Highmystic

It really tells you how unbelievable the 9th circuit has become, where they feel that entitled to shape policies that aren't even being argued before them. While I'm likely not a fan of the people Trump will flood the 9th with, it certainly needs more diversity, but more importantly, a reminder of its purpose in the form of a gut check. Courts decide cases, they don't create policy. The belief that they do is what leads to the view that Roe v. Wade is law and must be adhered to when in fact it can be reversed at any time. Similarly, the same group believe that local governments can inject themselves into policy decisions for what's clearly the federal government's domain, which is immigration. Immigration was never delegated to the states, counties, or cities to decide. The discarding of very clear rules the Constitution describes has helped set up the current form of chaos (and corruption) we've been experiencing. 

Actually, I am not sure that SCOTUS ruled on the merits, they just vacated the decision of the 9th Circuit and sent it back to them.  It will take a little more time to see the final outcome as the 9th rehears the case, but of course the makeup of that Court has changed a bit since their original ruling, so maybe the outcome will be different.

Yeah I tried that as well. They told me that was impossible to happen. 

i use it. i get every mail in my email. i still didn't recieve it. 

If you have not done so, you should go to USPS.com and create an account, so you get a email every day that you have mail coming, a scan of all the 1st class mail.  It freaks me out when I see something "out for delivery" and it is not included in my mail. Perhaps they mailed it, and was never delivered.  I get neighbors mail on occasion,  and some times they get my mail. 

If you have not done so, you should go to USPS.com and create an account, so you get a email every day that you have mail coming, a scan of all the 1st class mail.  It freaks me out when I see something "out for delivery" and it is not included in my mail. Perhaps they mailed it, and was never delivered.  I get neighbors mail on occasion,  and some times they get my mail. 

In comparison with Ghana, Philippines beneficiaries are handed out visas like candy.

It’s going to be a decision that each couple makes themselves. If we were in that situation,  I wouldn’t be sitting with “ it’s your immigration not mine.. you pay for it “. My thoughts would be it’s “ our” immigration... “ our “ life choice ... “ we“ will pay for it together.  But that’s just me.  

BTW, when her I-485 was denied, you were off the hook for her support (I-864).

67 too, 68 in a couple weeks.   However, I pretty much doubt it will return to "normal" early April.  I think, by the end of April, Early May, it will be either really great, or really bad.    The Covid-19 is just a smokescreen for things to come in to fruition and that's all I will say, but two things.. over 50K die in the US from the flu.  Vegas has NEVER shut down ever until today.  Trump was the very first ever non Chinese to ever enter the Forbidden City..  All for a reason....

She is getting a ticket and some seed money.

I wonder if the OP paid for medical, embassy, travel costs, hotels, etc  to manila (if needed to travel twice),  plus airfare to the US, or if the husband footed the bill...  If she paid,  I guess she could ask for a refund of sorts and the plane ticket home. 

Have you considered a CR-1 instead of a K-1?
 
Every couple has their own priorities, and each couple must decide which visa is better for their situation.
K-1
    Slightly faster arrival in the US   
    More expensive than CR-1    
    Requires Adjustment of Status after marriage (expensive and requires a lot of paperwork)    
    Spouse can not leave the US until she/he receives approved Advance Parole (approx 5-6 months)    
    Spouse can not work until she/he receives EAD (approx 5-6 months)    
    Some people have had problems with driver licenses, Social Security cards, leases, bank account during this period    
    Spouse will not receive Green Card for many months after Adjustment of Status is filed.
  
CR-1
    Slightly slower arrival in the US 
    Less expensive than K-1    
    No Adjustment of Status(I-485, I-131, I-765) required.    
    Spouse can immediately travel outside the US    
    Spouse is authorized to work immediately upon arrival.    
    Spouse receives Social Security Card and Green Card within 2 or 3 weeks after entering the US    
    Opening a bank account, getting a driver's license, etc. are very easily accomplished with GC, SS card, and passport.
    Spouse has legal permanent Resident status IMMEDIATELY upon entry to US.
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Save the lawyer fee and use that money to  re-file.  Appeal would be for if it was a  USCIS error.

dont worry NSA has your address. just kidding.  

I second your opinion and -probably being overly cautious- if I were in this situation I would look for a joint sponsor. Even if my husband were 5k above the poverty guideline I would still look for a joint sponsor. It's not only about current income, but it's also about the possibility of you becoming a public charge -and with only $90 above the poverty guideline, this is a possibility IMO.

I have no solid advice, but you seem like a caring person, and an honest one.  Your mistake I guess is your age and inexperience with immigration laws at that time.  We all were at one point in time.    One thing in advice,   Never say "I can't".. but "What can I do to make this work for us".. You will come up with the answer when you change your mindset  from the "poor me" syndrome.    I listen to radio on my headset when I work (I work at home, so I am a cool boss),  anyways, I was listening to the Mike Gallagher show, and he was advertising for "My Pillow". (Yes, I have them),, and he said that Mike Lindell, the inventor of My Pillow , at one time was a crack addict.  Turned his life around and now a multi multi millionaire.  We all struggle at times.  Be thankful for what you DO have in your life at the time, and think of how to make it better.  You can do it.

I have no solid advice, but you seem like a caring person, and an honest one.  Your mistake I guess is your age and inexperience with immigration laws at that time.  We all were at one point in time.    One thing in advice,   Never say "I can't".. but "What can I do to make this work for us".. You will come up with the answer when you change your mindset  from the "poor me" syndrome.    I listen to radio on my headset when I work (I work at home, so I am a cool boss),  anyways, I was listening to the Mike Gallagher show, and he was advertising for "My Pillow". (Yes, I have them),, and he said that Mike Lindell, the inventor of My Pillow , at one time was a crack addict.  Turned his life around and now a multi multi millionaire.  We all struggle at times.  Be thankful for what you DO have in your life at the time, and think of how to make it better.  You can do it.

I guess I was lucky I think that is for all who applies Via Paper not online. 

I check in pretty much daily for the past 2 years, I read, I try to educate myself.  This case is becoming typical,  K1,  marriage, divorce. or separation.   Most times, I think, is not a fraudulent plan, but 2 people falling in love on line, meeting, and then filing, getting married, and all hell breaks loose, where they can't seem to actually live together as husband and wife.  Arguments on money mostly.  They fail to recall what it was that they fell in love with in the first place.  They forget that part of "Till death do us part"..   I feel sorry for those who try and fail, and encouraged by those to try and succeed.   For those men out there, all I have to say is "A Happy Wife is a Happy Life!".. for those who can not comprehend with your own egos,.  Best of luck.  There are differences in culture for sure, learn and be strong.  I actually enjoy Rice, Fish, Egg for breakfast!  I love a partnership, which is what marriage is to be.  For those who fall in love on line,  deal with it and make it grow once it is not on line, but in person. 

Hope that was just a joke. She will be under oath and I am not a woman and dont want to say what to feel or not but in biology class we all learned that a mom will feel the baby's kicks only after 5-6 months of pregnancy. School was a long time ago so I might be wrong. 
 
Beside that sure u can mention it, if u have pregnancy care documents/ultrasound u can add it as an evidence if you wish. 
 
It should not be weighted more, but as others said might change the interviewers behaviour since we are all just humans. 
 
Congrats!

The post just above sets up what I was going to recommend.
Rather than focus on fears of the unknown, stack matters in your favor.
 
Some of these suggestions might not make sense until the closing line of this post.
 
During your ~6 weeks, plan like banshees on how to "hit the ground running" when you arrive.
This includes considering goals, and what you're "permitted" to do at each stage of your process.
For example, research volunteer opportunities (that won't "displace" a U.S. citizen from a job).
Research educational and training opportunities.  What can you study now that you can apply later?
 
It's crucial to remember that visiting isn't like living in a new country.
Therefore, plan to dedicate free time toward studying culture, slang, everyday life, etc. here in the Colonies.
(View it as a foray for knowledge rather than as your being helplessly immersed in foreign non sequiturs.)
 
This includes things as basic as going (with husband-to-be or another Colonist) to supermarkets, to gas stations, on bus rides if applicable, or simply on walks in your neighborhood or downtown so that you can point out things that strike you as different and you'd like explained.  Nothing is too basic in this regard.  It really is true that "if the details are handled, the big things often take care of themselves."
 
Construct and hone a "U.S.-style" professional resumé.
 
One way to take future pressures off is to renew your UK driver's license now, for the longest term possible.
 
Also, procure multiple (this is crucial) copies of every official personal document that would be difficult, time-consuming, expensive, or impossible to get remotely:  birth certificate, divorce certificate, university transcripts, medical/vaccination records (on doctor's or clinic letterhead), and any other potentially important "life" document that you can think of.  You may never need one or more, but you never know, and simply having them will give you a sense of relief.
 
The key point to remember is that you are in charge of your future (in tandem with husband-to-be), and your enthusiasm and engagement in this readjustment process are under your control.  Of course you'll feel homesickness and perhaps like an alienated "fish out of water" at times... but the homesickness is 100% natural, and the alienation can be minimized by figuring out exactly what's causing it:  identify it, isolate it, and conquer it.
 
I think that if you do these things, your worries about marriage failure will be minimized, diminished, or banished, because you're helping to set a firm foundation that removes a lot of overlooked items that can undercut an international marriage.

So, My Opinion is this:  Given your age, you are concerned about your well being financially, and that is a plus.  When my fiancee got here on her K1,  I was unaware but after a few months of marriage, she gave me $500 cash.  she had it "just in case" to help with air fare if it all fell apart.  In two weeks we will be enjoying our 2nd Anniversary!  10 visits between you two look great for immigration, however that was just "vacations" and fun for you and your Fiance. Living together "permanently" is a different deal.  Yes, you will get on each others nerves, yes you will argue, etc.  But that is a part of life as you well know.  A K1 can be brutal  for the immigrant spouse,  like 6 months with nothing to do. THAT is when things can heat up, get tense.  All people, old and young,  immigrant or citizen, needs space at times, just to breathe.   You are a bit more mature, not like some 20 year olds who "fall in love" over an on line video game.  I sympathize with your apprehensions,  and I wish you nothing but the best in your endeavors and your new life here in the US!  And once you get your EAD and AP,  you can go back and hug your old friends and family, then come back to your spouse!

So, My Opinion is this:  Given your age, you are concerned about your well being financially, and that is a plus.  When my fiancee got here on her K1,  I was unaware but after a few months of marriage, she gave me $500 cash.  she had it "just in case" to help with air fare if it all fell apart.  In two weeks we will be enjoying our 2nd Anniversary!  10 visits between you two look great for immigration, however that was just "vacations" and fun for you and your Fiance. Living together "permanently" is a different deal.  Yes, you will get on each others nerves, yes you will argue, etc.  But that is a part of life as you well know.  A K1 can be brutal  for the immigrant spouse,  like 6 months with nothing to do. THAT is when things can heat up, get tense.  All people, old and young,  immigrant or citizen, needs space at times, just to breathe.   You are a bit more mature, not like some 20 year olds who "fall in love" over an on line video game.  I sympathize with your apprehensions,  and I wish you nothing but the best in your endeavors and your new life here in the US!  And once you get your EAD and AP,  you can go back and hug your old friends and family, then come back to your spouse!

So, My Opinion is this:  Given your age, you are concerned about your well being financially, and that is a plus.  When my fiancee got here on her K1,  I was unaware but after a few months of marriage, she gave me $500 cash.  she had it "just in case" to help with air fare if it all fell apart.  In two weeks we will be enjoying our 2nd Anniversary!  10 visits between you two look great for immigration, however that was just "vacations" and fun for you and your Fiance. Living together "permanently" is a different deal.  Yes, you will get on each others nerves, yes you will argue, etc.  But that is a part of life as you well know.  A K1 can be brutal  for the immigrant spouse,  like 6 months with nothing to do. THAT is when things can heat up, get tense.  All people, old and young,  immigrant or citizen, needs space at times, just to breathe.   You are a bit more mature, not like some 20 year olds who "fall in love" over an on line video game.  I sympathize with your apprehensions,  and I wish you nothing but the best in your endeavors and your new life here in the US!  And once you get your EAD and AP,  you can go back and hug your old friends and family, then come back to your spouse!