Morocco Casablanca Consulate

[Lottaair 8]

Why does it matter?

Its neither here nor there. 

[Lottaair 8]

Thats a typo.i will not be paying for them he is very aware of that they have to figure that out on their own. The word "Not" is left out. 

[Lottaair 8]

Omg I know all of this. I'm not that slow to what goes on. He knows it as well. They will be fine. That is up to the rest of the family. No I'm not paying for his family. 

[Lottaair 8]

His email is in French. 

And I just translate. It id modern technology.  Easy to do. His phone is set up in French language. 

Keyboard Arabic and English. 

I have access to his emails. Simple as that. 

[SalishSea 16,835]

5 hours ago, jakejon said:

How many visits have you both had in person? 1-2? 

 

I didn’t nor would even risk that for the UK. We met 9 times within 2 years, left us broke but we couldn’t cope not seeing each other more than 12-16 weeks apart. They commended us in the UK when I done my interview for meeting regularly. I understand the fiancial restrictions though for those further apart. Regular visits are important, especially for high fraud countries. 

 

Truth be told, I wanted my husband to come to UK to live but he was more established here in US than I ever was and had a far more superior job so I came here instead.  

 

Good luck! The regular travelling my husband had between NOA1 and NOA2 was amazing!! ❤️

Regarding the visits, same here.  Even though my husband is from a low/no fraud country, and we were penpals in the 1980s and met in person in 1991, we had 9 visits in 3 years.  (14 hour direct flights and ~$1500 RT between the west coast and Auckland, New Zealand).  We are now broke, but happily married ❤️❤️❤️ 

[Lottaair 8]

That's wonderful 

[SalishSea 16,835]

1 hour ago, Unshakable Faith said:

They answered by telling you the common reasons why visas are denied.   99% of the time the consulate will not tell you why they denied you, as they just have to tell you they don't feel the relationship is bona-fide.  They don't tell you why they have those thoughts.  No one here can tell you what they don't even have for themselves. 

 

That's why people suggest a CR1 because if it's denied, you do get the reasons why and you have an opportunity to appeal.

@Unshakable Faithmakes an excellent point.  Many "denials" (or, lapses in time leading to expiration, or ad infinitum AP) are not clearly explained by the COs.  This is by design.  By not disclosing details about their vetting process, they are safeguarding that process against fraudsters.  

[SalishSea 16,835]

8 minutes ago, Lottaair said:

Omg I know all of this. I'm not that slow to what goes on. He knows it as well. They will be fine. That is up to the rest of the family. No I'm not paying for his family. 

No one said you were *slow.*  You can take or leave the advice given in this thread, but know that it comes from YEARS of personal experience and research, and stems from people genuinely wanting to help educate you on this very complex process.   It is not easy, cheap, or fast.  Casablanca is right up there with Lagos in terms of difficulty of approval for marriage based visas.

[debbiedoo 2,339]

6 hours ago, Lottaair said:

I do not need to know those processes I am aware of the fees and all of that. It is more so personal details. I have watched numerous you tube videos and read many websites.  Thanks though. 

oh but you will.

 

as i said, do what you want. you will anyways. The visa will be denied as it stands and you will have to file a CR1 and spend more time and more money.

 

but its not my bank account or life.

[debbiedoo 2,339]

6 hours ago, Lottaair said:

 No I'm not paying for his family. 

😂 thats what you think

[Going through 5,668]

7 hours ago, Lottaair said:

I do not need to know those processes I am aware of the fees and all of that. It is more so personal details. I have watched numerous you tube videos and read many websites.

 

6 hours ago, Lottaair said:

Why does it matter?

Its neither here nor there. 

 

6 hours ago, Lottaair said:

Omg I know all of this. I'm not that slow to what goes on.

 

Try to step back a little and understand that people are attempting to give you a more well-rounded view of what typically happens in cases like yours.  And generously letting you know "extra" information relevant to your situation to save you not only time but money as well. 

 

The information you've been given in this thread is based on personal experiences, years of dealing with immigration in many forms and USCIS in general, anecdotes from other members as reported before in these forums, knowledge gleamed from some who went through the same consulate, and advice from those who have been denied a K1 in the past.

 

We all know (on one level or another) what we've had to go through to be with our loved ones....The immigration journey is one that can get complicated and confusing at best...heart-wrenching and near-impossible at its worst.

 

People have stuck with this thread for pages to give you as much information as possible, asked questions (which you thought irrelevant) to be able to give better advice, and offered info on other aspects you may not have thought about while you go through the K1 process (and potentially the CR-1 afterwards).

 

No one wants to see anyone's petition fail if a relationship is real and true.  No one wants to see YOU fail.  I guess what I'm asking is try to help us help you.  More knowledge is better than less.

[Crazy Cat 39,414]

I am sorry to say that the troll meter on my computer screen is staring to register pretty high........

[Ahmed&Freda 628]

27 minutes ago, missileman said:

I am sorry to say that the troll meter on my computer screen is staring to register pretty high........

Exactly what I thought after the sperm donor comment..

 

 

[Jaquelly 1,647]

49 minutes ago, Ahmed&Freda said:

Exactly what I thought after the sperm donor comment..

 

 

Not to mention the changing stories, the email account (I have more than one, he probably does as well) and the complete disregard for literally all advice....

[agrabs 237]

Type scammed, morocco in the search area above and read the threads that come up.   NONE of those women thought it would happen to them.  Yes, it happens to smart people too!

 

People have given you so much good advice on how to proceed, not only to help you with the visa, but also to protect yourself and your responses sound like an immature child who won't listen. 

 

I've been a VJ member for almost 10 years and the members who have given you advice are regular contributors who know their stuff.  Hang around here long enough or just do a search of the changes in family topic and you will see that almost everyone of these starts off with how wonderful he was and how nice the family was until he got here and  got the green card then he  completely changed.  I know you don't want to believe this could happen - but you need to understand what you are commiting to when you or your sponsor signs that affidavit of support.  It always amazes me how many people are shocked that even if the marriage fails they are still resposible for that person for 10 years.  

 

  Everyone one of us that has been through the process wanted to be with our loved one as soon as possible.   The visa is only the first step in this long and incredibly stressful journey.   I would highly recommend you look at the CR1 (marriage Visa)  from the stand point that he gets a greencard when he arrives so he is able to work right away and its cheaper.  My husband speaks fluent english and it was very hard on him those first 6 months because once you get married and submit the Aos (Adjustment of status for the greencard)  the work permit/EAD takes 6 months to get.  Until he gets the work permit he won't be able to get a driver's license or work - This was so difficult as my husband was stuck in the house all day waiting for me to get home after I had been working all day - it was stressful on both of us.  I never thought this would have been a big deal but it was - its not like he will have lots of friends and family to hang out with  while you work.  It's lonely and easy for them to get homesick.     I can't imagine how hard that will be if he doesn't speak english.

 

     You have NO idea what you are in for.  If you choose to ignore all the valuable advice you have been given about the moroccan embassy at least take the  time to read through all the guides to understand the entire process from start to finish so you will  have an idea of what you will need to do if everything goes accordingly for you.