How to cancel wife's visa?

[Lucky2Lucky 2,526]

1 minute ago, BrianUSA said:

I am worried that she will go to a different apartment and change the address for the GC to arrive.

Will CBP call me to confirm if she asks them to chance the address when she enters the country? 

Maybe she will go to a new place . It’s unfortunate these things weren’t worked out prior to you both getting married and going through the immigration process. Marriage and immigration are both life changing. Highly unlikely CBP will contact you regarding her address change. She can change her address on her USCIS online account anyways.

[Unidentified 2,930]

6 minutes ago, BrianUSA said:

I am worried that she will go to a different apartment and change the address for the GC to arrive.

Will CBP call me to confirm if she asks them to chance the address when she enters the country? 

Why does it bother you that she might? 

[JFH 12,189]

6 minutes ago, BrianUSA said:

I am worried that she will go to a different apartment and change the address for the GC to arrive.

Will CBP call me to confirm if she asks them to chance the address when she enters the country? 

Nope. And you are on the hook with I-864 also. Although I doubt she will need public assistance as she seems to be a hard-working independent woman. 

[BrianUSA 35]

4 minutes ago, JFH said:

Nope. And you are on the hook with I-864 also. Although I doubt she will need public assistance as she seems to be a hard-working independent woman. 

36 year old model LOL , time will tell. 

5 minutes ago, Unidentified said:

Why does it bother you that she might? 

Because why should she come here if I no longer want her here? 

[Kartineecartoons 53]

29 minutes ago, JFH said:

I was on your side until I read this comment. You are quite right that there’s no need to get a 30-year mortgage at 45 if you live in a perfectly adequate place, etc. 

 

You are not doing her a favor by bringing her here. I do hate that arrogant attitude from the USCs who seem to think that we foreign spouses should be eternally grateful and indebted to you because you “rescued” us from our home lands and “gifted” us a better life. Ridiculous. She sounds like she is very self-sufficient with her own career. She owes you nothing. If this is a genuine marriage then bringing her here is just as much for your benefit as it is hers. 

 

Its almost as bad as the immigrants that say “I gave up everything to come here for him/her”. No, you did not. You made a life change that you BOTH wanted and so that you could BOTH live with the person you love. You do it for yourself as much as you do it for the other. 

 

Shes probably better off without you if that’s your attitude.

 

21 minutes ago, Unidentified said:

Sounds to me that you live in the old ages and she is better off without you. You're 45 and you act like a child. She is a strong independent woman and she doesn't need you. Stop thinking that you are saving her. 

 

18 minutes ago, MorganandMichael said:

It’s pretty cliche, but I think more people need to adhere to the idea of marrying someone for who they are, not who you want them to be or see them becoming.

 

If you think it’s wrong of her to expect you to work with it being hard on your body, your should probably do some looking into how hard pregnancy and childbirth can be on your body. That’s absolutely not something to force on someone who is unwilling. Not to even mention the responsibility of having a child.

 

I don’t really blame her for not wanting to bring a new person into the world with someone who is willing to just cancel a visa after 2 years of marriage. 

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[JFH 12,189]

12 minutes ago, BrianUSA said:

36 year old model LOL , time will tell. 

Because why should she come here if I no longer want her here? 

Indeed time will tell. Jerry Hall? Christie Brinkley? Both modeling into their 50s and beyond. Plus clothing companies that appear to the more mature market use more mature models. No woman in her 50s is going to buy clothes that are being modeled by a 19-year-old.  I’m almost 46 and shopped for some clothing online today and was delighted to see clothes being modeled by a middle-aged beautiful woman with grey hair. Really gave me the impression that the items would look good on me too. 

 

It’s not your choice whether she stays here or not. You don’t own her. 

Edited December 1, 2019 by JFH

[BrianUSA 35]

12 minutes ago, JFH said:

Indeed time will tell. Jerry Hall? Christie Brinkley? Both modeling into their 50s and beyond. Plus clothing companies that appear to the more mature market use more mature models. No woman in her 50s is going to buy clothes that are being modeled by a 19-year-old.  I’m almost 46 and shopped for some clothing online today and was delighted to see clothes being modeled by a middle-aged beautiful woman with grey hair. Really gave me the impression that the items would look good on me too. 

 

It’s not your choice whether she stays here or not. You don’t own her. 

But she is coming only because she is my wife! if I don't want her here and as don't want her to be my wife she should not come! isn't it fraud if she is coming here knowing I want to divorce her?!

[Nitas_man 3,100]

57 minutes ago, BrianUSA said:

I thought she was gonna change her mind, at some point she agreed to freeze her eggs just in case but then changed her mind and said she won't have fertility treatments in the future and said that she has no maternal instinct, I still thought she's gonna change her mind, what woman doesn't want to be a mother? 

Sounds like the girl already has a large grown child to support.  You come across as a controlling jerk dude.  Im unstunned at how this case turned out.

[Going through 5,668]

43 minutes ago, BrianUSA said:

I am worried that she will go to a different apartment and change the address for the GC to arrive.

Will CBP call me to confirm if she asks them to chance the address when she enters the country? 

Doubtful CBP will inform you.  

It's USCIS she has to inform of the address change, and no they won't inform you.

[Unidentified 2,930]

1 minute ago, BrianUSA said:

But she is coming only because she is my wife! if I don't want her here and as don't want her to be my wife she should not come! isn't it fraud if she is coming here knowing I want to divorce her?!

 

28 minutes ago, BrianUSA said:

36 year old model LOL , time will tell. 

Because why should she come here if I no longer want her here? 

 

She is coming because she now has a Green Card, she is a LEGAL permanent resident. She can do what she wants. She's not some Amazon package you can return. 

[Nitas_man 3,100]

3 minutes ago, BrianUSA said:

But she is coming only because she is my wife! if I don't want her here and as don't want her to be my wife she should not come! isn't it fraud if she is coming here knowing I want to divorce her?!

Seems she told you all about this up front.  

[Going through 5,668]

6 minutes ago, BrianUSA said:

But she is coming only because she is my wife! if I don't want her here and as don't want her to be my wife she should not come! isn't it fraud if she is coming here knowing I want to divorce her?!

I think it's somewhat more fraudulent that you went ahead and married her anyhow, thinking you could convince her to change her mind about not having children later.  You presented yourself as okay with it beforehand when you married her, and likely continued to present yourself as okay with it during the 2 years of marriage.  Now you've changed your mind right before her entering.

 

35 minutes ago, BrianUSA said:

Because why should she come here if I no longer want her here? 

Because you don't own the keys to the country.

[SunflowerSweet 1,321]

She sounds rad as hell, honestly. If she does end up coming stateside tell her to hit me up. I’m always saying I need to hang out with more models. 

[Nitas_man 3,100]

3 minutes ago, Going through said:

Because you don't own the keys to the country.

This dude don’t own the keys to anything

[BrianUSA 35]

14 minutes ago, Going through said:

I think it's somewhat more fraudulent that you went ahead and married her anyhow, thinking you could convince her to change her mind about not having children later.  You presented yourself as okay with it beforehand when you married her, and likely continued to present yourself as okay with it during the 2 years of marriage.  Now you've changed your mind right before her entering.

 

Because you don't own the keys to the country.

But she has a spouse visa! if I no longer want her to be my wife how can she still come here?