 

It just strange how people who are going to scam people would waste their own time of faking it and spending all that time talking. 

I guess life is just funny at times on what comes our way. 

[C&AH 104]

You seem like a very nice lady and, from what I can tell from your post,  you already seem to have some of your own red flags. That is a good indicator that you are also intelligent enough to know if you are being scammed.

 

From a personal perspective, this is probably the most difficult process I've ever encountered in my life. So, be aware it is not for tbe faint of heart.  Think it through because you will need have have met at least once and have to meet the financial requirement to sponsor a spouse or fiancé. If not, you need a joint sponsor.  It is long and costly but worth it if it is the right person. Just my two cents.  I truly wish you all the best. 

 

[Ben&Zian 4,397]

1 minute ago, Love2020 said:

Thank you all for responding. 

I need advice and want to hear it out loud. 

 

First of all, I am not that stupid to rush into marriage. I am just wondering cause this guy talk to me for a year and its almost on the hour or every hour or every minute for a whole year. 

It just strange how people who are going to scam people would waste their own time of faking it and spending all that time talking. 

I guess life is just funny at times on what comes our way. 

 

The choice you make is yours alone; but at least now you have information and can read into others bad experiences and literally compare scenarios... again I bet a lot of what you'll read will match your own situation.

[Highmystic 234]

1 hour ago, Love2020 said:

I been talking to this guy for a year and he is from Morocco. I am new to immigration rules and paper work. The other thing is that the guy is a few years younger than me. What should I do? If the guy is a few years younger than me will this be in questioning on what we want to get marry? I am also on SSA disability and the financial part of showing proof just puzzle me. If I go back to work I don't know if an employer would hire me based on my condition or will find a good higher paying job. 

What are your thoughts, feedback and comments? What should I do?  

The guy said he will love me and always stay with me which I find very romantic. I do not want to get divorced. 

Reading through the other comments, and I need to refrain from being judgemental.  First off, to even proceed, either YOU have to fly to Morocco, or he has to fly to the US, or you both fly and meet in a 3rd location, but it is required to meet IN PERSON, unless you can prove hardship. For him to fly to the US,  He will have to have the ability to get a visitors Visa, and for that, he has to have a solid reason to return to Morocco, such as a great job, family or real estate.   It sounds to me that you have not the money to support him in the US for about 6 months (not to mention a couple thousand to pay for the filing and stuff),  and you would need a co-sponsor that makes enough to support everyone for the time being.   The age difference will be scrutinized.  I personally do not see this going anywhere for you or he.  No money, very little income,  no in person meeting,  age difference from a man 18 years your junior and from a high fraud country.    I truly am sorry if you are feeling lonely and want love and companionship, that is what everyone wants and needs, but truthfully, I do not see this as a workable scenario. Sorry.

[Guest]

1 minute ago, C&AH said:

You seem like a very nice lady and, from what I can tell from your post,  you already seem to have some of your own red flags. That is a good indicator that you are also intelligent enough to know if you are being scammed.

 

From a personal perspective, this is probably the most difficult process I've ever encountered in my life. So, be aware it is not for tbe faint of heart.  Think it through because you will need have have met at least once and have to meet the financial requirement to sponsor a spouse or fiancé. If not, you need a joint sponsor.  It is long and costly but worth it if it is the right person. Just my two cents.  I truly wish you all the best. 

 

I know all this stuff just to marry someone from another country. 

But I do my own research and use google image to research to see if I am being scam. 

I would even do everything to research just like the show CatFish. 

 

There is one thing I won't do is give all my money or energy into something that is complete fake just hoping it would turn into something real. I am not the person to force someone to love me or be with me. 
I am just at the age being single is boring. LOL

[RJandHamid 1,128]

If you are serious about wanting to marry him, go meet him in person. Don't marry him on the first visit. Go to Morocco, meet him, meet his family and friends. Take a lot of photos. See if the way he treats you in person matches what he says to you online. In Moroccan culture, the man should pay for the wife/girlfriend's expenses. It's fine to split some expenses, but if he asks you to pay for everything while you are there, beware. 

 

Casablanca is an incredibly difficult consulate. Your age difference will make things even harder. You will want to visit him more than just 1 time in order to gather the relationship evidence you will need to convince the CO. So go for a visit, and take things slow. Rushing into marriage will not get him here quicker, and it may only just end up in additional heartbreak and stress if you try to petition for a visa too soon with too little evidence. 

[Roel 7,191]

..sounds like a troll. 

[Amadia 711]

1 hour ago, Love2020 said:

The guy said he will love me and always stay with me which I find very romantic. I do not want to get divorced. 

Life happens, is all I will say about this statement.

 

People sometimes tell others what they want to hear......not that he may not be genuine in declaring his love. Many time we see that the petitioner brings the beneficiary to the US after successful filing, only to discover that the marriage was a sham on the beneficiary's part and the US citizen is left to burden the loss of love and care initially declared by the beneficiary just to get into America.

[DPP123 403]

Are we being punked?

[Jeanne Adil 1,651]

1st of all don't send him any money

2nd most K's are denied in casa embassy

3rd  you would have to make several trips to Morocco, marry (not on 1st visit) and  meet the  income requirements plus  commingling fiances

4th check for other fake ID's in facebook and on dating sites to see how how many women he talks to

5th   tell him that your income is small but you would be happy to live in  with him in  Morocco and see how long the relationship lasts

[Hobidyali 267]

OP, I understand you and I know that the simple fact that you logged on here and asked the question makes you a person with common sense and common sense is what will dictate the outcome of this situation for you. The problem with this is that with love, there's no reason, it's a battle between the heart and mind and most often, the heart wins. Yea yea corny BUT what in life is safe? Who's to say that you meet him and you hit it off and it works? I know of countless women with younger men and they are quite happy after he arrives, granted, yes he got what he wanted which was out but he also gained a wife he loves and a better future for himself and his new wife. There are all sorts of human beings in this world, does it sound iffy, emmm, maybe a tad bit, what I suggest you do is visit and get a feel for what he is like and don't just cut him off without giving him a real chance. Life is about leaps of faith, taking plunges, nothing is safe, we can't control what others do only ourselves and if we have to live our whole life taking precautions out of fear, well then where is the "living in that". Take a plunge and go visit, you never know . Goodluck and hope it works out for you , inchalah.