Age gap... Will there be an issue at the interview for our Spouse Visa?

[Illiria 980]

2 hours ago, ra0010 said:

OP., first, you got PLENTY of advice, especially with regards to the age difference and the fact that she's sending you money. Just because it wasn't the type of advice that you were expecting ("It's all going to be good", "No need to worry", etc) it doesn't mean that no advice was given. People here want you to be prepared for the uphill battle that you'll face (because you will have it hard). You said that she sends you money, that she is 55 but she doesn't look 55. Put yourself in the CO's shoes, or even better, imagine a friend of you came with the same story: you make it look as if she was your sugar mamma. 

The point that everyone is making here is that you have to present solid, good evidence that you entered the relationship in good faith and not for immigration purposes. Money transfers and beauty are not solid evidence. What do you have to counterbalance this?

This @Vaqar Malik is the point - we aren’t giving this advice to rag on you but to prepare you for the line of questioning this kind of age difference and marrying on first in person visit leads to. So that you can be prepared to answer in best way possible. 

[R1CH1991 247]

The audacity of some people is staggering. It’s abundantly obvious this is not legitimate. I hope the embassy get the right outcome. 

[Puneetashley 20]

10 hours ago, Vaqar Malik said:

I make a mistake to post my status i didn't get any advice i didn't get any positivity from any single member. I will remind you everyone this is my right to marry anyone no can blame me . And i will delete my post because not any other member will disappointed because of you guyz comments.thank you

Please don't say that nobody helped you. Everyone here to help. People here on visajourney help with every single question. Our admins are so great here and always ready to help. They gave you fully advice on your case. They preparing you for your interview and the CO going to ask you same questions. You should be thankful to everyone instead of saying nobody helped you.

[Ankur Shah 0]

20 hours ago, Vaqar Malik said:

Hye guyz !! I am From Pakistan and living in Pakistan my wife is American my interview is coming after some days everything is going smooth in our case but for interview day i have a question we have a age gap relationship my wife is older than me . We have screenshots of our daily conversation we have alot of evidence but i am lil bit scared about age gap so what is the best answer to satisfied the consular... Any good advice please i will be very grateful. Thank you

Mr. Malik, I read somewhere on their official site, if the age difference is 3-5 yrs then it doesn't effect to your application.

[Lemonslice 4,553]

26 minutes ago, Ankur Shah said:

Mr. Malik, I read somewhere on their official site, if the age difference is 3-5 yrs then it doesn't effect to your application.

Oh wow, that's interesting. Do you have the source/link to this official site?

[Crazy Cat 39,214]

3 hours ago, Ankur Shah said:

Mr. Malik, I read somewhere on their official site, if the age difference is 3-5 yrs then it doesn't effect to your application.

I would really like to see that.  Do you have a link?

[arken 4,197]

4 hours ago, Ankur Shah said:

Mr. Malik, I read somewhere on their official site, if the age difference is 3-5 yrs then it doesn't effect to your application.

Those blogs or forums or lawyers opinions are not called official sites.

[Rocio0010 5,562]

4 hours ago, Lemonslice said:

Oh wow, that's interesting. Do you have the source/link to this official site?

And how on Earth is this related to the OP?  He has a 29 year difference.

[pm5k 127]

OP is not answering most of the questions, and is getting offended when people ask even the most basic/tame of questions...

[P0907 127]

8 hours ago, Ankur Shah said:

Mr. Malik, I read somewhere on their official site, if the age difference is 3-5 yrs then it doesn't effect to your application.

How are you able to read an "official site" but not the question you are responding to?

[SalishSea 16,769]

9 hours ago, Ankur Shah said:

Mr. Malik, I read somewhere on their official site, if the age difference is 3-5 yrs then it doesn't effect to your application.

Not true or even helpful for OP, who has a 29 year age difference.

[Moondaze 18]

14 hours ago, R1CH1991 said:

The audacity of some people is staggering. It’s abundantly obvious this is not legitimate. I hope the embassy get the right outcome. 

 

 

I'm getting the same vibes.

[Rocio0010 5,562]

9 hours ago, Ankur Shah said:

Mr. Malik, I read somewhere on their official site, if the age difference is 3-5 yrs then it doesn't effect to your application.

First of all, this is not relevant for OP. Their age difference is 29 years, so, yeah, it’s going to affect their application. Even if the age difference was 3-5, that doesn’t guarantee approval. The whole case needs to be wholesome. 

[Crazy Cat 39,214]

Just now, ra0010 said:

First of all, this is not relevant for OP. Their age difference is 29 years, so, yeah, it’s going to affect their application. Even if the age difference was 3-5, that doesn’t guarantee approval. The whole case needs to be wholesome. 

I would like to see where he read that about a 3-5 year age gap.

[SalishSea 16,769]

2 minutes ago, Lucky Cat said:

I would like to see where he read that about a 3-5 year age gap.

On "their official site".  Pay attention, LC 😉