K1 - Married less then a week abandoned marriage

[AQUAENERO 5]

Ok thanks I will tell her

[N-o-l-a 7,167]

If she's got a lawyer let him/her figure it out. It shouldn't be your place to help her game the system.

[Unlockable 7,306]

There will always be someone somewhere that will say "you can do this" or "you can do that' to give the person a false sense of hope.

Forced to eat American food?

Wasn't allowed to sleep?

He abused her because he once had a DUI?

A lot of BS being spewed

Edited October 14, 2016 by NuestraUnion

[Rafael G 14]

Once again history repeats itself, uses the K1, and after a short time want to separate, the government should see it with a cheat, people who are CR1 wait months for rediscover their families.

[abhi_meli 150]

It's hard for her to adjust without any proof of Domestic Violence. USCIS has heard all these stories,probably, thousand times.

[Blondie26 43]

Sounds like a classic case of "green card girl". Sorry, but this story is pegging out my BS meter.

Exactly what's on my mind until I saw your post. Plain case. These are the people making it difficult for genuine cases or partners to get visas. All that hard work from the petitioner in vain.

[randomstairs 270]

It sounds to me like she is the one abusing her husband and gaming the system. I've seen cases where the immigrant partner all of a sudden acquires new vocabulary in domestic violence law. Clearly there are lawyers out there making money on these.

But then again if he wanted sexual reward to which she was not fully consenting, that may make him look very bad in the eyes of the law too. It's hard to separate reality from fiction when her motifs are so obviously unrelated to actual marriage. She should go back to DR before her I-94 expires and drop the whole thing. It's deeply disturbing.

[AQUAENERO 5]

I agree with everyone...and I told her it was bad. She came got married and someone told her that's all she needed.

She left. She was told she can AOS on her own.

I shown her all the replies of basically what I told her and honestly in DR a lot of people get here and dump the USC never seen it in a week.

I don't know if he did force her to do anything it seems he wanted to have relations with his wife like any normal person and she refused he insisted till she gave in. But I d k I'm an outsider just thought it sounds suspect.

I will let her know to leave once visa expires not sure if she will.

[dreamzunlimited 16]

I hope USCIS reads all these comments. Its deeply disturbing how people misuse the system and the real cases wait forever. We(CR1) have to front load documents like a PhD thesis and remain under scanner......people like these just get away with it. I feel like reporting to uscis myself.

[Latonia 29]

This is very sad because if she stays in this country after her visa expires then when she is caught illegally without green card and get deported back to her home then she is most likely going to be banned from the USA of ever coming back here....but what i think happened is that she met this older man who was stable financially and she was young and most likely was not attracted to him sexually but saw her only way here....it happens all the time but we are only hearing one side to this story...but she must know that if everything is not done according to the laws of the K1 visa then she is at risk of being banned from the USA for fraud because the K1 visa is a conditional (promise) visa and everyone here knows that....for her AOS has not even been done and processed yet and your friend is at risk of being banned if caught...marrying a US citizen is not all she needs to do in order to be here in the states its a process and she stopped at the beginning level of the K 1 visa...and she can't use DUI as a way out because that was discussed in her K1 interview im sure because she knew that before marrying him and the immigration lawyer will look at that as well...but if he give her money for clothes then you have to wonder because a person that verbally abuse their spouse or mate they usually do not take interests in how they look or dress....hope all is well

[AQUAENERO 5]

this is true I have told her the same. I met her in a FB K1 group and she's a very pretty girl and her husband is older but also a very nice man from the looks of things.

I am an outsider just trying to let her know her options.

I unfortunately am limited into helping her anyway because I am going through my own K1 journey lucky for me my spouse did not leave in a week.

I am afraid of associating too much with her as she wanted to come stay in my home since she has no where to go.

and I cant help her I cant subject my case to help her.

Edited October 14, 2016 by AQUAENERO

[LionessDeon 2,060]

First you said he threw her out on the street. Then you said she left and then took money and left. She came here believing all she had to do was marry him, claim abuse, and she could still adjust. Guess she'll be finding out the hard way. Make that 11 million +1 illegal immigrants in the country.

Yes, please stay away from her.

Edited October 14, 2016 by LionessDeon

[AQUAENERO 5]

First you said he threw her out on the street. Then you said she left and then took money and left. She came here believing all she had to do was marry him, claim abuse, and she could still adjust. Guess she'll be finding out the hard way. Make that 11 million +1 illegal immigrants in the country.

Yes, please stay away from her.

yup she says I married him on Saturday the 8th and he forced me out of the house on the 9th.

however she has no one in Texas and she managed to buy a plane ticket (her cousin) to come to NYC.

I met her in a K1 FB group and I believe she states someone on there and her cousin told her she can adjust without spouse which I told her she couldn't.

the reasons she gave me for abuse were:

1-hes only a plumber

2-he made her eat American food

3-and he wouldn't let her sleep because he wanted adult time.

I never heard he forced her to have adult time or to eat.

I told her I would post so she can see I am telling her the truth but shes not listening to me and wanted to come stay in my home.

I cannot have an illegal person in my home especially since im doing everything right in my own relationship and don't want it to jeopardize me and my case.

my husband also says since he's from DR (and knows how woman there can be) he doesn't want her in the home....god forbid she try and say he did something to her since she claims abuse so easily.

and he wants no problems with our marriage.

Edited October 14, 2016 by AQUAENERO

[B&Z 201]

yup she says I married him on Saturday the 8th and he forced me out of the house on the 9th.

however she has no one in Texas and she managed to buy a plane ticket (her cousin) to come to NYC.

I met her in a K1 FB group and I believe she states someone on there and her cousin told her she can adjust without spouse which I told her she couldn't.

the reasons she gave me for abuse were:

1-hes only a plumber

2-he made her eat American food

3-and he wouldn't let her sleep because he wanted adult time.

I never heard he forced her to have adult time or to eat.

I told her I would post so she can see I am telling her the truth but shes not listening to me and wanted to come stay in my home.

I cannot have an illegal person in my home especially since im doing everything right in my own relationship and don't want it to jeopardize me and my case.

my husband also says since he's from DR (and knows how woman there can be) he doesn't want her in the home....god forbid she try and say he did something to her since she claims abuse so easily.

and he wants no problems with our marriage.

Why did she fly to New York, of all places?

She sounds like a complete user. If I were you, I'd even stop trying to help her. Let her make her own mistakes and keep yourself out of it. Let her cousin buy her a plane ticket home to the DR.

Hopefully her "husband" files for an annulment.

Edited October 14, 2016 by B&Z

[Mollie09 1,543]

Probably because NY is more welcoming than Texas, I'd assume. She probably already knows other people there and can integrate into a community more easily and decide to stay illegally.

Edited October 14, 2016 by F1H1I130