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My wife is Japanese. Yes you need the original at the interview. 

5 hours ago, Nitas_man said:

You guys need give yourselves some space and get off this site to work this out.  Sheesh. 

 

I don't see an asylum case originating from the "war-torn country of Morocco" in the picture.  If you filed AOS, pull the affidavit of support, move on, and he has to go back.  If you didn't, he has to go back anyway.  If you feel threatened hit the local Academy, buy a .45, and defend yourself.  The suggested moral thing to do here is find him a place to stay and offer him a one-way plane ticket home which should close the books on this issue.  If he declines or gets forceful about that, you're within your rights to assume he could be unstable and dangerous.  See the part about the local Academy.

 

Editorial:  No wonder Casablanca is such a nightmare consulate.  This kind of %@$ is what costs the real couples so much heartache. 

I would not consider this good advise. Please do not advocate anyone getting a firearm to defend themselves. File a police report, move away from the person threatening them and get a restraining order. These are all good suggestions people have previous given.  

You seemed to be obsessed with being on the hook financially.  Heed the advice given to you many times already instead of stressing out about what ifs. You withdrew the I-864. Financially you did what you were supposed to for immigration purposes. Don't be alone with her. Get an annulment. Sounds simple but the emotional toll is quite high. Good Luck.  Oh, and I might suggest you figure out why are so in to certain types of women. 2 strikes already. 

Based on my own experience adopting a child with no blood ties from a foreign country with unknown parentage it could be a 3-5 year process through the courts. They need to prove there is no chance of child trafficking and that the child is clear of all legal obstacles for adoption. 

I'm curious as to how a 30 year old single? person can stay away from a job for 5 months. Tell the truth even it means you get denied at the port of entry and sent back.

Do not overstay your Visitor Visa. 

I received 2 text messages with no actual change of status. Must be a glitch in their notification system.

Having adopted a child from Guatemala 10 years ago, I can tell you that you are looking at a very long adoption process and it won't be easy. You will need a law advocate in Ghana and a US agency or US lawyer familiar with foreign adoptions. We had everything we could have to help and it still took a year.  I assume the Ghana courts will want all kinds of documented proof through DNA who are the biological parents, the mother's current whereabouts and status and so on. There is a lot of scrutiny for foreign adoptions now because of child trafficking. If a DNA test shows the child is your husband's then it becomes a lot easier but the mother will still need to give up all rights to the child. Good Luck!

Sorry, but the K-1 is no longer valid even if not married at the time of filing and review. Withdraw the K-1 and file a CR-1. You're married. 

Simple bank statement when you opened the account and then one currently should do fine. Both names need to be on the account. Major joint purchases would be autos and property. Probably don't need much else. Tax returns are a big factor. Bank accounts are only one aspect of proving a relationship.

It's not usual at all. You are either misinformed, you don't know the whole story or you have not told us the whole story. Under normal circumstances, they would not contact an ex spouse. Is there a child involved? Did you claim abuse in your divorce?

Red Flags all over the place. You're going to have to be 100% honest at the interview or risk a misrepresentation. However, I'm going to guess you have very little chance of AOS at this point given the story you have told us. Like I said, red flags all over the place. Please note that in a previous post someone told you you can't AOS from a new marriage, it has to be the person you married on the K-1 with. 

Just say you can't start until after you come back. It's best for both you for a number of reasons.

http://www.nafsa.org/content.aspx?id=53836

There is a very basic rule for this K-1 process. Delays are always a possibility and usually happen. Never, ever set firm dates for flights and weddings. Actually, until you have the K-1 Stamp in the passport and the passport in your hands, you wait to do things like quit job, book flights, sell house or move out of apartment or decide on wedding plans/dates. There is enough threads on here telling this over and over again. 

She is going to have to try applying for a tourist Visa and meet the same requirements as everyone else but, because you are married, she may have a harder time proving ties to her country and will be denied. You may be going there or meeting in a third country for the next two years until the CR-1 is approved and she can come back permanently. 

If it's the USC. Nothing has to be done.

A lot of god advice has been given. Not sure if you can pursue any criminal charges though. Infopass seems like the best option with a refiling. However, I have to point out like others that there is all kinds of Red Flags about the ex and your Fiance's relationship that you should think about. 

My Fiance at her POE interview was asked when are you getting married. They want to know if if it's understood that they "have to" get married in 90 days. I'm not sure why so many people are having problems with this.  Just because someone didn't get asked the question doesn't mean it isn't asked. She was was also asked why she had so many gifts and snacks in her luggage but that is a different story.

Your status says filed for "Other" What was the Visa? K-1?

Counseling for the two of you and therapy for the depression for her. If she self harms or suicide attempts then dial 911 and let them handle it. Watch out for domestic abuse and violence charges since she had a bunch of bruises on her. I am speaking from experience on an ex-wife situation who is BPD and HPD. 

Contact the embassy and explained what happened. Of course, it had to be Morocco which is tough enough.  If your fiance took a bus or taxi, contact the carrier and see if a driver turned it in. If they were in a store, cafe or restaurant. Call them. You seem so sure of lost for good. Where do you think you lost it? 

Spouse is not a dependent but there is a tax savings. Your tax liability should have been less with a MFJ status.  Did you remember to use the Foreign Income Exclusion? Are you using TurboTax?

OP. Update us after you talk to him please. I put no blame on the POE Officer for sending him back. It was 100% the right call given the answer he made. No wedding date and not sure if getting married or not was the absolute wrong answer on a K-1. I am very sorry to hear you are going through this and I suggest you think long and hard before making any more plans.