Illiria

Wow, that’s low

23 hours ago, Lieza16 said:

Thank youuu sir. Muchly appreciated because my mom is still lining to medical hospital now. She don’t know what to do

Edit - just saw your update. I am so glad you and your brother got your visas.

Your mom needs to step

up, not lie, stop using the drugs, and not risk losing the ability to immigrate for the sake of you and your brother.

Never ever lie during the immigration process. If she is in doubt tell her to read these posts where everyone is saying the same thing.

wishing you and your brother the best

On 12/28/2018 at 9:04 PM, Going through said:

That's actually a good idea---will call the IRS on  Monday to inquire....I'm sure I'll have a grand ol' time going through their automated system before getting an actual live (hopefully still warm) body.  

Did you find out if this is legal? 

On 1/30/2019 at 8:31 AM, boris64 said:

I was there for the CFO

You were able to go into the CFO interview? I thought that wasn’t permitted.

7 hours ago, Jo C said:

If USCIS will look into the case, I hope they will see that groping someone, which was what my fiance had plead to 20 years ago, is in no possible way gonna harm me. 

The thing is you say he groped a minor and that is most likely falling under AWA. The difference between what he pled to and what he was charged with could also factor into this - what was he charged with? Does he show remorse or is he doing as you are and saying oh well I only groped them. This could play into it especially if it was determined that it does fall under AWA. 

They do a background check on the petitioner, maybe it came up

during that.

2 minutes ago, tornedoar said:

ok thank you, it seem there nothing to do

As @milimelo says there is info on the page on how to report we just don’t want you to get your hopes up that anyone will do anything about it. 

17 minutes ago, tornedoar said:

i do not want talk alot here, if you want know any, you can come private.

Suffice it to say immigration and the law will probably ignore anything you have to say unless you have cast iron evidence and even then will most like ignore it if you aren’t an injured party (first spouse) and as they aren’t automatically going after us citizens in the us who have a religious second wife (flds) then there is little hope of them doing so for someone who is married in another country.

1 minute ago, tornedoar said:

someone cheat me so i must do something.

i do not say enough informatiob im sorry but i tottaly heart broken

But you said you weren’t the us spouse so are you an additional girlfriend but not the one he married? 

32 minutes ago, tornedoar said:

be against cheating.

Not necessarily cheating if the first wife agreed to it. 

42 minutes ago, issea said:

Today I went for my biometrics appointment and got my ten printed. The USCIS staff doing my fingerprints couldn’t make one of my fingerprints acceptable to the system so at the end he bypassed and told me it was okay. When I came back and search for information about fingerprints failure then it starts making me worry about the situation. Will the FBI reject my fingerprints and ask for another FP? 

I have this happen to me all the time due to poor circulation in my fingers, usually takes a few times to get them all done. They may still be able to complete it without one of them. There have been instances of needing to redo fingerprints but it isn’t a terrible thing (annoying and inconvenient though). They will simply send a new fingerprint appointment. 

17 hours ago, shynepapin said:

I don't want to petition the divorce because if I say I love her and I really do, I shouldn't be the petitioner is what USCIS might hold against me as there is any abuse whatsoever.   

They really don’t care who files for the divorce. They will not hold it against you if you are the one to file for divorce.

You have already filed for removal of conditions so all you would do is at your interview tell them you wish to change to a divorce waiver and if the divorce certificate has been received give them a copy or if you have not received the divorce certificate yet they would tell you to send it once you do have it. So long as you have evidence you entered the marriage in good faith then you are all good. 

Entered country under fake name which was subsequently used for the first marriage now needs a new marriage in real name to adjust status - OP I know I am being a tad facetious but without details we have to make assumptions that might be incorrect.

I really do want to help you but it sounds as if you are trying to get around something which cannot be evaded. If it’s a simple misspelling or dob incorrect you can probably correct it at the county records. 

1 hour ago, Boiler said:

Sometime I have to sit down and shake my head in disbelief.

I wanted to have that as a reaction at the bottom of posts, confused doesn’t always cover it.

8 minutes ago, mushroomspore said:

Yup this is a pretty odd question. If there is no divorce, what is the need for a "re-marriage"??

If the first marriage occurred prior to one of the party being legally able to marry therefore the first marriage is technically not legal but they don’t want to draw attention to it by divorcing which could lead to questions of bigamous or non consented marriage if too young to marry would be my guess but without further info we can’t confirm. There has been a few cases of this lately, people not waiting until after waiting period of a divorce to become final.

5 minutes ago, afortunada said:

Financial abuse is very real. What are her choices if he is withholding money to buy her a plane ticket home, or if he is refusing to help support her financially knowing full well she will be an undocumented immigrant with no way to help herself?

Le sigh - yes I know financial abuse is very really - that wasn’t my point.

His previous thread said he was giving her a flight home, money to get set up again etc but he offered her to give it another go even though he admitted it probably wouldn’t work and she said yes. It hasn’t worked out but he is now being a coward and looking for a way to have his cake and eat it. 

1 minute ago, K1visaHopeful said:

he is abusing her

Refusing to file is not in itself abuse, using it as a threat against her to keep her in line yes that is abuse but simply telling her he has decided not to file or that he has decided not to marry is not abuse. 

Your option B stated in your original post of this thread is predicated on a misunderstanding - both options you have posited result in her living here without status. 

36 minutes ago, pa49 said:

10 years on age related circumstances play a role!

Eh? Sorry might be my sleep deprived brain but I didn’t understand.

If memory serves you have to list her date of birth so if she is worried someone will figure out her age they will from this plus USCIS already have all of the previously filed forms so they know about her previous marriages unless there is a previous marriage she has been hiding from you all this time there is nothing to worry about. 

As others have mentioned look around for your k1 and adjustment of status documents where all that is listed or file a foia for a copy of the case file.

7 minutes ago, coloradoman said:

And as for the assets, OP even mentioned a $4K hospital bill, which would be subject to division as well.

He most like was the guarantor for the hospital bill anyway so they will go for him when they can’t find her. She could check on it by contacting the finance dept at the hospital she was treated at. 

22 hours ago, NJShoreMom said:

can my income be added to my daughters? 

Not added but you could be a (joint/co I never remember which is the right term) sponsor if you earn enough. But please reread my post about becoming liable for him and any government benefits he claims. 

Please also realize that if they ask you to be cosponsor you will be on the hook until he either earns forty quarters of working, rescinded his green card, becomes a citizen, or dies and this applies even if they split up (I know not something you want to think of if there is a child involved but it happens)

Does your daughter have employment? 

Just because he was living and working in Italy it doesn’t mean he is there legally (as is the case here people can and do live and work illegally in Italy), if he isn’t there legally then he cannot use the US embassy  in Italy to process a visa.