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Yours truly is suffering from an emotional turmoil and I plead everyone not to post anything negative. 

Thank you. 


I was here on B1/B2 visa to visit my aunt for the second time. Met someone and we dated and fell in love. Broke up twice but got back together because he pursued and he decided he couldn't live without me so we got married in August. He promised several things like getting a permanent job, filing my paperwork and all but until now I'm still helpless and paperless. My husband has no job, no enthusiasm about getting one and spent my immigration money. I only have $20 left in my name and I'm stuck here. Sold my house and car back home and I have a little boy waiting on me to get him. 


What should I do?





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1 minute ago, Maria711 said:

Easy to say if you do not love the person.

All I can suggest is you go back and re read what you posted, that is all we can go by, nobody here knows you, just what you posted.


Perhaps he needs time to get his act together, if not divorce and move on.

“If you know the enemy and know yourself, you need not fear the result of a hundred battles. If you know yourself but not the enemy, for every victory gained you will also suffer a defeat. If you know neither the enemy nor yourself, you will succumb in every battle.”

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4 minutes ago, missileman said:

But even more important if the other person doesn't love you....Life is too short to be miserable.......step back and consider what is best for you and your son.....

You have a point, and I'm sorry. I'm just not in a good situation right now.

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5 minutes ago, debbiedoo said:

i loved my ex, doesn't mean he wasn't a piece of garbage.


i loved myself more than i loved his BS


said buh bye.


best thing i ever did.

I know what you mean. Guess I'm still in that denial stage in the cycle. Which is the hardest part.

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*** Moved to "Effects of Major Family Changes on Immigration Benefits" ***




Best of luck to you and look out for you and your son's safety, peace of mind, and happiness above all else.

“When starting an immigration journey, the best advice is to understand that sacrifices have to be made; whether it is time, money, or separation or a combination of any or all.” - NuestraUnion

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