Amount a visits

[Murph4865 597]

Does it really help to have multiple visits to your fiance?  

I seen her last year was there for a month but it takes a year to save enough for a round trip to ililo and stay a month and still keep bills paid here in the states.

[Seth And Quynh 77]

7 minutes ago, Murph4865 said:

Does it really help to have multiple visits to your fiance?  

I seen her last year was there for a month but it takes a year to save enough for a round trip to ililo and stay a month and still keep bills paid here in the states.

For me I married on first visit and stayed 3 months. Then I'm here again and have been here 4 months. I think it you have few trips but have stayed a long time you should be good

[Coco8 1,039]

It depends on the country from where your fiance is from. If she/he is from a high fraud country, more visits is better. If she/he is from a low visa fraud, one long visit could be enough. 

 

In general, it also depends how much other evidence you have and if there are any "red flags" like a huge age gap, huge cultural differences, anything that the consulate thinks it is odd.

[Dutchster 1,106]

Yes. It's always good to do so, not just for USCIS benefits but also to see if you two actually work out.

Multiple visits are advised if your fiance(e) is from a country with a tough Embassy, when there are red flags in the relationship etc etc.

[geowrian 22,335]

It's not required, but it definitely does help. Or, more precisely, the number of trips isn't important but the total amount of time spent with them in person does.

[Murph4865 597]

17 minutes ago, Coco8 said:

It depends on the country from where your fiance is from. If she/he is from a high fraud country, more visits is better. If she/he is from a low visa fraud, one long visit could be enough. 

 

In general, it also depends how much other evidence you have and if there are any "red flags" like a huge age gap, huge cultural differences, anything that the consulate thinks it is odd.

She is turning 35 this month and i turn 52 in dec and she is from western visayas on the far west side of the phils

[geowrian 22,335]

USEM doesn't care much about age differences so I think you'll be fine there. USEM in general is not a "difficult" embassy. But you still need to have good relationship evidence.

[MrHanky 1,377]

I had more than 20 visits in one year and people told me that was my golden ticket.

Like someone said, especially if its a high fraud country it'll be very helpful.

[Murph4865 597]

24 minutes ago, Dutchster said:

Yes. It's always good to do so, not just for USCIS benefits but also to see if you two actually work out.

Multiple visits are advised if your fiance(e) is from a country with a tough Embassy, when there are red flags in the relationship etc etc.

We video chat every day via imo and i have chat logs clear back in may 2016.

[Cyberfx1024 7,978]

22 minutes ago, Murph4865 said:

She is turning 35 this month and i turn 52 in dec and she is from western visayas on the far west side of the phils

Honestly you should be fine overall with just one visit. You are both old enough to understand what you want our of life and a partner. You just have to understand about Tampo and how it does happen with Pinays.

 

USEM is not a hard embassy to get approval if you bona fide evidence for a immigrant visa 

Edited September 9, 2017 by cyberfx1024

[Murph4865 597]

1 minute ago, cyberfx1024 said:

Honestly you should be fine overall with just one visit. You are both old enough to understand what you want our of life and a partner. You just have to understand about Tampo and how it does happen with Pinays.

I have seen it so far in her when she hollers at brothers n sister and i told her she need to teach them not holler at them.

[Grant PDX 183]

Petitions for Filipinas frequently are based on 1 visit.  I've never heard of one denied because they met "just 1 time".  There are other reasons for denial but that is generally not one in the Philippines.  Other countries it can be an issue, but it shouldn't be a concern as far as your visa is concerned.

[geowrian 22,335]

1 minute ago, Murph4865 said:

I have seen it so far in her when she hollers at brothers n sister and i told her she need to teach them not holler at them.

It's a lot different when the hollering is at you.

[Grant PDX 183]

Tampo isn't so much hollering as it is the silent treatment.... sometimes for days... and sometimes based on misunderstandings... can be painful.

 

[Cyberfx1024 7,978]

1 minute ago, Murph4865 said:

I have seen it so far in her when she hollers at brothers n sister and i told her she need to teach them not holler at them.

Ok just so you understand about it. A lot of us on here have got our wives to cut it out for the most part. Once they understand it doesn't fly with us it usually stops