Withdrawal of second application, future application problems?

[dirtyhippiegirl 85]

2 hours ago, MorganandMichael said:

This thread actually reminded me of my favorite type of user on VJ (other then all the terrible women ofc!).

 

Middle age and older dudes who import girlfriends half their age or younger to the US because their aren’t attractive or rich enough to find American sugar babies.

 

Nah. You got it all wrong. They can't attract American women because we are all feminazis who are just one step away from letting ourselves get fat, sexless, and butch before divorce raping them, anyway. Then it's all like, six months later, halp halp my imported pinay wife that could be my daughter's age isn't happy that I live in a single wide with my mom and she's going to leave me.

[SunflowerSweet 1,321]

1 minute ago, dirtyhippiegirl said:

Nah. You got it all wrong. They can't attract American women because we are all feminazis who are just one step away from letting ourselves get fat, sexless, and butch before divorce raping them, anyway. Then it's all like, six months later, halp halp my imported pinay wife that could be my daughter's age isn't happy that I live in a single wide with my mom and she's going to leave me.

You went in much harder than I was going too, but I do not disagree aha

[ilovelondon 22]

maybe you find something wrong with your third foreign fiancee again.😄think it over before applying.

[EmilyW 1,222]

8 hours ago, Jorgedig said:

HA!  Totally agree.  This VJ archetype is even discussed over on Reddit.

Indeed! I remember a thread (can't remember if it was on this forum or another) of a group of American men talking about their Filipino wives as if they were Crufts contestants.  Asking about the best vitamins to keep their wives hair nice.  Exercises their wives could do to maintain their figures (including a couple of complaints about how their wives had put on weight once in America and how unacceptable it was) .  How they could teach their wives to be good wives.

 

I guess, for some, they're importing a product, not a human, and they want to get the best out of their investment.

 

But, dang, these poor women having to deal with those men.

Edited October 4, 2019 by EmilyW

[Nitas_man 3,100]

You girls are harsh.  We aren’t all like that.

[Fogi 91]

14 hours ago, MorganandMichael said:

This thread actually reminded me of my favorite type of user on VJ (other then all the terrible women ofc!).

 

Middle age and older dudes who import girlfriends half their age or younger to the US because their aren’t attractive or rich enough to find American sugar babies.

 

Then they are here posting again a few month after the wedding asking how to cancel their AOS, pull their sponsorship and have them wives because they dared have an opinion on something or are “acting up” or “misbehaving”.

 

(Those quotes are actual quotes btw)

 

Anyway, good luck. Hopefully whoever is handling your case is less judgmental than me! ❤️

I lived in Manila for 5 years. The crusty old white dude in socks and sandals with a dime on his arm is a top employer.

[Aussielad 37]

21 hours ago, humptydumpty12345 said:

I applied January 2018 for a k1, it was approved by USCIS and went through the embassy in September 2018; just as our relationship was effectively over (we (she) started to argue too much and it became to "rocky" to sustain; I had not seen her in several months) so the girl broke contact and we did nothing with the visa, I dont know what she said to the embassy person who contacted her.

 

In June 2019 I applied for another visa (different fiancee from different country that I had met around May 2018 while my earlier relationship had declined; I never actively dated both at once, I never saw my first fiancee in person after March 2018). That second application recently came back to me for request for evidence, asking again about the waiver needed since I had applied for a previous K1 within the two year period. I explained the situation as best I could.

 

"Hypothetically speaking", supposing I just found out my current fiancee is cheating on me, etc., as in just now I found out, and is no longer suitable for marriage, is it best to withdraw the application as soon as I am sure the relationship is over? I previously did not in my first fiancee because I wasn't sure if we would get back together; Also if withdrawn before approval will this second application for a K1 "count" in future applications I may make? SO I will need additional waivers? I am able to explain the reasoning of each application, but I worry I could be effectively blocked from marrying a foreign spouse for many years. The reality is the dating scene as such it is here means my future spouse will be probably an overseas citizen.

 

Also any easy link to how to withdraw? I had to send the request for evidence to some PO box in Texas, I didn't keep the document though, not imagining this would end so soon.

You really need to get yourself stable emotionally before you even think about a third one. My suggestion is go see a psychologist and see where you are going wrong and how to fix it before even thinking about another relationship....other than that, go find someone in the U.S. There's 300 million + people here. GOOD LUCK!

[Boiler 43,425]

14 minutes ago, Aussielad said:

You really need to get yourself stable emotionally before you even think about a third one. My suggestion is go see a psychologist and see where you are going wrong and how to fix it before even thinking about another relationship....other than that, go find someone in the U.S. There's 300 million + people here. GOOD LUCK!

No mention of him being gay, or a pedophile.

[Sarah G 166]

14 hours ago, Rose711 said:

Then they are here posting again a few month after the wedding asking how to cancel their AOS, pull their sponsorship and have them wives because they dared have an opinion on something or are “acting up” or “misbehaving”.

Ugh I remember seeing a post either on here or on some Facebook group about a wife 'misbehaving'. It made me dry heave. 

 

These guys need to get puppies, not harems. 

 

But then I would feel sorry for the puppies. 

[SalishSea 16,768]

9 hours ago, Nitas_man said:

You girls are harsh.  We aren’t all like that.

We know ❤️