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My girlfriend and I have been dating for a few years now. She' has attempted numerous times for a B1 Visitors visa with no avail. We both knew it was a long shot but made 5 attempts. She has a child from a previous relationship whom will be 6 years old soon.  I want to apply for both her and her son. But the situation is this. His father is from UAE, he has not been a part of his son's life since his son was only a few months old.  She has talked with him about attaining letter so that she can apply for the K1 and he refuses. I've read this letter can be asked for my immigration.  Is this something i need to be concerned about? And if so, what can we do to ensure a smooth journey. How can she leave with her child? 

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Yes, you should be concerned.  She will have to have legal (court) authority to immigrate with the child.  I suggest she seek legal help in her country.

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It will most likely be asked for doing the interview for the K-2. (Some countries it’s fine with just full costody) but most will have the letter of content. If she needs that but the father won’t give it she can also go through the court to see if they wil let the child immigrate with his mom. Might be a good chance since the dad really not is in the picture. 


K-1 + K-2:                                                                                                                                AOS from K-1 + K-2:

02/02/16....I-129F mailed to Lewisville, TX                                                                       08/25/16....AOS package mailed to Chicago, IL

02/03/16....Delivered at Lewisville, TX                                                                               08/26/16....Delivered at Chicago, IL

02/08/16....NOA1 Text & E-mail. Case sent to CSC                                                         09/01/16....NOA1 Text & E-mail

02/12/16....NOA1 Hard copy received                                                                               09/09/16....NOA1 Hard copy received

03/24/16....NOA2 (45 days)                                                                                                 09/15/16....Bio-letter received for K-1/K-2 for Sep. 26th

03/29/16....NOA2 Hard copy received                                                                               09/19/16....Bio appointment done (Walk-in)

03/31/16....Medical                                                                                                              11/01/16.....EAD/AP approved

05/26/16....Interview                                                                                                            11/16/16.....EAD/AP card received

06/10/16....Visa in hand                                                                                                       03/08/17.....AOS Approved - No interview

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ROC from K-1 + K-2:

12/08/18....ROC window opens

12/13/18....I-751 mailed to Lewisville, TX

12/14/18....Delivered at Lewisville, TX

12/20/18....Text with case number. TX service center

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1 minute ago, Georgia16 said:

It will most likely be asked for doing the interview for the K-2. (Some countries it’s fine with just full costody) but most will have the letter of content. If she needs that but the father won’t give it she can also go through the court to see if they wil let the child immigrate with his mom. Might be a good chance since the dad really not is in the picture. 

Father has never been to Ukraine the child is 6 years old now. Has not seen his father since he was a few months old.

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8 minutes ago, Dave2019 said:

I'm hoping to see if there are any attorneys from Ukraine on here that could give me an idea of exactly what we need to be doing.

She will need a court order of some kind.....

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  • I-797 extension letter  for ROC dated 4/2/2019  MSCxxxxxxxxxx received: 4/6/2019
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9 minutes ago, Dave2019 said:

I'm hoping to see if there are any attorneys from Ukraine on here that could give me an idea of exactly what we need to be doing.

I advise seeking out an attorney. Since this involves a father from a third country (UAE) this is really out of the realm of DIY. Has your girlfriend looked into it in Ukraine? There must be family law firms of some kind who can advise.


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4 minutes ago, millefleur said:

I advise seeking out an attorney. Since this involves a father from a third country (UAE) this is really out of the realm of DIY. Has your girlfriend looked into it in Ukraine? There must be family law firms of some kind who can advise.

She's asked a couple, seems there is no guarantee offered. One attorney told her to find a man from a country that won't ask for this permission. 🙄

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1 minute ago, Dave2019 said:

She's asked a couple, seems there is no guarantee offered. One attorney told her to find a man from a country that won't ask for this permission. 🙄 

Uh...wow, well, that is discouraging. :wacko: I know in Russia that the quality of legal services varies significantly from lawyer to lawyer and from city to city...is she in a big city? I think she needs to find out whomever the top attorney is in the biggest city and see if they have advice...it might cost more of course but they might be able to give better answers than that.


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26-Jul-2016: Married abroad (USC + Russian husband) 👩‍❤️‍👨
21-Dec-2016: I-130 filed at Moscow USCIS field office*
29-Dec-2016: I-130 approved! Yay! 🎊 

17-Jan-2017: Case number received

21-Mar-2017: Medical Exam completed

24-Mar-2017: Interview at Embassy - approved! 🎉

29-Mar-2017: CR-1 Visa received (via mail)

02-Apr-2017: USCIS Immigrant (GC) Fee paid

28-Jun-2017: Port of Entry @ PDX 🛩️

21-Jul-2017: No SSN after three weeks; applied in person at the SSA

22-Jul-2017: GC arrived in the mail 📬

31-Jul-2017: SSN arrived via mail, hurrah!

 

*NOTE: The USCIS Field Office in Moscow is now CLOSED.

 

I-90 GC Replacment (for Erroneous GC)

22-Jul-2017: GC arrives in the mail – error in middle name 😕

01-Aug-2017: Sent in I-90 online via website

05-Aug-2017: Biometrics scheduled

23-Aug-2017: Biometrics done @ USCIS office; told to keep GC!

16-Jul-2018: RFE for original card!! 🤬

31-Jul-2018: USCIS Appointment at local field office..

22-Aug-2018: Mailed GC back to USCIS in response to RFE

29-Aug-2018: GC received by USCIS

17-Sep-2018: Received CORRECTED GC in the mail! Finally!! 😂

 

📑 I-751 Removal of Conditions - NBC (Apr-2019-???) 📝 MSC I-751 filers: Track your case here!

Spoiler

28-Jun-2019: Conditional GC expires

30-Mar-2019: Eligible to apply for ROC

01-Apr-2019: ROC in the mail to Phoenix AZ lockbox! 📫

03-Apr-2019: ROC packet delivered to lockbox

09-Apr-2019: USCIS cashed check

09-Apr-2019: Case number received via text - MSC 📲

12-Apr-2019: Extension letter arrives via mail

19-Apr-2019: Biometrics letter arrives via mail

30-Apr-2019: Biometrics appointment at local office  

??-???-2019: TBA...

30-Mar-2020: N-400 early filing window opens! 🇺🇸

 

 

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1 minute ago, millefleur said:

Uh...wow, well, that is discouraging. :wacko: I know in Russia that the quality of legal services varies significantly from lawyer to lawyer and from city to city...is she in a big city? I think she needs to find out whomever the top attorney is in the biggest city and see if they have advice...it might cost more of course but they might be able to give better answers than that.

Yea we are both very discouraged.. The boys father already married with his own family and still refuses to help with giving permission. 

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Time to speak to a professional family law attorney. This isn't so much an immigration matter as it is a family one.

I would assume that she can petition a court and make a good argument as the father is not in their life. But only somebody familiar with local laws would know what is required, the timeline & costs involved, and likelihood of success.


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5 hours ago, Dave2019 said:

Father has never been to Ukraine the child is 6 years old now. Has not seen his father since he was a few months old.

She needs to go through the court 

 

5 hours ago, Dave2019 said:

Yea we are both very discouraged.. The boys father already married with his own family and still refuses to help with giving permission. 

if the father is not in the picture at all, the court in Ukraine will quickly decide against the father, especially he is not even Ukrainian. Make sure you hire a lawyer and have $$$$. I would go directly to the court to ask if they have their own lawyers. 


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This is definitely a legal matter and you will need to find a competent Ukrainian attorney.  Tell your fiancee to advise the attorney that the father of her child does not provide child support, has not contacted the child in years and has abandoned his child and responsibilities.  If the father has married someone else, that should bolster her position.  She should contact a government agency that is responsible for monitoring child support by absentee fathers.  Overall, this is very possible to accomplish but it will take time and money.  Unfortunately, this is not that strange of a situation but as I said earlier, find competent legal help.  Once she can establish a complete right over her child, the rest should be easy.

Don't give up, but work with her to get this done.💼

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