HELP FAST.. we didnt get married now she is traveling

[soccer9090 0]

Ok, so my fiance who is from Colombia came here and it really wasn't working out, so we decided not to get married. Well she left my apt about a week and half ago and is now traveling to all these different cities, im sure with another guy or guys. I was wondering is she allowed to do this, because she didnt come here on a travel visa and since we are no longer getting married shouldn't she leave the country right away?

I'm very tempted to right a letter to USCIS telling them we are not longer getting married and she is still here traveling without my consent. Would she get into trouble for doing what she is doing?? Is there anything I can do? at this point i dont care if she gets into trouble with all the lies she has told me.

[Anh map 2,098]

Nothing for you to do. After the 90 day window she would be in overstay.

[JFH 12,189]

and she is still here traveling without my consent.

You're not her keeper. There are no restrictions on location with the K-1 visa - she is permitted to move around the country. Yes, meeting up with other men is not what the visa was intended for but the only requirement she has is she must marry you within 90 days or go home. It's her risk if she decides to overstay and be there illegally. She's an adult. At this moment, there is nothing to suggest she will overstay. Maybe she is leaving on day 90.

[Unlockable 7,306]

If she is still within the 90 days she is free to travel wherever she wants in the country. After 90 days she will be out of status and things would get more risky for her.

Technically she is required to leave the US if she doesn't marry you.

She CAN'T legally use the visa to marry another USC.

There won't be an easy path for her to get a GC or even a work permit.

You can write a letter and withdraw affidavit for support to CYA.

[Hypnos 6,576]

There is no binding affidavit of support since no AoS has been filed.

Edited February 22, 2016 by Hypnos

[EmilyW 1,222]

She's done you a favour, dude. She obviously does not realise the requirements of her visa. I'm sure when she realises she has to marry YOU in order to stay, she will come running back begging for a second chance.

Until then, she is literally digging her own immigration grave. Let her.

[KayDeeCee 4,891]

She doesn't need your consent to travel anywhere. If you did not marry and are done, then you are done. She is not your problem. If she stays in the US illegally after her I-94 expires, then that is on her. Move on with your life.

~ Moved from K-1 Process to Effects of Major Family Changes on Immigration Benefits ~

[madtownguy 164]

There's millions of illegals in our country, I doubt they care much about your fiance. When she murders someone let them know... Hopefully a day comes where that changes. I would just move on and forget about her, it'll just ruin your life if you dwell on making hers harder.

[Boiler 43,446]

Vaguely amusing the USCIS would do something about an errant fiancee.

[Amhara 460]

Quick! Change your phone number! Change your email accounts! Block her on all social media accounts!

Don't give her one single "in" with you. I could see her calling and crying, pleading to come back to you saying her life is in danger. Sounds like you were manipulated badly. Cut all routes from her further manipulating you. She made her choice, and now you need to RUN away and stay hidden from her! No matter what she may do in her future is none of your business and you are fortunate that you didn't get married, do AOS and then have all this problems because then you would be legally liable.

Wipe your aaa----hands of her and erase her gone!

[Ortolan 381]

Only in a movie would the USCIS go on a hunt for your wayward fiancee. Count yourself really lucky to find out now, instead of after you married her.

[tamcloud 92]

If she has copies of the keys to your home, you may want to change the locks. I'm not trying to be mean, just pointing out that you may not want her to have open access to your place...especially if she really is picking up other guys.

[Russ&Caro 1,548]

If she is still within the 90 days she is free to travel wherever she wants in the country. After 90 days she will be out of status and things would get more risky for her.

Technically she is required to leave the US if she doesn't marry you.

She CAN'T legally use the visa to marry another USC.

There won't be an easy path for her to get a GC or even a work permit.

You can write a letter and withdraw affidavit for support to CYA.

If it's any solace to you, NuestraUnion is correct. She cannot marry anyone else and adjust. Transitioning to any type of work or education visa will be extremely difficult if not impossible. She can either return home by the 90th day or face a life as an illegal immigrant with all of the risk, uncertainty and poverty that that entails.

I have acquaintances who are illegal immigrants who lead hard lives here. The one advantage that they have over your ex-fiancee is after years of overstay, if they find a spouse and an enduring marriage, they can someday hope to file for a green card with the necessary waiver. Your ex cannot.

Edited February 22, 2016 by Russ&Caro

[soccer9090 0]

She was denied a travel visa right before we met. I didnt know she could use the k1 visa as a travel visa since we are no longer together but i understand there are no restrictions. Wishfull thinking she got in trouble. Than you.

[Lee&Ana 88]

I would inform USCIS that you are my together and will not be marrying. After that, move on as you have no more responsibility towards her. At what day number did she leave?