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A recommended step in this process is to wait until you receive the interview notice for the N-400, then send a letter to the same USCIS regional office on the naturalization interview notice, requesting a combo interview with the pending I-751, if it is still pending at that time.  Include in the letter a photocopy of the N-400 interview notice, as well as the I-751 receipt with the 48-month extension. This worked for my husband's case and he had a combo interview, first the I-751 where I was called in, then the N-400 on his own, both were approved.  Some USCIS offices routinely do a combo interview without the letter requesting one, but we have seen some cases here on VJ where a decision on the N-400 was delayed after a successful naturalization interview because of a pending I-751.  Good luck!

Nope.  You may or may not get a combo interview.  Some of us have submitted request letters, but there is no requirement to do so.  In my case, we did undergo a combo interview after requesting one during the N-400 application process.   You could upload a letter if you wish.

No, N400 doesn't supersede I-751. They are still separate cases so essentially you will have two cases to get approved for. However, N400 will never get approved until I751 has been approved. Including a letter for combo is just a courtesy letter; they don't have to act on it. If you still wish to, you can still add it now as unsolicited.
Nonetheless, you may still get a combo regardless especially if your field office is known for doing that. Even if don't get a combo, at least you gotten the N400 rolling and dodged the April fee increases. Good luck.

Perfect, thanks Dashinka! I actually started filling in a paper form before I realised I could do it online - and then I was hoping that maybe the online version would be smart enough to auto-update to only request information for the last 3 years...but no such luck!

Yes, the N400 form is a bit confusion for those applying under the 3 yr. rule as it is tailored to the 5 yr. rule.  You only need to provide the trip for the time between receiving your GC and the filing of the N400 (same for details of where you lived, etc.).
 
Good Luck!

Just wanted to add to this from the perspective of someone currently going through the IVF process (I'm 37). 
 
Realistically, it's likely going to be difficult for your partner to naturally conceive at 43. I don't want to make you feel negative, but when you have a limited window, it's important to be realistic. I'm currently going through IVF due to infertility, as are 3 of my friends, who are aged 40, 41 and 41.
 
@Jeanne Adil made an excellent point re the risk of giving birth to a child as an unwed mother - so it definitely sounds like you should prioritize marrying first of all, before anything else.
 
I would then recommend starting IVF in Iran. By all means, try naturally first of all if you want - but I can't express this enough - don't waste a lot of time on this. At 43, your partner's chance of naturally just conceiving is less than 5% - and that doesn't even factor in the increased chance of miscarriages (unfortunately, I also speak from experience of miscarriages too).
 
I've just checked the prices of IVF in Iran and they are SIGNIFICANTLY cheaper than in the US. To put things in perspective, the cost of one IVF cycle at the hospital/clinic I use costs around $30,000, once you factor in all the meds, appointments, procedures, etc. 
 
So, financially, it's probably better to do IVF in Iran. You could also then get married, apply for the CR1 and then do the IVF process whilst you're waiting for the CR1 to come through. You don't need to be present for the IVF process, except for giving a sample at the clinic - which can then be frozen for when it's needed. 
 
I know this isn't the information you've asked for - but I think it's really important that you both have this info, if you're not already aware.

It is the same as exact question with the same exact answer - it is immigration fraud. 
 
You don’t get to pick who can or cannot answer on your post on this public forum. 

Just wanted to add to this from the perspective of someone currently going through the IVF process (I'm 37). 
 
Realistically, it's likely going to be difficult for your partner to naturally conceive at 43. I don't want to make you feel negative, but when you have a limited window, it's important to be realistic. I'm currently going through IVF due to infertility, as are 3 of my friends, who are aged 40, 41 and 41.
 
@Jeanne Adil made an excellent point re the risk of giving birth to a child as an unwed mother - so it definitely sounds like you should prioritize marrying first of all, before anything else.
 
I would then recommend starting IVF in Iran. By all means, try naturally first of all if you want - but I can't express this enough - don't waste a lot of time on this. At 43, your partner's chance of naturally just conceiving is less than 5% - and that doesn't even factor in the increased chance of miscarriages (unfortunately, I also speak from experience of miscarriages too).
 
I've just checked the prices of IVF in Iran and they are SIGNIFICANTLY cheaper than in the US. To put things in perspective, the cost of one IVF cycle at the hospital/clinic I use costs around $30,000, once you factor in all the meds, appointments, procedures, etc. 
 
So, financially, it's probably better to do IVF in Iran. You could also then get married, apply for the CR1 and then do the IVF process whilst you're waiting for the CR1 to come through. You don't need to be present for the IVF process, except for giving a sample at the clinic - which can then be frozen for when it's needed. 
 
I know this isn't the information you've asked for - but I think it's really important that you both have this info, if you're not already aware.

Just wanted to add to this from the perspective of someone currently going through the IVF process (I'm 37). 
 
Realistically, it's likely going to be difficult for your partner to naturally conceive at 43. I don't want to make you feel negative, but when you have a limited window, it's important to be realistic. I'm currently going through IVF due to infertility, as are 3 of my friends, who are aged 40, 41 and 41.
 
@Jeanne Adil made an excellent point re the risk of giving birth to a child as an unwed mother - so it definitely sounds like you should prioritize marrying first of all, before anything else.
 
I would then recommend starting IVF in Iran. By all means, try naturally first of all if you want - but I can't express this enough - don't waste a lot of time on this. At 43, your partner's chance of naturally just conceiving is less than 5% - and that doesn't even factor in the increased chance of miscarriages (unfortunately, I also speak from experience of miscarriages too).
 
I've just checked the prices of IVF in Iran and they are SIGNIFICANTLY cheaper than in the US. To put things in perspective, the cost of one IVF cycle at the hospital/clinic I use costs around $30,000, once you factor in all the meds, appointments, procedures, etc. 
 
So, financially, it's probably better to do IVF in Iran. You could also then get married, apply for the CR1 and then do the IVF process whilst you're waiting for the CR1 to come through. You don't need to be present for the IVF process, except for giving a sample at the clinic - which can then be frozen for when it's needed. 
 
I know this isn't the information you've asked for - but I think it's really important that you both have this info, if you're not already aware.

Just wanted to add to this from the perspective of someone currently going through the IVF process (I'm 37). 
 
Realistically, it's likely going to be difficult for your partner to naturally conceive at 43. I don't want to make you feel negative, but when you have a limited window, it's important to be realistic. I'm currently going through IVF due to infertility, as are 3 of my friends, who are aged 40, 41 and 41.
 
@Jeanne Adil made an excellent point re the risk of giving birth to a child as an unwed mother - so it definitely sounds like you should prioritize marrying first of all, before anything else.
 
I would then recommend starting IVF in Iran. By all means, try naturally first of all if you want - but I can't express this enough - don't waste a lot of time on this. At 43, your partner's chance of naturally just conceiving is less than 5% - and that doesn't even factor in the increased chance of miscarriages (unfortunately, I also speak from experience of miscarriages too).
 
I've just checked the prices of IVF in Iran and they are SIGNIFICANTLY cheaper than in the US. To put things in perspective, the cost of one IVF cycle at the hospital/clinic I use costs around $30,000, once you factor in all the meds, appointments, procedures, etc. 
 
So, financially, it's probably better to do IVF in Iran. You could also then get married, apply for the CR1 and then do the IVF process whilst you're waiting for the CR1 to come through. You don't need to be present for the IVF process, except for giving a sample at the clinic - which can then be frozen for when it's needed. 
 
I know this isn't the information you've asked for - but I think it's really important that you both have this info, if you're not already aware.

Just wanted to add to this from the perspective of someone currently going through the IVF process (I'm 37). 
 
Realistically, it's likely going to be difficult for your partner to naturally conceive at 43. I don't want to make you feel negative, but when you have a limited window, it's important to be realistic. I'm currently going through IVF due to infertility, as are 3 of my friends, who are aged 40, 41 and 41.
 
@Jeanne Adil made an excellent point re the risk of giving birth to a child as an unwed mother - so it definitely sounds like you should prioritize marrying first of all, before anything else.
 
I would then recommend starting IVF in Iran. By all means, try naturally first of all if you want - but I can't express this enough - don't waste a lot of time on this. At 43, your partner's chance of naturally just conceiving is less than 5% - and that doesn't even factor in the increased chance of miscarriages (unfortunately, I also speak from experience of miscarriages too).
 
I've just checked the prices of IVF in Iran and they are SIGNIFICANTLY cheaper than in the US. To put things in perspective, the cost of one IVF cycle at the hospital/clinic I use costs around $30,000, once you factor in all the meds, appointments, procedures, etc. 
 
So, financially, it's probably better to do IVF in Iran. You could also then get married, apply for the CR1 and then do the IVF process whilst you're waiting for the CR1 to come through. You don't need to be present for the IVF process, except for giving a sample at the clinic - which can then be frozen for when it's needed. 
 
I know this isn't the information you've asked for - but I think it's really important that you both have this info, if you're not already aware.

Look at his timeline!

A lot of folks are in similar situations especially couples or individuals that come to the US on diversity visas.  Our cousins were like that back in early 2019, no jobs, no place to live, etc.  We helped them out to get started, and they got a car fairly soon after arriving, started working in whatever job they could find (Walmart, Amazon, etc.), until they could find jobs in the fields they desired.  It takes time, but if ambitious, not as long as you may think.
 
My suggestion is if the in-laws are willing to put up with you for 6-12 months until you can get on your feet, take advantage of it, come back to the US and start working even in a menial job until you can get better employment.
 
Good Luck!

Most people have to arrive without a job, you're much more likely to get hired when you're actually in the US. Could you not move to a less expensive area though, at least to start with?

Unlike many who adjust from VWP/B, your circumstances truly did change.   I would marry and file the AOS//EAD/AP documents straight away, along with an expedite request for the EAD since you are unable to work.
 
Hopefully you have a joint sponsor lined up.   Best luck.

Could someone please explain what the purpose of this thread is? I'm lost.

Riiiiiggght , the immigration agents are nasty jerks and the system is evil and corrupt and they won’t give her a non immigrant visa because she’s immigrating and everyone is terrible, I guess this is just a venting thread and not interested in logic. I mean, how dare immigration officials apply the law? Ugh. 
 
 
 

So she knew her overstay meant she
was no longer eligible to ever use the VWP and tried anyway
 
On the positive side this should not impact the immigrant visa.

If you're already married, that would probably explain why your K1 (fiance) visa wasn't granted.

If you're already married, that would probably explain why your K1 (fiance) visa wasn't granted.

If you're already married, that would probably explain why your K1 (fiance) visa wasn't granted.

If you're already married, that would probably explain why your K1 (fiance) visa wasn't granted.

If you're already married, that would probably explain why your K1 (fiance) visa wasn't granted.

Ouch. It's one of those situations where it's tempting to say "Your lack of planning is not my emergency."
 
Since this is primarily your MIL's problem, how about letting her take the lead in figuring out how to get her meds? She can look up clinics serving low-income Latinos, she can ask someone in Colombia to bring/mail them to her, or if the need is truly dire, she flies back to Colombia and restocks. 
 
Irresponsible people usually depend on the responsible ones to get them out of trouble. Up to you to decide where your boundaries are with your MIL.

If she doesn't have insurance it's probably best to go to her home country for it where it will be way way less expensive. Insurance for elderly alien parents is very difficult -often impossibe- to procure at reasonable prices, especially if she doesn't qualify to be added now when she needs the insurance. In my state you'd  have to wait for open enrollment if you're adding her to your insurance (if that is possible!).
 
Plus, while she's in her home country she can wrap up all those permanent ties she has there that convinced the US to allow her to enter on a tourist visa.