Genski92

OP you need to open your families eyes to the truth of living in America.
It's sad and i hate to see that some of us immigrants family's back home wanted to act like they are rich to the eye of the villagers but they can't even afford it! They depend on us who live abroad because they think we are rich!
 
Before i even came to America i live in a poor country and in a remote village where if you have a nice house people would compliment you alot and think of you as the highest 🙄(I don't get it) . Before i come to the US i tell my parents that i will live in america to marry the man that i love and build our own family and that they should not expect me to support them for their everyday needs, I'm glad that somewhat they understand that. I sent money occasionally but not too big. I hate our villagers because they seems to be minding our family's business. They always talk about how much money i support my family every month,and they bugging my parents to tell me that i should build my parents a big and pretty house or i should buy this and that for my parents🙄 for me it's not my parents that is toxic it's the stupid neighborhood. To have a roof that won't leak everytime there's rain,an access to a water and and small tv that they can watch before bed time is enough for my simple family. It's just these stupid neighborhood. Sometimes i wish i could bomb and reborn that village lol 🤣🤣🤣 I don't even wish to see that village when i come visit my family 😂😂😂
 
Anyways OP a serious talk to the family is a key for them to understand your situation. Always think first of yourself and your own family here in america.

It's against the TOS to bypass the language filters. Just so you know. 
 
When you post on here, you have to be prepared for people to disagree with you. I had to learn that lesson. You don't support people who are in difficult economic situations receiving a check right now, and that's your opinion. I don't need to respect it to respect your right to have that opinion.  

Lol ever since first stimulus check we would be happy not to get it. We have enough savings to live.
Only low tax payer are happy to get this stimulus checks. Some people who pays more tax compare to others can relate to what im trying to say.
We will see the change in taxes after this pandemic.

Lol ever since first stimulus check we would be happy not to get it. We have enough savings to live.
Only low tax payer are happy to get this stimulus checks. Some people who pays more tax compare to others can relate to what im trying to say.
We will see the change in taxes after this pandemic.

I'll believe it when I see it. 

Lol ever since first stimulus check we would be happy not to get it. We have enough savings to live.
Only low tax payer are happy to get this stimulus checks. Some people who pays more tax compare to others can relate to what im trying to say.
We will see the change in taxes after this pandemic.

They don't get them 😉😄

I agree with the stimulus checks. You can send your husband’s to me if he is going to have a moral struggle to accept it. 

Wouldn't this second stimulus check affect the tax payers who has salary 140k+ dollars a year?
 
My husband actually don't agree with this stimulus checks

A single person showing 140k income will get nothing.  A couple showing 140k income with get the full payment.
 
I would guess your husband is like me.  The whole bill as passed is terrible.  The stimulus check is just one part.

Well the post said 140k+ so no indication on how much the husband makes exactly. But I was merely joking anyway...

We checked our UPS tracking number and it says it was delivered and someone at the lockbox received it.

If i we're you i would file the application myself. Especially when you knew that your case is not a complicated one. In america divorce happen all the one so im sure USCIS would understand.
If you file your own application you would know what to do and what is needed. Sometimes lawyer just mess it up.
 
Good luck!

It's fine to not be cut out for an LDR. It's fine to have "expiration dates." What's not fine is for one partner to have a cutoff date and not clear it with the other. If everyone's bought in, I don't see the problem with that at all. It is a delicate conversation to have but it is necessary for the OP if he hasn't done it already. The key point is honest and open communication, which is the bedrock of a healthy marriage that will last. I myself have to work hard at this because I have a tendency to hide uncomfortable and awkward truths from people I care about. The problem with doing that is that at some point, the truth will find a way to wriggle out and damage control gets harder.
 
When people come here with relationship issues that aren't really immigration issues, they need to be prepared for others' opinions. When it's an immigration issue, they need to be prepared to hear cold hard facts. This isn't an immigration issue, it just looks like one. It's more pandemic-related than anything else. Once the pandemic is under control, the issuance of the visa will resolve itself. 
 
My opinion -- and that's all that it is -- is that the OP needs to talk to his fiancée if he hasn't already about his timescale. She's the one ultimately who gets to decide whether that timescale is acceptable to her or not.

My wife was working in Kuwait when we met. At that point she had 10 months left in her contract. Her first employer provided no food for her. Her second employer was abusive. So after 4 months she was on her third employer. The basically bought her. Took her passport and she had to serve 2 years with them. They seemed to be an ok couple, but her days were 630am to 10pm or later. One day off a month and in dollars she made 318 dollars a month. I tried to buy out her contract so she can go home and we could plan out our wedding. But no agreement was reached. So, It was also a long wait for her return. But the fact she did not have her passport, she could not leave. So had to wait that out also. Once she returned home to the Philippines, we eventually got married in 2018. The question was brought up what to do while waiting. After discussing to prevent any more problems, I told her to stay home and i would give her what she would have made overseas. I would choose wisely, cuz with uncertainty you could get a letter that your interview is within two months. If she can’t leave a foreign country, then it’s all for not. My wife had her interview in December and just arrived here. It’s a long process but don’t allow her to go too far cuz at some point things will move again and you need her there to be ready.

I agree. Reddit is not a good source for immigration at all. It's very inaccurate. 
 
Others have already said that a K1 is possible but have you considered a CR1 instead? I came on a K1 and I don't recommend it. It's really tough on the immigrant. You're just stuck at home with nothing to do in a new country for months on end. It took 4 months after entry for me to finally get employment authorization and it felt horrible. The current wait times are even longer (7-8 months). 
 
Of course, during pandemic times, getting married might be a problem. So a K1 might be the only option. 

You think Reddit is a good source for ACCURATE information?   I do not.

If you love someone, you never give up. Bu you with this attitude, should give up, and find a local women. You are not made for this journey. 

I agree
Pull the plug now and  quit stringing this person around
If you love someone,  you don't treat them unfairly
 
i worked and waited 6 years for our visa application approved and i feel badly you would just pull the plug on someone who professed love to you

I feel so bad for your fiancé. If you think of pulling the plug, better do it sooner. Don’t wait until more damage has been done. She did nothing to deserve this. 

In a relationship and visa processing "patience" is must needed.
 
You can give up if you want but do not blame government for shutting down things. No one wants this covid.

If he shares his thoughts with the SO my guess is that he will not have to wait that  long.

So is May 1, 2021 the day you officially "move on" from the K1 application, or the relationship entirely?
 
If the relationship is no longer worth the wait, you are by all means entitled to move on. But I certainly hope that your fiancée knows that this is the direction you're headed in.

When my husband and I started dating, we'd known each other for over a decade and were best friends. I still needed a LOT of time to make sure I was certain that I wanted a relationship with him. He was patient, VERY patient, and never gave up on me, even when I asked for more space and less pressure. I wasn't any less in love with him, I just needed to be sure I knew what I was doing before I committed to him. His attitude was, I waited this long for you, I can wait a bit longer. Giving up completely wasn't an option for either of us unless we figured out we weren't compatible. He gave me all the space and time I needed, and for that I am grateful. We married 2 months ago and the wait was worth it -- we worked out many potential problems when we were just dating or engaged so we didn't fly into the marriage blind and hoping for the best. 
 
OP, why is a wait like this unsurmountable for you? It's not going to be much longer until we're all out of this mess. You are only waiting for an interview -- when K1s begin reprocessing, you'll be at the head of the line. What makes May a deadline for you? Most importantly, does your fiancee know this? What would she say if you said to her what you've told us today?

In a relationship and visa processing "patience" is must needed.
 
You can give up if you want but do not blame government for shutting down things. No one wants this covid.