belinda63

The adoption severed the sibling relationship. 

He can get a passport unless there is something other than his felony conviction such as unpaid child support preventing it. I check and it appears he can travel to Singapore with a felony conviction

Personally I have been a felon since 2004 and have gotten a new passport since then and traveled to several countries. 

Sorry I thought you were the petitioner. 

You can ride this out until you have your green card or

You can file for divorce.

Or you can ride it until you have the green card then file for divorce but be aware of major flags being flown if you make this choice.

Have you tried marriage counseling.

Withdraw your petition/I-864. 

No, her priority date must be current and she must be in status. She has long wait before her priority date becomes current so she should leave the US now so she will have her ban served out by the time it becomes current. Then she will go through consular processing. 

Sounds like there might be an overstay issue or else she returned home without the child. 

Yes

no such thing as the 90 day rul

Yes

Are you prepared to pay out of pocket for their health insurance. Sounds like they won't be working and they won't qualify for Medicare.

And if they ask for a DNA test what will you do. Plus this is misrepresentation and fraud. It could have serious implications down the road.

Usually it is only issues the petitioner can prove affect him that will result in an expedite.

You have plans for medical insurance for your dad?

Remember you will also have to pay the employer share of social security and medicare taxes. 

Unless they have 40 quarters (10 years) of creditable employment in the US they will never qualify for social security. They will be eligible to purchase Medicare insurance after 5 years a an LPR. They will pay for both Part A and Part B. 

You indicate the Philippines so it is even longer. Currently processing Aug 2002 so at least 21 years, children will be at least 30. 

You won't have to worry about the affidavit of support for at least 20 years and more realistically 25 years. How many people will be immigrating might also change as the children might age out or marry, spouse might divorce, a lot can happen in 25 years. 

My understanding is social security DISABILITY (which is what we are talking about here) cannot be paid if you don't live in the US. So no SS for the child or her in Columbia. She has to be resident in Georgia for six months to file for divorce so how does she plan to do this without overstaying. 

I would just ignore her unless some official court documents show up. Sounds more like she is looking for big money and a free life in the US than caring about the child.

You can either reschedule the wedding or cancel the K-1 and reapply for a CR-1 after the wedding. 

Long and short of it is if he manages to get a tourist visa you or he will have to pay all the medical expenses out of pocket. So you are looking at thousands if not tens of thousands of dollars for his medical care depending on what the issues are. He is not eligible for Medicare/Medicaid/ACA or any other US insurance as he will be a tourist and not a resident (and other reasons).

Does he have a parent or spouse in the US as a citizen or LPR who could file the waiver for him. Otherwise he will have to wait out the consequences of his actions.

Can you be more specific as to who "those" are. It is real simple, the embassy provides you with the name of the lab(s) in the US and you go and have a sample taken. The children go to the named lab in their country and have the samples taken. I have never heard of a four year back log for taking a DNA sample.

The sooner you get it done the sooner the process will continue. 

There is no way around this, either you submit the DNA samples or no visa.

Co sponsor makes enough but the sponsor doesn't.

What situation would they be walking into, is there a place for them to live, how employable would the immigrants be, ie. do they speak english and do they have job skills. Is the person sponsoring (not the co sponsor) them able to provide for them for at least several months while they find employment and housing.

You divorce and leave the US.

You weren't married long enough for either of you to receive alimony. The I-485 was withdrawn and along with it the affidavit of support. As of June 9 you are no longer authorized to work in the US. No reason to even respond to the divorce attorney unless there are major assets or money that was acquired during or brought into the marriage. The divorce will be granted by default if you don't respond. 

A waiver for the K1 would involve showing that 1. He cannot travel to visit you supported with medical evidence why he can't travel to your country or evidence that he can't obtain a visa to your country.  2.You cannot travel to any other country. It would have to be supported with strong evidence such as medical records showing your condition and why you can't travel to any other country.

Only by showing both of the above would you even be considered for a waiver for the K-1.