Highly tough situation

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1 minute ago, SusieQQQ said:

I don’t think this is true under US law at all.

Absolutely, she can Divorce or maybe Annul in her State.

[Aster 24]

8 minutes ago, Boiler said:

Did you pay them anything?

Gifts ,  sponsorship fees etc 

[Zaynab Fatai 127]

 

It was arranged but I asked couple of time from her mother and her that are you agreed ,  are you happy to marry with me ,   Her mother told me if she not happy and agreed then I never say yes,   She also told me couple of times she agreed .

 

 

 

Maybe she’s not in love with you anymore. But don’t conclude yet until you find out from her. She might be going through something depressing & might not feel comfortable sharing it for now but off course it shouldn’t be at this time when you need her the most. 

Reschedule your interview & work things out with her. I bet you’ll be fine. All the best!

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13 minutes ago, Aster said:

Gifts ,  sponsorship fees etc 

This may be the answer.

[Lazybones18 261]

26 minutes ago, Aster said:

Gifts ,  sponsorship fees etc 

What is the total amount in USA dollars you paid for gifts etc ? 

[Kabaddi_Cali1983 22]

Good piece of advice for you, I think she is done with you. You should consult US Divorce attorney  to get consultation of how you can file the divorce in US.

 

It might be quicker to get divorce in US than Pakistan.

 

Here is something that might be helpful in your

https://www.lawhelp.org/dc/resource/serving-divorce-papers-if-you-cant-locate-youn

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36 minutes ago, Lazybones18 said:

What is the total amount in USA dollars you paid for gifts etc ? 

Including any dowry....

[TNJ17 1,329]

I know you’re like in denial but you’ve exhausted all your avenues to contact her and her family and no one wants to talk to you and you can tell they are receiving your messages. I’ll say it again she’s done with you. I know you’re trying to salvage this but if she doesn’t want it you can’t force it. It takes two to tango. File for a divorce and move on with your life. Cancel the interview and withdraw the visa. And again move on.

[Aster 24]

1 hour ago, Zaynab Fatai said:

Maybe she’s not in love with you anymore. But don’t conclude yet until you find out from her. She might be going through something depressing & might not feel comfortable sharing it for now but off course it shouldn’t be at this time when you need her the most. 

Reschedule your interview & work things out with her. I bet you’ll be fine. All the best!

Thank for your advise n words

[Kiolas 102]

@Aster you are not telling us the whole picture😎

A lady and her family members would not ignore you just for no reason. There were some events that led to this situation to happen. 

 

[Aster 24]

Just now, Kiolas said:

@Aster you are not telling us the whole picture😎

A lady and her family members would not ignore you just for no reason. There were some events that led to this situation to happen. 

 

That's what I want to know what's going on !  She talked to me on 16th August .  Last talked she said what are your plans for future I said let's talk on weekend !  Then no response ... 

[Aster 24]

If she does not like me or anything then tell me , she is mature ,  but I m combusted the whole family is not receiving my call and reply me back of my messages , voice messages .... I m confused ,  what is going on with me .... If she don't want to live and if she do not want me to come to usa then tell me ....  What is this way that not receiving my call and do not reply .... Why they all are hiding at this stage because my interview is come close and I m at the last step...  We were waiting for this moment 

[Kiolas 102]

@Aster Unfortunately, we have no idea, you have to ask your wife all of these questions. This is an immigration forum, not a psychological or family therapy forum. Sorry, but you are wasting your time here asking us why your wife and her family members do not respond. We cannot help with this. 

[Love To Teach 161]

I can hear the anguish in your voice...so sorry for that. And, sadly, this woman has obviously changed her mind and is too cowardly to tell you, so she is giving you the "silent treatment," hoping you will get the message and go away. She must not be as mature as you thought. There could be no possible reason for your being ignored. Phones and computers are working, family is reading your emails. It's sad that they are too cowardly to tell you the truth. Even in the worst of situations that could be happening to her, someone would let you know something. So you are going to have to accept that and move on with your life. At least you haven't invested years and years in your relationship. There might be a slight chance she might change her mind, but I sure would not buy a plane ticket. If you don't hear anything by your interview date, don't go because there is no way you would get past that embassy in this shape.

 

Good luck and just know that God is in charge, not us. Hopefully, you will find someone who will appreciate you.

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48 minutes ago, Aster said:

That's what I want to know what's going on !  She talked to me on 16th August .  Last talked she said what are your plans for future I said let's talk on weekend !  Then no response ... 

So she asked you a very important question (which should have been discussed way before even getting engaged) and you said "let's talk about this later".... Yeah when don't like that.