No longer wants to marry me

[bob4 1]

After well over a year process to get this visa, i came back to find my fiance no longer wants to marry me. Is my only option to leave us.

[poolbruce 22]

Bob, she never really cared. I am lucky, my Filipino wife and I chat twice a day for over a year and a half. Our love is still as strong and we pray to be together

[Ontarkie 13,936]

~~Moved to Effects of Major Family Changes on Immigration Benefits, from K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress Reports~~

[Shiobhan 235]

Good, better, best...no amount of Skype or phone will

allow U to truly see a person, because they'll be on their

best behavior....if its over then move on, wha'ts to be will be

[bigdog 376]

Sorry to hear, you will find the right one I am sure.

[aleful 1,905]

After well over a year process to get this visa, i came back to find my fiance no longer wants to marry me. Is my only option to leave us.

yes

if you were to fall in love in the future you could not adjust status in the US, you came to marry your fiancé, no marriage then you have to return.

I'm sure it hurts right now, but someday you'll find someone better

[ir0nK1visa 2]

After well over a year process to get this visa, i came back to find my fiance no longer wants to marry me. Is my only option to leave us.

What other options do you have? Can you reconcile, go through therapy then decide? Are you the bene? Yes, what type of visa do you have? No, even better for you, although that is not apparent right now in either scenario. Best of luck with your decision. Love does hurt and it CAN take time to move on, I know, but in the end it may be the best outcome for both. Think about your future.

[christeen 966]

You MUST either marry the person who petitioned for you and adjust status OR return home... There are no other options on a K1... Sorry for your pain...

[Avery Cates 1,141]

Is my only option to leave us.

Yes. The conditions of your visa are that you marry the petitioner within 90 days. Since that's not happening, your visa will be void after the 90 days and you'll be in the country illegally after that.

Since you're not getting married now, apparently, then you have no reason to stay.

[Prototype 0]

Damn, thats pretty messed up. Not much you can do at this point.

[Husakovic 31]

Why would you want to stay in a foreign country without a fiancée , wife, family, ANYONE/?

It was not meant to be, she realized she doesn't love you enough to marry you...im sorry

[Cathi 5,618]

Bob, she never really cared. I am lucky, my Filipino wife and I chat twice a day for over a year and a half. Our love is still as strong and we pray to be together

This statement is ridiculous. How do you know they didn't Skype or chat, how do you know she never cared? Don't ever assume. No amount of chatting online prepares you for living together in real life. Better that they found out before they married. Edited December 24, 2013 by mimolicious

[InHisTime 110]

I'm so sorry this happened to you. Be strong and allow God to take control of everything. You will be fine and please don't over stay in America, you should leave before 90 days. Always look at things positively, this happened for a reason. God knows and continue to TRUST in Him. You will see light in the end. No worry of your immigration, important is you knew it before marriage. And thank God, at least you will not end up getting divorce. Commitment is a must for marriage to be successful. Have a merry christmas !

[JRF 117]

OP...came back where? Curious phrasing...also note your timeline is missing and you don't list country of the beneficiary. You just signed up yesterday...perhaps busy shopping for the holiday?

[Vitaliy_and_Katya 3]

I'm so sorry this happened to you. Be strong and allow God to take control of everything. You will be fine and please don't over stay in America, you should leave before 90 days. Always look at things positively, this happened for a reason. God knows and continue to TRUST in Him. You will see light in the end. No worry of your immigration, important is you knew it before marriage. And thank God, at least you will not end up getting divorce. Commitment is a must for marriage to be successful. Have a merry christmas !

What a wonderful wish!

I agree with everything above - trust that God knows what is better for you. You never know what you could have missed if married that person. All the Best to you!