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8 hours ago, Ani2 said:

My ex husband had a union insurance and he would not receive any statements. He just got a proof that I was on his insurance and we sent that proof. But we sent the lease apartment for 3 years(each year) and the utility bills , for almost each month. 

my husband is in a union and we receive statements for every single time we use the insurance. Did you ever go to the doctor?

On 11/19/2022 at 9:00 PM, confusedsoul said:

I thought at his age of 62 he already past the stage of cheating and lying.  His goal for me when I get here is the not the goal I am experiencing right now 😢😢😢

a dog is a dog no matter the age

19 minutes ago, Boiler said:

I believe the LPR husband filed not the USC wife

 

So the question is which category he is in

whatever category a 'child under 21 of a LPR is...  ? sorry, i dont know off the top of my head

5 minutes ago, Chancy said:

 

Your husband is a USC?  If so, that's a long time for I-130 processing for child under 21 of a USC.

 

 

Once you get the NVC welcome letter, follow the instructions to pay fees, fill out DS-260, submit financial support and civil documents.  Process overview here -- https://travel.state.gov/content/travel/en/us-visas/immigrate/the-immigrant-visa-process/step-1-submit-a-petition/step-2-begin-nvc-processing.html

 

Does he have his RCMP police certificate yet?  If not, apply for one asap.

 

permanent resident. greencard (doesnt qualify for citizenship yet). yes we were way outside processing times but it worked well for us as he was still in university.

wasnt sure about the police cert yet, as far as long long before he could do it (same for medical). Will let hi know to do that now.

hes not under 21 NOW but at the time we filed, 2 and a half years ago- he was. Got the approval notification and told going to NVC. Another notification today saying it was sent to department of state. We told my husbands son. What do we need to do next? or what is next? He is in canada.

On 8/30/2022 at 7:32 PM, Boiler said:

It would certainly be interesting to know the demographics of those who watch

i still watch but off and on. apparently im a bit behind on whatever one angela is currently on. will have to go find it today. lol

On 9/6/2022 at 12:50 AM, laylalex said:

Is anyone watching 90 Day UK edition right now? Because if yes, I want to bring up King Richard's definition of "wife" on last week's ep. It is apparently an acronym for:

Washing

Ironing

####ing

Et cetera

 

!!!  

I just want to dropkick him. if you want a housekeeper and prostitute, you can buy those.

got the same which is why i logged in LOL. checked on uscis site and still nada. but YAY! for the 2 who HAVE been approved! light at the end of the tunnel for the rest of us!

quite common

everybody wants to be with their fiancee faster. I hate to sound insensitive, but you two are not special. You have to wait. Just like everyone else had to wait for theirs, or has to wait if theirs is currently pending.

Get used to it. EVERYTHING with USCIS is a waiting game.

On 1/30/2022 at 8:02 AM, Rocio0010 said:

 

oh my lord what a ..... ummmm interesting person and posts.

just wait when it occurs to jasmine that its likely that gino and his ex picked out that house TOGETHER.

shell have to burn it to the ground, obviously.

the level of immaturity and insecurity to me is mind boggling.

7 hours ago, SoCal2021 said:

Are you WAC (Calif Service Center)?  One year is unusually long. I have seen 4-6 months mostly for WAC. I have also read of a few instances where they skipped Bio all together  and gave final approval. 

They still send a notice that they are waiving biometrics when they do that.

OP- I would reach out to them to check and see whats going on.

15 hours ago, laylalex said:

I am traveling from Mississippi to LA on Saturday afternoon and I may very well listen to this on the ATL-LAX leg. I will take one for Team VJ 90 Day! 

 

 

https://www.podparadise.com/Podcast/1481450209/Listen/1631285829/0

So.... a metrosexual (is that still a thing?) is going to speak on being masculine. Cause when I think of masculine.... Jesse is not what I think of....

Got it.

Imma go explain to my dogs the best way to chase their tails now....

5 hours ago, Boiler said:

Looks like the husband is a LPR.

Correct. 

good morning yall.

april 2020 we filed a CR1 for my husbands (at the time) 20 year old son. Other than receiving the NOA1, we have had no notifications/communication regarding it. Which was fine as he was finishing University and we didn't expect it to go through until around when he was to graduate (obviously we wanted him to finish school before coming) and to get the application in before he turned 21. He turns 22 in April of this year.

I wouldnt really put much thought into the length of time it has been, other than I notice the date on the case history says 'invalid date'. We have received no notifications or communications regarding the petition, so I am just wondering if that is normal, or if I (or hubby since he filed the petition for his son), need to make a call to see what is going on.

pics to show exactly what I am looking at.

many people (both in the US and abroad) keep their married name after a divorce. As long as you have a divorce decree, you can go by whatever name is on everything. Make sure you list your maiden name in previously used names

i was SO happy to lose my (ex husbands) last name LOLOLOL

Looks like you'll be waiting or finding a doctor here.

I would vote for option 'B'.

1 hour ago, Jorgedig said:

Yup, and Rachel will not be able to move to England until her older child is grown, and who knows if they'll even be together by then.

i couldnt do it.

10 hours ago, Jorgedig said:

There were rumors swirling the Reddits awhile back that Rachel's baby was actually Jon's, but they tinkered with the storyline to create drama for the "first meeting."   That baby is is spitting image!

i remember that

6 hours ago, Jon&Margz said:

 

I was never a fan of Rachel and Jon.  She incessantly whined how "unfair" it was that her criminal husband wasn't getting approved for the K1 or Spousal Visa.   They're still separated by the Atlantic Ocean.   LESSON:  Choose wisely.   USCIS won't love your fiance' or be as forgiving of their past crimes - as you are.

 

Another 90DF couple was on VJ was Benjamin  (Benjami and Akinyi).   I see on instagram - it appears she made it to the US  - which surprises me a little since they "married" in Africa (traditional ceremony) while filed for a K1. 

 

The show has become a caricature of the real K1 process.  

 

PS - Andrew (who dated Amira) lives a few miles from my work.  Never met or seen him ... but definitely an ODD-DUCK!   Amira was cute - hoping the best for her.

 

 

I know sometimes you  cant help who you fall in love with but i couldnt do that (the permanent long distance). maybe if you had the money to fly back and forth for extended trips but to my knowledge, they dont.

i wondered how that would affect their process. If they kept real quiet about it and didnt MENTION it, they could get away with it I guess.

8 hours ago, Kor2USA said:

I'm fairly sure a lot of it is scripted, the couples know they should marry and adjust ASAP and I suspect some of the foreign born partners are very aware of VAWA before making the move

I remember reading Jason and Cassia (from season 2) got married before their filmed wedding in Vegas. 

Molly and Luis (my favorite 90 Dayer of ALL TIME) got married and kept the secret from production until Luis walked out and she had to come clean. She explained Luis was pushing her to get married so they could file the paperwork ASAP. 

 

I'm thinking cast members sign contracts stating they'll wait until the very last minute to get married.

People on reddit are always posting marriage certificates and figuring out the timeline of entry into country and final wedding date. They need to keep the fiction of "couples only marry around days 80-90 because they just don't know!" 

A season of 90 Day Fiance (OG) would be incredibly boring if the all foreign partners entered the US, couples get married at the courthouse after a day or two and then they get the AOS package together. We'd miss out on the requisite "you're only marrying him/her for a GC" and the "your town is so boring, I'm going to leave you if we don't move to the BIG CITY" scenes. 

 

 

paul and i used to say how very boring it would be if we were on. we actually saw each other all the time while dating, KNEW each other, our family and friends all liked each other, we dont fight, we both had good jobs and made good money... THE HORROR! lolol

11 minutes ago, Boiler said:

Anybody who googled for 5 minutes could find out the basics of a K1 what it is and what it is not.  
 

So do I believe they have found the mother load of stupid people who have no clue? A few I can accept but series after series?

exactly.....

Just now, Boiler said:

Not all of us

 

i do know there have been 90 Dayers on here and suspect a few others

 

 

its okay. i wont tell your secret. theres nothing to be ashamed of LOLOL

does the show script the stupidity and outright untruths about the process then? Because I dont see how anyone can be on VJ and not know some of these things. I know, I know, they script a fair amount. But to make up about the process - or at least not give factual information about the process- drives me insane. they can make up about the cast members. thats why we all watch after all.

cause id really hate to think they were truly all that stupid.

55 minutes ago, Jorgedig said:

When I first joined VJ, 90 Day producers would trawl the forums for bites.  I think the Ewok had to evict them.

as dumb as all the cast members are about the process, i dont think ANY of them are on VJ at ALL LOLOL

speaking of cast, allow me to do a happy dance and brag a bit.... yours truly has been cast (NO not on 90DF 🤣) as the accountant in 'Unnecessary Farce' (its a play -comedy-for those who might not know).

you be waiting. 🤣

a REAL long time.