Everyone should stop acting like big babies

[MRStee 19]

Perhaps not directly, but are you aware of your implication? Another life lesson I've taken, is to not worry about things that are outside of your control. And certainly how someone else wants to express themselves, about the process, would be one of those things, no?

:thumbs:

[MRStee 19]

That's a nice saying

Isn't it? and one I live by!

[Richie Rich 70]

As someone earlier stated, it's healthiest to accept the process as a 8-9 month wait. It could be longer or shorter. Those for whom it's longer I do admire for their patience. I don't mind people using this forum to vent, but if it gets personal that's a different story. This site offers many things, but most importantly it helps us all to remain sane. The waiting is so difficult. It helps to know you're not the only person going through this stuff.

If I had know before this K1 process was going to take this long --I would have filed for a CR1/IR1.

[JiaYou 22]

Yep I second that

[B_J 2,752]

If I had know before this K1 process was going to take this long --I would have filed for a CR1/IR1.

Agreed.

[Isometry 2]

My opinion was that I think people should know what they got themselves into. You think they are entitled to whine. But you do not think I am entitled to think that they should accept the situation that they are in.

I woke up one morning and thought, "I'm going to fall in love with someone who lives three thousand miles away and then spend six months doing paperwork so that we can be together", and then proceeded to do exactly that.

Knowing what we got into doesn't make it any easier.