How to cancel wife's visa?

[Lemonslice 4,556]

Just now, BrianUSA said:

But she has a spouse visa! if I no longer want her to be my wife how can she still come here?

You have been told multiple time about your options; none of which guarantee she won't be admitted.  

About the bolded part, that is what divorce is for. Monday sounds like a good day to file.

[JC&BS 75]

6 minutes ago, BrianUSA said:

But she has a spouse visa! if I no longer want her to be my wife how can she still come here?

Because she has been granted a visa. She has gone through the steps to obtain one. 

[BrianUSA 35]

6 minutes ago, Lemonslice said:

You have been told multiple time about your options; none of which guarantee she won't be admitted.  

About the bolded part, that is what divorce is for. Monday sounds like a good day to file.

Yeah by the time I'll be done with this she'll be here already 

[BrianUSA 35]

3 minutes ago, JC&BS said:

Because she has been granted a visa. She has gone through the steps to obtain one. 

So basically if someone has a visa they can enter even if the reason for them having the visa is long gone?

[Nitas_man 3,100]

11 minutes ago, BrianUSA said:

But she has a spouse visa! if I no longer want her to be my wife how can she still come here?

Seems she can purchase her own ticket

[debbiedoo 2,339]

 

2 hours ago, BrianUSA said:

We were having arguments for a long time,  mostly because she doesn’t want to have children, I thought she would change her mind over time but I don't see this happening.

She is making much more money than me because she is a model and constantly telling me that I am not good enough and forcing me to get a new job, I have a back injury and used to work in construction but I don't work anymore, mostly rely on help from my parents, she doesn't believe me that I say I can't work and calls my lazy, she said that she doesn't want to be the only provider. she hates my house, she said she wants to move but I like this house. it's owned by my parents so I don't have to pay anything.  yes it is small but it's free, I don't want to get a 30 year mortgage at 45 just to make her happy. she is not happy with anything.

Our honeymoon was a disaster,  that's why it only lasted a week, we had a huge fight over these issues, I still wanted to work things out but I feel like she lost her interest.

Last argument was really bad, she kept saying that I am mamas boy and I feel like all she cares about is money. she said "I don't come for a third world country, I don't really need this, don't want to live in your crappy little place" she demanded that I rent a new place and rent this place out, this just makes no sense to me, she is rude and greedy. A wife should be by her husband no matter what but all she wants is comfortable life and Gucci bags, she has like 10 she keeps buying them, yes it's her money but she is my wife it makes her money my money and she doesn't ask me about these things, plus I am the one who is bringing her to this country and she is not grateful at all. Last night she said that my mom is stupid for giving me money, she said that at my age I should be helping my parents and not the other way around, what is wrong with helping your son? she doesn't respect me or my family. 

I don't want her here anymore and will be getting a divorce. I do feel like she is only using me to get a GC ( doesn't even want to open a joint bank account with me) and I will tell this to the USCIS. I don't want to see her face anymore.

If someone tells you they dont want to have children... THEY DONT WANT TO HAVE CHILDREN. If my husband comes home tonight and says ' hey, lets have a baby' id tell him to shove it! He KNOWS i dont want to have kids (neither does he, so moot point lol)

 

You sound like a controlling, stone age, me man, you woman kind of guy. That doesnt fly well with strong independent women. On top of that, you dont have the means to support her OR a kid. Another reason for not wanting to have kids.

 

It is only both of your money if you both agree to it. If not- HERS IS HERS. AND YOURS IS YOURS. well, except you dont have any. If when I was working, I bought 10 Designer handbags and bought more - thats only between ME AND MY BANK. Unless you are supporting her - it is NONE of your business.

 

And yes, at 45 you SHOULD be helping your parents. My mother is moving in tomorrow. No im not happy about it. but it is what it is until we can get her set up somewhere else. She has NEVER given me money. GROW UP.

 

 

 

1 hour ago, BrianUSA said:

I thought she was gonna change her mind, at some point she agreed to freeze her eggs just in case but then changed her mind and said she won't have fertility treatments in the future and said that she has no maternal instinct, I still thought she's gonna change her mind, what woman doesn't want to be a mother? 

Me. and MILLIONS of others. Welcome to the millenium dude. we dont have to be barefoot and pregnant from societal norms anymore.

 

 

31 minutes ago, BrianUSA said:

But she is coming only because she is my wife! if I don't want her here and as don't want her to be my wife she should not come! isn't it fraud if she is coming here knowing I want to divorce her?!

Dude, youve done got her a visa and a subsequent greencard. Youve made your bed and pretty much cant do jack squat about it.

 

6 minutes ago, BrianUSA said:

But she has a spouse visa! if I no longer want her to be my wife how can she still come here?

 

see above. visa is in hand. Too late for you to realize she meant it when she said she didnt want kids, and that she wants a MAN and HUSBAND and not a man child for her to support.

 

Kudos to her.

[Nitas_man 3,100]

Just now, BrianUSA said:

So basically if someone has a visa they can enter even if the reason for them having the visa is long gone?

According to the law, yes.  You are married.  Now.  Today.  The Immigration process is finished.  She can come.  

[JeanneAdil 6,203]

11 hours ago, milimelo said:

The embassy can call her back to cancel the visa but you’d need to act fast and send in withdrawal of I-130 petition via email to them. 

yes, they can 

Morocco embassy revoked an approved visa 

[Nitas_man 3,100]

13 minutes ago, BrianUSA said:

Yeah by the time I'll be done with this she'll be here already 

Listen dude.  There is no “done” and a CO cannot invalidate an issued visa unless you prove she engaged in fraud.  Which will be impossible after you just proved together, she did not.   You need to meet this girl halfway and start by putting yourself in her situation.  She’s a model.  You dont work.  You can’t even support yourself, much less her and a child or children.  She is the one who has to step up for you and it sounds like she was willing to make this work, but she also HAS to reserve the right to keep her career.  You cannot have it both ways.  Your best and ONLY option here if you want a marriage is to patch things up, start with an empty slate, and build a life together, even if OMG it’s not in your mamas little house.  My money’s on your parents probably filled out the affidavit for you.  

If you can’t do that, you have to let her move on.  As said before, this isn’t Amazon and she isn’t a package to return.  

Your comments about joint bank accounts and whose money is whose and gratitude  are pathetic.  I don’t know you and don’t think you’re much of a man.  Can’t imagine what she thinks.  You had no business getting into this.  Any chance you had to weasle out of it has expired.  Deal with it.

[JFH 12,189]

28 minutes ago, BrianUSA said:

So basically if someone has a visa they can enter even if the reason for them having the visa is long gone?

Yes because you are still legally married. That’s all that is required - a legal marriage entered into in good faith. She can file divorce proceedings the minute she arrives. At the time the immigration benefit was sought and granted, she fulfilled the requirements. 

[Nitas_man 3,100]

12 minutes ago, JeanneAdil said:

yes, they can 

Morocco embassy revoked an approved visa 

It requires a finding of fraud or inadmissability after the visa is issued and before US entry

It’s a high bar (probably not very high for Morocco LOL)

Edited December 1, 2019 by Nitas_man

[Downloader 197]

1 hour ago, BrianUSA said:

36 year old model LOL , time will tell. 

Because why should she come here if I no longer want her here? 

45 years old man, injured & living off his mother...LOL, that’s now....imagine what time will tell in the future! 😂

 

I think SHE WILL BE ON THE HOOK is she moves with you. 

[bmqsg5h3 12]

Only the question is whether or not her immigration visa (and/or your I-130/I-864) can be cancelled by telling the embassy or CBP that you are going to divorce your wife. I don’t think it can be done. However, if you really believe that she married you only for immigration benefits, you may try it now or report your belief to USCIS after she comes to the US. Just filing a divorce here gives her an opportunity to come here to attend a divorce mediation session. Of course, she can come on with her immigrant visa and become a LPR as she’s still your wife until the divorce becomes finalized.

[BrianUSA 35]

2 minutes ago, t-ten said:

Only the question is whether or not her immigration visa (and/or your I-130/I-864) can be cancelled by telling the embassy or CBP that you are going to divorce your wife. I don’t think it can be done. However, if you really believe that she married you only for immigration benefits, you may try it now or report your belief to USCIS after she comes to the US. Just filing a divorce here gives her an opportunity to come here to attend a divorce mediation session. Of course, she can come on with her immigrant visa and become a LPR as she’s still your wife until the divorce becomes finalized.

What do I need to do in order to prove that she used me?

[Unidentified 2,930]

1 minute ago, BrianUSA said:

What do I need to do in order to prove that she used me?

How did she use you?