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You're going to have to wait for the RFE document. It could be any number of items. In terms of thinking ahead, if you think it's the I-864 then yes, you might consider an additional sponsor.

3 hours ago, clauandgio said:

Do you think submitting an inquiry helps to prevent more delays or just makes it worse? I am doubting now x.x Hope everything gets better for you

Thank you!. I think it helps to remind them about your case but I don't think an inquiry helps one way or another unless a lot of time is overdue. 

Good luck. It's a long road ahead. Expect a lot of scrutiny.  I understand why you would be hurt and angry. Quite frankly, what he did was was just plain stupid. He could have waited long enough for the AP and then gone to visit. The message he sent whether he intended to or not was I'm done, I'm sneaking back home and not coming back. 

Damnit... RFIE showed up today for name discrepancies on I-765. They have all the documents they are asking for already. I can only assume they lost one of them.   No change of status on the web site and we had put an inquiry in last night and got a response early this morning saying our case was under review. WTH! 

That requires your divorce lawyer. Any taxes owed normally is joint responsibility of both parties unless your Marital Separation Agreement says differently.The IRS can go after both of if you don't pay your taxes. My question would be why aren't you required to file quarterly estimated taxes with the IRS? I would think you would do this anyway just to avoid owing taxes at year end. 

19 minutes ago, Adri.U said:

Anyway,  did you call them to place an inquiry? .. I did that and the next day I got a notification stating that my EAD has been ordered  
 

 

 

I'll give it until next Wed. and then I start making phone calls. 

I don't post for 24 hours and the thread goes to hell. I'm not going to comment on individual posts. I'm just going to shake my head and hope the thread returns normal.  93 days from AOS Package acceptance. 81 Days from NOA1. There will be a service request in our near future if we don't hear from them soon. 

The filing category is "Married" since you were married midnight Dec 31, 2016. It then becomes a question of "Jointly" or "Separately." Since she made only $6K then she would probably get all taxes paid in if she filed separately. Otherwise, she would be included in your calculations at a higher tax rate and you'd have to figure out how much belongs to her.

Ya, ya.. freak'n Texas. Doesn't do any good in California. EAD or nothing they said.

I sense some defensive posts today.  Take a deep breath people! The March K-1 filers know full well what the waiting game is all about and how trying to second guess USCIS processing times and how they apply to individual cases is a waste of time. Wait the required amount of time, send an inquiry after that and cross your fingers. Good Luck!

13 minutes ago, MiaTher said:

Just wanted to say you are so very smart, I love reading your posts. 

You think Suss&Camm is smart?  Just kidding! 

Definitely a line of unprofessional behavior. I'm curious as to what the OP was demanding of him and how many times? There are two sides to a Lawyer/client relationship.  

How old is the child?

http://www.nolo.com/legal-encyclopedia/proving-your-vawa-case-evidence-submit.html

Proof That You Suffered Abuse

It is crucial that you provide as much evidence as possible showing that you have suffered abuse. Some of the best evidence of this would be police reports or restraining orders against the abuser. If the abuser was arrested or convicted of physically abusing you, you can submit court records discussing this. If you saw a doctor because of abuse, submit copies of your medical records. Similarly, if you have seen a counselor or have gone to a domestic violence shelter, you can submit evidence of that as well.

Remember, you do not have to show physical abuse in order to qualify under VAWA. Emotional or psychological abuse may be enough. If you have seen a psychologist or have been prescribed medication by a doctor due to the abuse, submit evidence of this as well.

As always, if you have difficulty obtaining this type of evidence, you can submit declarations from family members and friends who have witnessed the abuse you suffered, or to whom you have spoken about the abuse.

Preparing a compelling, well-organized set of evidence to support your VAWA application can be time-consuming and challenging. Hiring an attorney to help with this task can be well worth your while.

I'm sorry about your situation. It sucks on many levels. First of all, you're not stupid. You were lied to and deceived from the very beginning until she was no longer able to hide the lies. Definitely lesson learned. If she was willing to lie to you on such an important thing and for so long then chances are your long term prospects with this woman are not good. Personally, I would never trust her again. If I couldn't trust her then what's the point of continuing the relationship. Trust is a key element of any relationship. Many people have talked about how difficult and expensive it would be to fix this if it is even possible. Give yourself a 48 hour break from her and the forum and really think hard about what is ahead for you. Make your decision with a calm head. No one can make the decision for you but they can certainly point out what the future may hold for you on multiple paths. Good Luck.

No, because your DL would have expired when you I-94 expired. You have to wait until you get the EAD to get a California License now. We're in the same boat.

Always good to have a backup plan

As a reminder, please remember that unless the source is an "official" written released verifiable communication then it's just speculation. I'm sorry to hear about your situation Harold... this could very well become true at some point. However, I suspect a ton of lawyers are sharpening their teeth and pencils to file cases to try and reverse some of these executive orders or get things back on track.  

Just now, Jomaris said:

I'm not asking for advice on my love life

You are correct, you are not and based on your response you have heard this from a number of people already. You have two options. K-1 or CR-1. I suggest you read the guides on the forum and see which one is better suited for you. 

2 minutes ago, Transborderwife said:

Umm I'd suggest slowing it down a bit and getting to know each other.  Immigration is a difficult thing.  You need to be sure that this is right first.  In your case, I'd expect some road bumps

+1 Slow down.  

4 hours ago, kashaa said:

He asked the other friend what is it. and he told that its the medical report. he saw written there do not open it but he ripped it off and start reading.

That person needs to be banned from your room/apt/home... permanently. I would have been totally pissed and dragged that idiot with me to the medical office and let him explain why he opened someone else's sealed confidential medical file. 

14 minutes ago, Boo&Mica said:

I am having really low expectations for when I should get the EAD or the GC since i opened the TV and I saw Trump is playing around with the whole immigration story lol ...

You should be fine. You're here and you filed AOS. 

2 hours ago, $_1092 said:

So will this immigration history affect my studies and probable employment in States in a negative way?

You keep asking this question and people keep answering you. So I will keep it simple. Yes, this immigration history will affect your studies and probable employment in the United States in a negative way. 

I understand what you are saying and why you are saying it. If you are that stubborn about it then maybe you should consider going there, get married and file a CR-1. Just make sure you fix all the things you think are doubt first before filing anything.

You don't sue them for I-864 support. You get your government services and the government goes after them.