Huge age difference

[Just Paul 4,591]

1 hour ago, HelpGuys12 said:

We decided to Marry at the first visit but she is gonna visit me at least 2 times before my interview and we just hope the best we will just try to spend more time together as we can and thanks to everyone who helped

She needs to visit a few times before marriage and meet your family.  After marriage she still needs to spend face to face time with you.   

 

Getting the visa will not be fast or inexpensive.   You know there are going to be issues and having more visits and not getting married on the first visit will be beneficial in the process.

 

We have a 23 year age gap and met online as well.  The first time we met we knew we would marry.  We meet 3 more times with the longest visit being a month.  A year after we met we married and ended up moving to Mexico.  It would have been easier to interview in the Philippines but in Mexico the age gap isn;t as common and I had to go to the interview as well.  That was only with one red flag.

 

You have multiple red flags.  Not marrying on the first visit will remove one.  Her working on her finances will remove another.  Having more quality visits will help with the age gap.

[HelpGuys12 3]

33 minutes ago, missileman said:

OK.  Great. But there are people out there who take advantage of single American women.   It is very important that both the US citizen and the beneficiary have all the information.  Please tell her it is very important that she joins us here. 

How can she join my topic

[Deagle 494]

6 minutes ago, HelpGuys12 said:

How can she join my topic

The same way you did.

[Gorkhali 213]

32 minutes ago, HelpGuys12 said:

How can she join my topic

She needs to signup first. Once signed up, she can access the reply option.

 

 

[Gorkhali 213]

You have received some great suggestions. You are 19. Dude, you need to focus on studies and make something out of yourself.

 

No kidding this is uphill battle my friend.  We had age difference (not as much as your's thou). It took us around 4 years (1st time being rejected) and a lot of money (for lawyers which we didn't needed but we had just for peace. I knew more than those lawyers) and tons of endless nights in tears and heart break for not being there when your significant other needed you, plus endless amount of time off and ton of money to travel and be with each other. Read my journey and you will see what kind of ####### we dealt with.

 

Honestly, cultural things comes in play and IO will deny your petition even before you step in for interview. You may get through NVC but your petition will be denied during interview. Bud, this ain't dress rehearsal this is life.  If you love her and really want to make her happy and see happy, you should spare her from going through this emotional roller coaster. This process is not for weak heart my friend.

[SalishSea 16,806]

This is one of those threads for which I really hope the incognito immigration officers are here on VJ.....

[Just Paul 4,591]

good for the end of the year watching

[SalishSea 16,806]

Just now, Paul & Mary said:

good for the end of the year watching

And Missileman's dossier.

[Maryann 123 0]

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Edited December 27, 2019 by Maryann 123

[Cryssiekins 976]

Just now, Maryann 123 said:

Alright everyone she signed in she got my topic and if u have something to tell her she sees that and she is replying in a min. a lot of u wanna talk to her

LOLOL you forgot to switch accounts.  Excellent try though.

[laylalex 7,249]

Just now, Cryssiekins said:

LOLOL you forgot to switch accounts.  Excellent try though.

To be fair, they might both have the login info. We should be able to tell quickly who's who.

[Deagle 494]

1 minute ago, Maryann 123 said:

Alright everyone she signed in she got my topic and if u have something to tell her she sees that and she is replying in a min. a lot of u wanna talk to her

Dude you are busted. 

[Maryann 123 0]

2 minutes ago, Cryssiekins said:

LOLOL you forgot to switch accounts.  Excellent try though.

 

[Just Paul 4,591]

3 minutes ago, Cryssiekins said:

LOLOL you forgot to switch accounts.  Excellent try though.

I did have to setup my mom's facebook.  Maybe he had to help her?

[Maryann 123 0]

Just now, Maryann 123 said:

 

i dont have any reasons to lie im talking seriously here and im here about the future of me and a woman i love she signed in from my google account and when i confirmed her account opened in my browser so u should guys know what u talking about