Cancelled K1 Visa After Argument... Now Filing for a Spousal Visa. Any Issues?

[Lostinlove2900 12]

Hello everyone! 
I was an idiot and cancelled a visa petition. I was angry at my fiancé and said he fraud me into an engagement. Long story short it was an ugly argument where he used an ex against me to hurt me and not thinking straight I did that. 
 

the visa is obviously cancelled. however we decided instead of redoing the k-1 we would do the spousal. 
 

question is should I write a letter confessing I was upset and telling them I understand that visa cannot be re opened ? 
 

question 2 I plan on staying for a total of 4 months in 2021.

 

will doing that dumb letter hunt us as that’s what’s making me very anxious in applying for it ☹️

[payxibka 10,045]

Just now, Lostinlove2900 said:

Hello everyone! 
I was an idiot and cancelled a visa petition. I was angry at my fiancé and said he fraud me into an engagement. Long story short it was an ugly argument where he used an ex against me to hurt me and not thinking straight I did that. 
 

the visa is obviously cancelled. however we decided instead of redoing the k-1 we would do the spousal. 
 

question is should I write a letter confessing I was upset and telling them I understand that visa cannot be re opened ? 
 

question 2 I plan on staying for a total of 4 months in 2021.

 

will doing that dumb letter hunt us as that’s what’s making me very anxious in applying for it ☹️

People change to spousal all the time

[Lostinlove2900 12]

Just now, payxibka said:

People change to spousal all the time

Will they use that letter against us? Since it was so soon  

[Boiler 45,665]

Which Consulate?

[Lostinlove2900 12]

2 minutes ago, Boiler said:

Which Consulate?

South Africa 

 

[Boiler 45,665]

I would not do anything, might be good idea to be at the Interview if the issues comes up. But you have a loong time before that to generate good back story.

[aaron2020 11,651]

10 minutes ago, Lostinlove2900 said:

Will they use that letter against us? Since it was so soon  

It depends on what you wrote in the letter.

If it was a simple withdrawal, then no problem.

If you accused him of fraud in the letter, then expect that to be looked at.  

[Dashinka 24,594]

I would think a letter might only be appropriate if you were planning on pursuing a second K1 application, but changing to a spousal visa, I would not worry about it.  As @Boiler suggested, you might want to plan on being at the interview in case any questions come up.  Beyond that, I would focus on the future rather than the past.

[Lostinlove2900 12]

Just now, Dashinka said:

I would think a letter might only be appropriate if you were planning on pursuing a second K1 application, but changing to a spousal visa, I would not worry about it.  As @Boiler suggested, you might want to plan on being at the interview in case any questions come up.  Beyond that, I would focus on the future rather than the past.

Thanks...as I am very anxious about that dumb letter wish I never sent it in the first place . 

[Boiler 45,665]

2 minutes ago, Lostinlove2900 said:

Thanks...as I am very anxious about that dumb letter wish I never sent it in the first place . 

Did you say anything other than withdrawing?

[Lostinlove2900 12]

2 minutes ago, Boiler said:

Did you say anything other than withdrawing?

I said he frauded me into an engagement and was wanting to get a girl pregnant as it was what he told me while mad at me so I reacted in anger 

Edited December 16, 2020 by Lostinlove2900

[Boiler 45,665]

Just now, Lostinlove2900 said:

I said he frauded me into an engagement and was wanting to get a girl pregnant as it was what he told me while mad at me 

I would expect that you will be asked about that.

[Dashinka 24,594]

Just now, Lostinlove2900 said:

I said he frauded me into an engagement and was wanting to get a girl pregnant as it was what he told me while mad at me 

OK, it was not clear to me that you had already sent a letter.  Yeah, this might be asked about.

[designguy 1,179]

2 minutes ago, Lostinlove2900 said:

I said he frauded me into an engagement and was wanting to get a girl pregnant as it was what he told me while mad at me so I reacted in anger 

Expect extra scrutiny and be ready to show evidence that its a serious relationshio

[Crazy Cat 41,981]

2 minutes ago, Lostinlove2900 said:

I said he frauded me into an engagement and was wanting to get a girl pregnant as it was what he told me while mad at me so I reacted in anger 

Likely to be discussed.  I strongly recommend that the petitioner be present at the interview.