Jump to content


  • Content Count

  • Joined

  • Last visited

1 Follower

About CEE53147

  • Rank
    Platinum Member
  • Member # 264311

Profile Information

  • City
  • State

Immigration Info

  • Immigration Status

Immigration Timeline & Photos

Recent Profile Visitors

The recent visitors block is disabled and is not being shown to other users.

  1. You obviously got yourself into a bad relationship. You need to understand US divorce law. Get yourself to an attorney. Do not be surprised if you are ordered to support her until the divorce is granted if she has no income. You may even be ordered to pay her attorney fees. I hope you have police and emergency medical care reports. Do NOT be in the house with her. If necessary, get a police escort to retrieve your belongings. There are legal forums dealing with divorce; look for them. Do NOT try to file on your own even though it is possible to do so. Too often people wanting to come to the US ignore signs of troubled sponsors. Reflect on what you knew about her before you came to the US; understand what you missed; make better choices in the future. This will be an expensive lesson. Good luck.
  2. Contact the USCIS Military Helpline.
  3. You should realize that your income is essentially her money as well as yours. Your savings are also her savings. The children's father should be contributing to their support as should your wife. You are not "paying her money" but supporting her. You need to consult an attorney for an explanation of your RESPONSIBILITIES to support your family. Yours is not a legitimate marriage if you are failing to do so. I see why she is upset if she is begging for money which is by rights hers as well as yours. Look at the term "community property"; just because it comes from your employment does not make it exclusively yours.
  4. I am sure you will find a topic. Look for something in your community. Since you are likely to be expected to research your topic something where you could attend meetings being held for public discussion is a way to make your paper unique. For example, in my community there is a discussion on what to do about a park. There are various factions wanting different opportunities there. There are public meetings for these discussions. This would also give you the option to interview individuals in your community. It is a "controversial" issue but also allows a writer to show some creativity in approach to the topic. Have fun!
  5. Death is a part of life and often happens unexpectedly. Just check the posts where the sponsor has passed away and the beneficiary is in limbo. I feel sorry that your mother raised such an entitled human being wanting only self gratification. There is great joy from working and the feeling of accomplishing something to benefit not only oneself but others. Try it; you might like it.
  6. I am stunned by your comments. What do you intend to do if/when your mother dies? Do you have multi millions in savings to support you, your spouse and any children?
  7. School uniforms are not likely to cause a riot while discussions on immigration, abortion rights, and other politically sensitive issues are such hot topics that teachers/professors often are biased and some are so unprofessional as to allow the differences to affect a student's grade. It just isn't worth deliberately getting into the fight unnecessarily.
  8. There are other controversial topics that are less likely to evoke the emotions of this one. This such as uniforms for public school students, the need to go to Mars, ...
  9. I would like to add another category to a green card - an open lottery similar to the diversity visa lottery with no requirements on education or skills . Allow anyone over the age of 18 (or 21) to register good for 5 years. Lottery winner, spouse and underaged children would be allowed to enter after medical and background checks. At this time there is no way other than family reunification for an uneducated person to immigrate legally.
  10. I hope you choose a different topic as the person grading the papers may unconsciously allow his/her opinions to influence your grade. The topic is just too "hot" at this time.
  11. If you cannot remain where you are after he comes to the US, you need to return to Iran or somewhere you may legally live and make sure the process gets transfers to the new location. Stop believing you are "entitled" to special consideration. You will not make friends in the US acting that way.
  12. CEE53147

    Tourist Visa for Mom

    If she - or you - even thinks she should not tell the truth, she should not even consider applying.
  13. CEE53147

    GP refusing to give tetanus vaccine

    $40 is a minor cost in the process. Make it easy on yourself and pay it. If you cannot afford the $40, you cannot afford to live in the US.
  14. Choose between your child being near you both and starting school at a different time or starting school in Aug/Sept and being away from parent. Complaining will not make a difference. You admit that you had not planned to move to the US; many CR-1 people have likely had plans to move to US long before you changed your mind. You being angry will not get you anywhere, and an "attitude" may hurt. He should be denied entry to visit as he is a likely overstay being too impatient to wait his turn. You will not get any sympathy here from the many people who have waited and will wait far longer than your husband has or will. An attitude adjustment on your part will benefit your child as well as yourself.