Common law marriages are only recognised /registerable in some states and are not recognised by the federal USCIS for the petition you are needing. Recognised for naturalisation
Hire a celebrant who can then conduct the ceremony in your living room. Some states require 1 or 2 other witnesses to be there and sign the paperwork. .. check out your state requirements.
or do a Utah online ceremony where you and your partner are in one place and via ZOOM the celebrant is in another.