SarahX20

That is so sweet of you to say. Sarah  is a friend worthy of helping believe me when I tell you that. It’s recovery time for her and as I said, better to know now than later.  
Amen!!  That’s what I said. Best revenge is moving on, having fun and most of all being happy 

Thank you to everyone. I finally was able to get access to the site. I will have some questions for members who are familiar with consulates. I’m still learning how to work site. If its ok can I post what I need help with here? Is this the right area? 

That is so sweet of you to say. Sarah  is a friend worthy of helping believe me when I tell you that. It’s recovery time for her and as I said, better to know now than later.  
Amen!!  That’s what I said. Best revenge is moving on, having fun and most of all being happy 

Congratulations! So happy for you! 

No he was both player and fraud. I have some evidence and it will be his word against mine. I will bring witnesses. As the lawyer in jordan told me (and others out there) and I will quote him because he knows as he seen and processed for them. He said many guys did this and they got away with it. No one knows or finds out until many years later. Seems innocent. They create an uncomfortable atmoshphere for their american wives. Deliberately making it unbearable. Like he decides to be lazy, unemployed or UNDERemployed he said, purposely want to be unattractive, mean, creates problems so the divorce is initiated by the american wife. Once granted they take a trip back home. Meet with their past love and get married. She comes here to live with him. All planned. He said maybe it is not his long time love. But he ALWAYS RETURNS home to marry the younger country girl of same culture and religion. I wish he warned me of this when I first met him in Jordan when I had him consult with me on our K1. He met with my ex after I filed D160 and I wish he said something to me then. He said there is not way of knowing. Some do stay married. For those that dont this is what happens. This one is not going to get away with it as I found out before he got his Visa and i will make sure he never steps foot here!!. 

The new one. The old one I don't think it's getting updated anymore. The new one usually gets updated early in the morning before 7:00 am eastern time. 

You guys! We are approved!

Sometimes I wake up and I just dont wanna think about it anymore. as you know they asked for a smiple document from me so I have no idea why I have to wait 60 days and whats make it even worse is the embassy appointments available is  in June/July , so even if I get approved now and try to finish everything asap I'm still stuck somehow. 

Sorry, English only in the upper forums. What country are you from?

English only.

No he was both player and fraud. I have some evidence and it will be his word against mine. I will bring witnesses. As the lawyer in jordan told me (and others out there) and I will quote him because he knows as he seen and processed for them. He said many guys did this and they got away with it. No one knows or finds out until many years later. Seems innocent. They create an uncomfortable atmoshphere for their american wives. Deliberately making it unbearable. Like he decides to be lazy, unemployed or UNDERemployed he said, purposely want to be unattractive, mean, creates problems so the divorce is initiated by the american wife. Once granted they take a trip back home. Meet with their past love and get married. She comes here to live with him. All planned. He said maybe it is not his long time love. But he ALWAYS RETURNS home to marry the younger country girl of same culture and religion. I wish he warned me of this when I first met him in Jordan when I had him consult with me on our K1. He met with my ex after I filed D160 and I wish he said something to me then. He said there is not way of knowing. Some do stay married. For those that dont this is what happens. This one is not going to get away with it as I found out before he got his Visa and i will make sure he never steps foot here!!. 

That is so sweet of you to say. Sarah  is a friend worthy of helping believe me when I tell you that. It’s recovery time for her and as I said, better to know now than later.  
Amen!!  That’s what I said. Best revenge is moving on, having fun and most of all being happy 

Thank you to everyone. I finally was able to get access to the site. I will have some questions for members who are familiar with consulates. I’m still learning how to work site. If its ok can I post what I need help with here? Is this the right area? 

so Ill re-write it here, to answer the poster GOING THROUGH comment, I have evidence that myself and the other woman were sent the same romantic posts and during the duration of our relationship. He claimed her sent it to her years ago and she posted it recently but I cant take his word for it. I have chat messages bween me and two sources. Not much else? I sent a statement I hope his visa doesnt get issued. 

That is so sweet of you to say. Sarah  is a friend worthy of helping believe me when I tell you that. It’s recovery time for her and as I said, better to know now than later.  
Amen!!  That’s what I said. Best revenge is moving on, having fun and most of all being happy 

No he was both player and fraud. I have some evidence and it will be his word against mine. I will bring witnesses. As the lawyer in jordan told me (and others out there) and I will quote him because he knows as he seen and processed for them. He said many guys did this and they got away with it. No one knows or finds out until many years later. Seems innocent. They create an uncomfortable atmoshphere for their american wives. Deliberately making it unbearable. Like he decides to be lazy, unemployed or UNDERemployed he said, purposely want to be unattractive, mean, creates problems so the divorce is initiated by the american wife. Once granted they take a trip back home. Meet with their past love and get married. She comes here to live with him. All planned. He said maybe it is not his long time love. But he ALWAYS RETURNS home to marry the younger country girl of same culture and religion. I wish he warned me of this when I first met him in Jordan when I had him consult with me on our K1. He met with my ex after I filed D160 and I wish he said something to me then. He said there is not way of knowing. Some do stay married. For those that dont this is what happens. This one is not going to get away with it as I found out before he got his Visa and i will make sure he never steps foot here!!. 

Thank you to everyone. I finally was able to get access to the site. I will have some questions for members who are familiar with consulates. I’m still learning how to work site. If its ok can I post what I need help with here? Is this the right area? 

@KlametJourney you will surely need to edit one of your top 10 stories because few months back there was a case here on Vj of a man who successfully immigrated to the US to marry his fiancée and later, she discovered that he was in a gay relationship with another man who just could not qualify to bring him to the states so he used the unfortunate lady to get to the states. Somany terrible things happen nowadays and not just from Africa
 
Btw the dude in question is a french citizen and is back in France now from what I read on the post at that time.

And live well. It's the best revenge.

I have heard many stories where GENIUS attempts to trick spouses or defraud the system in getting to the US  but never anything like this. I though these type of stories can only be heard from Africa but I guess I was wrong and This is definitely in the top 10 of my all time stories.
 
So sad to see this lovely woman going through this ordeal but at the same time happy to see she has a strong friend that are helping her along.
 
Thank you @SJordanS, I wish anyone in similar situation would get a friend like you!
 
 

No he was both player and fraud. I have some evidence and it will be his word against mine. I will bring witnesses. As the lawyer in jordan told me (and others out there) and I will quote him because he knows as he seen and processed for them. He said many guys did this and they got away with it. No one knows or finds out until many years later. Seems innocent. They create an uncomfortable atmoshphere for their american wives. Deliberately making it unbearable. Like he decides to be lazy, unemployed or UNDERemployed he said, purposely want to be unattractive, mean, creates problems so the divorce is initiated by the american wife. Once granted they take a trip back home. Meet with their past love and get married. She comes here to live with him. All planned. He said maybe it is not his long time love. But he ALWAYS RETURNS home to marry the younger country girl of same culture and religion. I wish he warned me of this when I first met him in Jordan when I had him consult with me on our K1. He met with my ex after I filed D160 and I wish he said something to me then. He said there is not way of knowing. Some do stay married. For those that dont this is what happens. This one is not going to get away with it as I found out before he got his Visa and i will make sure he never steps foot here!!. 

Thank you to everyone. I finally was able to get access to the site. I will have some questions for members who are familiar with consulates. I’m still learning how to work site. If its ok can I post what I need help with here? Is this the right area? 

No he was both player and fraud. I have some evidence and it will be his word against mine. I will bring witnesses. As the lawyer in jordan told me (and others out there) and I will quote him because he knows as he seen and processed for them. He said many guys did this and they got away with it. No one knows or finds out until many years later. Seems innocent. They create an uncomfortable atmoshphere for their american wives. Deliberately making it unbearable. Like he decides to be lazy, unemployed or UNDERemployed he said, purposely want to be unattractive, mean, creates problems so the divorce is initiated by the american wife. Once granted they take a trip back home. Meet with their past love and get married. She comes here to live with him. All planned. He said maybe it is not his long time love. But he ALWAYS RETURNS home to marry the younger country girl of same culture and religion. I wish he warned me of this when I first met him in Jordan when I had him consult with me on our K1. He met with my ex after I filed D160 and I wish he said something to me then. He said there is not way of knowing. Some do stay married. For those that dont this is what happens. This one is not going to get away with it as I found out before he got his Visa and i will make sure he never steps foot here!!. 

No he was both player and fraud. I have some evidence and it will be his word against mine. I will bring witnesses. As the lawyer in jordan told me (and others out there) and I will quote him because he knows as he seen and processed for them. He said many guys did this and they got away with it. No one knows or finds out until many years later. Seems innocent. They create an uncomfortable atmoshphere for their american wives. Deliberately making it unbearable. Like he decides to be lazy, unemployed or UNDERemployed he said, purposely want to be unattractive, mean, creates problems so the divorce is initiated by the american wife. Once granted they take a trip back home. Meet with their past love and get married. She comes here to live with him. All planned. He said maybe it is not his long time love. But he ALWAYS RETURNS home to marry the younger country girl of same culture and religion. I wish he warned me of this when I first met him in Jordan when I had him consult with me on our K1. He met with my ex after I filed D160 and I wish he said something to me then. He said there is not way of knowing. Some do stay married. For those that dont this is what happens. This one is not going to get away with it as I found out before he got his Visa and i will make sure he never steps foot here!!. 

I saw you original response so seems that there is no doubt he was a player but being a player is not the same as Fraud.