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1 minute ago, Barry Krebs said:

If that person does not marry in 90 days, she MUST leave.  Otherwise she will be am overstay.  AND she cannot marry someone else.  She will have to obtain an immigrant visa outside the US.  Questions will be asked.

I think you need to re-read the first post as I think you completely misinterpreted what's going on here...

[Highmystic 234]

8 hours ago, Roel said:

Well, I wonder if the "husband" knows that he can only do adjustment of status through the K1 petitioner and they will forever be illegal in the US.

 

 

Is the "wife" not financially responsible for her X until he leaves the country or becomes a USC? 

[geowrian 22,336]

Just now, Highmystic said:

Is the "wife" not financially responsible for her X until he leaves the country or becomes a USC? 

Nope. The I-134 signed for the K-1 visa is not enforceable. Only the I-864 (for an immigrant visa or AOS) is...and only after they get the green card.

[Boiler 43,685]

Maybe this time she should consider being the one to move, see how it goes without any additional consequences or expense.

 

I 134 may be unenforceable but I think he still counts a plus 1 for affidavit purposes.

[geowrian 22,336]

5 minutes ago, Boiler said:

I 134 may be unenforceable but I think he still counts a plus 1 for affidavit purposes.

Likely a judgement call by the CO...the I-864 instructions only states "If you have sponsored any other persons on Form I-864 or Form I-864EZ who are now lawful permanent residents, enter the number here" to calculate the household size.

[mcdull 474]

8 hours ago, Roel said:

I don't mean to be judgemental, but I'm shocked how quickly people fall in love and they are ready to commit to marriage o.O Especially after having a bad experience with scam and divorce.

I am equally as shocked to hear how many people here just happen to have a friend and that friend just so happens to have a very complicated immigration question . As if their friends are not capable of using the internet and ask a question. 

[Boiler 43,685]

Wish I had such friends........

[ramesesthe2nd 149]

If it looks like a duck, swims like a duck, and quacks like a duck, then it probably is a duck.

[Pelmeni 39]

15 hours ago, wewillmakeit said:

Her ex husband is clueless to the world and does not understand anything in the whole process 

I would wonder if she met the second guy and just decided she liked him better so is doing it over. Also, perhaps she was not very committed and chatting with the second so her husband got fed up and decided he couldn't stay married to her. I'm not saying this is true but looks suspicious. I think she needs to take some time. People sometimes confuse infatuation with love even with the best of intentions. 

[wewillmakeit 11]

8 hours ago, Pelmeni said:

I would wonder if she met the second guy and just decided she liked him better so is doing it over. Also, perhaps she was not very committed and chatting with the second so her husband got fed up and decided he couldn't stay married to her. I'm not saying this is true but looks suspicious. I think she needs to take some time. People sometimes confuse infatuation with love even with the best of intentions. 

you wonder wrong. Her husband had girlfriends in two different states and a child that he lied about in his country he ran from. Nothing suspicious here you all want to assume that the other guy had anything to do with this. My friend got used to enter usa thinking that she was loved and the person was loyal to her. her ex husband is piece of (removed) liar & liar he had this all planned out sin the first day 

Edited July 19, 2018 by Ontarkie
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[Pelmeni 39]

5 hours ago, wewillmakeit said:

you wonder wrong. Her husband had girlfriends in two different states and a child that he lied about in his country he ran from. Nothing suspicious here you all want to assume that the other guy had anything to do with this. My friend got used to enter usa thinking that she was loved and the person was loyal to her. her ex husband is piece of (removed) liar & liar he had this all planned out sin the first day 

You said earlier that her husband was clueless and didn't understand anything about the whole process and now you're saying that he schemed and planned this all so I don't really understand but I wish the very best for her.. I think that she would have better success with immigration and marriage if she just took a little time for herself and maybe got to know this person a little bit longer since you say that the relationship didn't start when she was married. it would be terrible for her if she ended up with another jerk who treated her badly. She's fortunate to have a good friend.

Edited July 19, 2018 by Ontarkie
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[Pelmeni 39]

I am truly sorry if I offended you. You know your friend much better than I do and if you say she has a good heart I believe you. People with good hearts and good intentions are often taken advantage of. This happened to her once. It would be a shame if this happened to her again and then she finally met a really good guy that was worthy of her but in a position of trying for a third K1 Visa. Hopefully this new man in her life will be patient and think of her first and give her what she needs.  I hope that she finds real love and success.

Edited July 19, 2018 by Pelmeni

[wewillmakeit 11]

1 hour ago, Pelmeni said:

You said earlier that her husband was clueless and didn't understand anything about the whole process and now you're saying that he schemed and planned this all so I don't really understand but I wish the very best for her.. I think that she would have better success with immigration and marriage if she just took a little time for herself and maybe got to know this person a little bit longer since you say that the relationship didn't start when she was married. it would be terrible for her if she ended up with another jerk who treated her badly. She's fortunate to have a good friend.

When I said he is clueless in the whole process I meant is the k1 process, adjusting of status & what he is going to deal with. I been there for her with the whole process from day one so I know what it took her to go through. After he abandoned her not to mention as his wife but pregnant that's when the truth came out. This was a plan from day one & his family was a part of it and played a roll with her too. And since everyone has something to say about the new he has been there for her since the day her since he abandoned her. So I think ppl need to stop judging and just answer the question that was asked

[EM_Vandaveer 2,370]

19 hours ago, Daisy.Chain said:

I doubt she would be approved so quickly after another K1, but it is possible. Some of the other requirements are that they:

- Show proof of relationship

- Have met in person within 2 yrs of application

- that the petitioner show she or she+co-sponsor can support both of them AND her ex as long as he's in the US.

-Both must be legally free to marry

 

No need to be able to support the ex. They never filed for AOS. He never became a LPR. She's not responsible for him.

[Going through 5,668]

On the flip side---he was even more stupid to leave before the AOS was filed/approved.  

Normally scam artists tend to stick around until they get the 2-year GC before taking off, so they have legal status to remain the US.

 

Disclaimer:  I'm not condoning marriage fraud or immigration fraud----just pointing out something.