debbiedoo
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well, our package was delivered yesterday.
thats something. LOL
- Sarge2155 and Joyoussinger
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well, its off in the mail.
back to the song and dance of the waiting game....
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5 minutes ago, march16filer said:
I agree that it's a wasted cut down trees and it's definitely bureaucratic nonsense.
i mean for real, though.
up until now, the rest of the process.... okay, I got it. but this.... come ON..... ughhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh
But they are getting their 5 pound package. LOL
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I am confident I have asked stupid questions before, although I am ALSO confident it's been a LONG time.... so I think I'm okay if I ask one.... LOL
USCIS
Attn: I-751
P.O. Box 21200
Phoenix, AZ 85036-1200that's right, right? no matter where we live (I'm in virginia, if it does actually matter)
I'm sending this hunk of wasted cut down trees for bureaucratic nonsense out tomorrow and just want to make sure.
Look, I'm on a daily migraine medication that has lowered my IQ by about 20 points, so if I sound like an idiot.... it's okay, I feel like one. 🤣
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around 150 for my running shoes i believe
hubbys work boots are around 300 I think
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4 hours ago, Jorgedig said:
Hate it when I'm on a yacht and part of my hair flies off into the wind.
ive always refused to watch them, but i might have to re-evaluate JUST to see that LOL
- SalishSea, laylalex and Nature Boy 2.0
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10 hours ago, laylalex said:
I have not seen this and now I think I have to! Aren't Russ and Pao separated now?
i dont follow any of their personal lives that closely so i dont know. they did not appear TOGETHER. russ was at home and appeared on video chat. i presumed to take care of the baby so she could appear alone in all her sequined 'wrestler' glory LOL
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Has anyone else watched the Bares All that just came out (yesterday maybe?) it was all ridiculous anyway, but at the very end, Paola?
OMG. I literally looked up from what I was doing and said #######
I have never seen something so staged and fake and set up (and poorly acted) as that wrestling scene in my entire LIFE. Even for fake wrestling it was bad.
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11 hours ago, Elmarko19 said:
your right . im extremely burnt out . i dont know how to handle her and if i have her committed my stepkid will run away for sure shes already threatened . its just a horrible situation no matter what I decide to do . i work 6 days a week to support them both and so im busy busy im a business owner .
yes how can i reach you ?
If you click on my user name to the left, my profile will open. From there, you will see a 'message' option.
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35 minutes ago, Elmarko19 said:The intention was to show she is mentally not well . Not meant as offense . I’ve now determined that this is mainly a mental health issue not a legal one . I appreciate everyone’s advice . Unless I decide to get her committed which I really don’t want to do then she is my responsibility to make sure she is taken care of until she gets back to normal . It’s typically a cycle with bipolar behavior . Thanks everyone .
I know how it was intended, even if others did not. Lack of personal care that is typically normal for a person is common in a person who is depressed, in general and particularly so in BPD.
I say this, with all compassion in my heart, because my husband lived with this for twenty years. I have heard so many stories, from him, from his family, from HER family, from their friends, from his kids, even as recently as this past WEEK... this is a disease that love can not fix. With the proper meds and therapies (and her willingness to STAY on them) ... you'd have a chance. Without it...you are only postponing the inevitable. Love does not conquer all, and 'for better or worse' and 'in sickness and in health' does not apply to every situation, sadly. With each cycle she goes through, you run the risk of it getting worse. Some might not be quite as bad, but some may be, quite literally, life threatening. For either of you. or all of you. And you never know, from day to day, what you are going to wake up to.
And had my husband been in the US and not Canada, all of her commitments (6 total I think?) and other healthcare costs, likely would have bankrupted him. Her spending in general came close enough to doing that. And he made over 6 figures a year just as he does here, so it's not as though he was scraping by. I won't get into the emotional and physical toll it took on him. Those are his stories to tell if he chooses to do so, not mine.
I truly wish you the best of luck. You will need it. And if you ever want to reach out to us, please feel free to do so.
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1 hour ago, Elmarko19 said:Please yes I’m dying for any advice you can give me . She’s not on any medication at all and refuses therapy. She doesn’t leave the house , doesn’t shave and doesn’t want anyone around her . It’s hard to figure how seriously I should take her comments - but she’s like almost all the time now as she has no friends and works from home .
My husband basically says that if she is unwilling to seek (and stay in) treatment AND work on the marriage (as in counseling), that truly, it will be better and spare you more heartbreak, time, and money, to find a GOOD attorney now, and plan your departure. For your OWN protection and self interest, I would not be alone with her EVER, going forward, especially once she thinks you are talking to an attorney or getting ready to leave.
If my husband had not had children with his ex, he would have left long LONG before he did.
Assuming you have already gone through AOS (and it seems as though you have, looking back at your original post), you can not 'undo' that. Unless you have PROOF of a fraudulent marriage (which is pretty hard to do), you will be bound by that affidavit of support. NOW, that does not mean that you have to buy her groceries and pay her rent and give her spending money. You have not been married long, she should not be due any alimony (not if your attorney is worth his salt). It does mean that if she uses any social services type benefits (federal only i think, but am not positive on that) that the government can CHOOSE to have you repay them for those services or benefits rendered. I do not know that I have ever heard of it actually being enforced, but that doesn't mean it hasn't or couldnt happen. It is certainly their right to and in the contract you agreed to with them.
Good luck to you. I do not envy the journey you are about to embark on. It will be a hard one.
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Is she taking her medication? If she is not, I would not take anything she is saying as being of 'sound mind'
I will let my husband know about this post. His ex is bi polar and an ... interesting character, to put it very mildly. He has FAR more experience in dealing with these situations (the immigration aspect aside) and may have some advice.
I seriously doubt you can have the marriage annulled in any state, at this point in.
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On 8/16/2021 at 4:05 PM, beloved_dingo said:
I feel like that is a common story with cats. A lot of people aren't cat people...until they are 😂
when i was with my ex... we had i think up to 15 cats at one point?
when i say im not a cat person... i mean it.
LOL
we do have 2. my sons. remnants from the ex. when they are no longer living, there will be no more cats in my home again. ever.
i certainly dont wish them harm, we live on a farm (hey, i made a rhyme!) but yeah... not my animal. LOL
kittens are cute.
but then they turn into cats.
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a CR1 is more likely to be approved. a K1 is more likely to be denied, so you have the waiting, denial, filing a CR1, then more waiting... so you double your time...waiting. Not to mention the overall benefits of a CR1 as compared to a K1.
Nigeria is a tough consulate.
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7 hours ago, Trompe le Monde said:
lol. Busted by Jovi of all people, last seen blowing a kiss to a stripper in front of his wife. Anyway, Natalie is cray cray but most women would be too if they had to live with Mike and have Trish breathing down their neck:
Natalie: there was naked woman with boobs in his phone
Trish: what were you doing in his phone?
I'm just going to put this here:
hubbys comment on her outfit ' what in the i dream of jeannie nightmare is THAT?'
7 hours ago, Trompe le Monde said:yeah but in the early days when Mike went to Kiev they seemed so happy and in love
see, all i saw was desperation and craziness on her end. He was all in ... until the ring incident. And I dont blame him. I never would have bought her a plane ticket. visa approval or not. He was a better man than I would have been. But he loved her. He wanted to try. He should have gone with his gut (and his moms gut) and never married her when he got cold feet. but again, he tried. God love him. The only time i thought he was a total jerk (and granted, we only see what the cameras want us to see) was when he and his mom took her in the butchers shop at thanksgiving. really? total jerk move. id have walked out too if i were a vegetarian. he should have respected her beliefs enough to say 'hey, you probably want to wait in the car hun'.
and who knows what is staged and what is not.
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24 minutes ago, Nature Boy 2.0 said:
So what yall think of Natalie now. She got cold busted about having a new man
ive always thought she was a crazy loon who just wanted a green card.....
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Just now, HRQX said:
Their plans have now changed. They will now live in Brazil.
It's simple in their case because she's a dual citizen. Thus she can easily live there whenever she wants.
then i REALLY dont see the problem LOL
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so, im very tired, which means i probably shouldnt reply at all but im going to
if he doesnt want to live HERE...
why aren't you moving there? i mean, have the kid here if you want (i certainly would). but after kid is born, move there, do whatever you need to do to be legal there, and then if you decide later on that you want to move to the US... do it then.
am i missing something?
why file the K1 to begin with?
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15 hours ago, CelloLover said:
Lol, the tone in some of the responses.
Thanks to those who pointed out that there is no need to disclose additional financial information beyond salary if the amount of salary alone is sufficient.
As for those who are eager to give out any kind of information without ever stopping to think about whether or not it's actually necessary in respect to the current situation—your life, your choice.
if you think that the Federal government doesn't already KNOW all of this information, you are delusional.
So providing it to them voluntarily, should not be an issue.
it's not like you are handing it over to the cashier at a convenience store or stranger on a street or uber driver.
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you dont have to answer.
just as you dont have to marry (or want to marry) a foreigner and have them move here.
so, you can get used to divulging all of these details about your life (and trust me, this is just the VERY beginning of that), or ... find a local to marry.
your choice.
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I-751 October 2021 Filers
in Removing Conditions on Residency General Discussion
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hello old friend! Hope yall have been doing well.I remember your process seemed to take FOREVER....
yup K1, was waiting for interview, Quebec was .. being Quebec (LOL) and we ... made a convenient change to a CR1 LMAO. Quebec is STILL being Quebec and is holding his passport renewal hostage.SINCE FEBRUARY!! They charged the credit card almost a month ago, so MAYBE its finally coming... we haven't received a call or letter saying ' do this part over' again...
thanks to covid we are still paying on his storage unit up there LMAO. no matter though. as hubby says 'its just money, there's more to be made'....so it'd be GREAT to get that passport back....