Everyone should stop acting like big babies

[Richie Rich 70]

I'm a girl

Hi Girl --how r u so cool while waiting ?? Dont u miss yr honey ?? How do you cope --maybe you share your ''secret '' with us so we can stop ''crying like babies ''

[DiZZyLoX 114]

[DavidQ 13]

This is the best thread I have seen in the last 6 months!!

Seriously, did you think your Visa process was going to be given quickly?

I told my fiancee to get ready for at least a one year journey! That was giving all the ####### that I have seen and heard here.

Maybe some of you should have read about all the Visa ####### that goes on everyday?!!! We have adjusted fine. It is fun for us to talk about the drama and laugh at how long it takes. Maybe some of you need to relax.

I didn't check anything till 4 months or more. If you do not have the time or patience for the visa...you should figure out what you want. Its not going to happen the next day!!

Prepare your fiancee...or wife or husband. Let them know its going to be a journey. It could be a long one. If you truly love her or him.....Its going to be worth it!

Good Luck

[Wandis 32]

I understand your point, but how about trying to encourage people instead of tearing them down?

Once again and for the last time. I am not tearing anyone down with what I wrote. Again, I am not telling anyone to be sad or not to miss their sweetheart. I AM SAYING RELAX/CHILL/TAKE A DEEP BREATH. Funny how people feel so attacked and overlook what I'm actually getting at. Everyone knew what they got themselves into. And I do believe that everyone would feel a lot better if they took a step back and just accepted the situation for what it is. I have also said once that it seemed like the officers at VSC all went on a vacation. It is difficult to wait especially without knowing anything but it's the fact right in front of us and we can't do anything about it.

[ElviaH 0]

TOO FUNNY

[MichelleRicardo 0]

I'll tale that into offense, because on VJ i ventedd out a lot. It keep me from calling USCIS and screaming at someone. Which I know would have gotten me no where. So vented out on this forum. How do you cope with being apart from him for so long. It might be easier for ...well theres lots of things I could of saying but Im nice and won't. But what keeps you sane?

[joevegas 67]

Hi Girl --how r u so cool while waiting ?? Dont u miss yr honey ?? How do you cope --maybe you share your ''secret '' with us so we can stop ''crying like babies ''

The secret is to not be a whiney little crybaby,like you seem to be,I added the whiney part

[Ben&Romeliza 2]

It is called the (www) world wide web for a reason.... On this site, you will crossed the path of many individuals, from many different cultures. Yes, my purpose for interacting on this site was information on the process of a K1 visa... As I have shared my experiences and (little) knowledge in the process, I found many very interesting people.... People that I enjoy interacting with.... Yes, the process is long and we must remember that this process is a major turning point in some lives...so we should expect some emotions sometimes....We all share the same goal....that is why we are here.... someone garbage could be another man treasury.

[TBoneTX 43,057]

I swore to my wife I would never ever watch desperate housewive's once we got married.She said yes I would..I said when hell freezes over!!...I am now maried and watching desperate houswives

The most dangerous food is Wedding Cake, si man.

[jac_chappin 24]

Wandis -

Rather than bashing people, can you please share how you cope. I think this would be more beneficial.

Thanks much!

[sunandmoon 450]

a little musical accompaniment for the thread...

[Milushka 22]

...so whats a point complaining about people complaining.

While it might seem as "acting like big babies" people do share their experiences good or not about contacting uscis, senators, nvc etc.

Honestly, if back in times when i filed I havent seen tht it takes on average 3 months for NOA2, I would stay in states with my man, filed AOS, done !

So take it as precaution people entering VJ can see what it takes/ how long/ at what expense.

If you can stay all that cool great, I respect you for your steel nerves.

Edited April 13, 2011 by Milushka

[Ugly_American 11]

As someone earlier stated, it's healthiest to accept the process as a 8-9 month wait. It could be longer or shorter. Those for whom it's longer I do admire for their patience. I don't mind people using this forum to vent, but if it gets personal that's a different story. This site offers many things, but most importantly it helps us all to remain sane. The waiting is so difficult. It helps to know you're not the only person going through this stuff.

[razzyjohn 0]

I'm bit confused over here,who is whining over here????

:bonk: :bonk: :bonk: :bonk: :bonk:

[dragonlover 6]

If you dont want to see and read people whining then dont read the post much more dont log on..as simply as that. You should hear yourself, you are the one whining here. tsk!