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[MoClever 7]

Dears , I'm on NVC Step i Paid the First invoice and now my wife telling me that she can't do the affidavit of support for me although her income is enough

but she is saying she is big responsibility and she scared about it , is there any solution please ? 

[Crazy Cat 39,218]

No solution unless your wife either decides to sponsor you or she finds a joint sponsor.......It seems highly unusual that a petitioner is unwilling to sponsor her spouse.......I think there is another issue here....good luck.

[MoClever 7]

3 minutes ago, missileman said:

No solution unless your wife either decides to sponsor you or she finds a joint sponsor.......It seems highly unusual that a petitioner is unwilling to sponsor her spouse.......I think there is another issue here....good luck.

Can we find a joint sponsor even if she can sponsor me ?? 

 

[Crazy Cat 39,218]

5 minutes ago, MoClever said:

Can we find a joint sponsor even if she can sponsor me ?? 

 

No, unless the immigration officer requires it..........as I said, it seems unusual that a petitioner, who is financially able to sponsor his/her spouse, refuses........I would have a serious talk with her....the "ball is in her court".

Edited October 22, 2018 by missileman

[Khallaf 646]

21 minutes ago, MoClever said:

Dears , I'm on NVC Step i Paid the First invoice and now my wife telling me that she can't do the affidavit of support for me although her income is enough

but she is saying she is big responsibility and she scared about it , is there any solution please ? 

I am not understanding why your wife is unwilling to do AOS papers?

 

and why do you mean she CAN'T do it?

[debbiedoo 2,339]

your wife HAS to sponsor you. She could ALSO find a co sponsor if income was an issue but SHE has to sponsor you.

 

or you leave.

 

those are the options.

 

And she should have known this was coming for a VERY long time. Something is going on. What that is, i dont know, but this is not new news, this is not unexpected, and there is no work around. I cant IMAGINE telling  my husband (once we reach AOS stage) that ' yeah ... this is a big deal. sorry i cant do it'.

 

unless i was wanting out of the marriage.

[Khallaf 646]

6 minutes ago, debbiedoo said:

your wife HAS to sponsor you. She could ALSO find a co sponsor if income was an issue but SHE has to sponsor you.

 

or you leave.

 

those are the options.

 

And she should have known this was coming for a VERY long time. Something is going on. What that is, i dont know, but this is not new news, this is not unexpected, and there is no work around. I cant IMAGINE telling  my husband (once we reach AOS stage) that ' yeah ... this is a big deal. sorry i cant do it'.

 

unless i was wanting out of the marriage.

looks like they are not adjusting from here, looks like they are waiting case completion so they can get to interview stage.

 

[Lemonslice 4,553]

42 minutes ago, missileman said:

No solution unless your wife either decides to sponsor you or she finds a joint sponsor.......It seems highly unusual that a petitioner is unwilling to sponsor her spouse.......I think there is another issue here....good luck.

His wife would still have to be the main sponsor. 

[debbiedoo 2,339]

1 minute ago, Khallaf said:

looks like they are not adjusting from here, looks like they are waiting case completion so they can get to interview stage.

 

doesnt change the fact there is no other option than the wife sponsoring. or not moving at all.

 

OP - how long have you known this woman and how many times have you seen her in person?

 

 

[Lemonslice 4,553]

50 minutes ago, MoClever said:

Dears , I'm on NVC Step i Paid the First invoice and now my wife telling me that she can't do the affidavit of support for me although her income is enough

but she is saying she is big responsibility and she scared about it , is there any solution please ? 

Could you sponsor and support her to move to your country for her few years? That might help build her confidence in you/your relationship.

[Crazy Cat 39,218]

1 minute ago, Lemonslice said:

His wife would still have to be the main sponsor. 

Yes, I found that after I posted. If her income qualifies, she has to sponsor him unless the immigration officer requires another sponsor.....Thanks.

[Crazy Cat 39,218]

2 minutes ago, Lemonslice said:

Could you sponsor and support her to move to your country for her few years? That might help build her confidence in you/your relationship.

Agree.  There are deeper issues here.

[Going through 5,668]

Past threads seem to put a bit more meat on this issue.

Without your wife sponsoring you, no other options.

 

[little immigrant 800]

You can tell your wife you'll naturalize under the 3 year rule and then she'll be off the hook. 

[Illiria 980]

16 minutes ago, little immigrant said:

You can tell your wife you'll naturalize under the 3 year rule and then she'll be off the hook. 

He could promise anything but there would be nothing his wife could do to ensure that he did in fact do it and by that time the wife would be on the hook until he either reached 40 quarters of work, gave up the green card, or he died.