Married but not living together

[Marieke H 2,542]

You seem very focused on naturalization, and not on your marriage. Don't you want to live with the person you married? Wasn't that the whole point of marrying and applying for a visa?

Focus on your marriage, and on how you can build your relationship. Seeing each other more often than once a month would be good, not necessarily for naturalization but for your marriage. When the time comes that you can apply for naturalization, you can see where you are and if it makes sense to apply. 

[Boiler 46,838]

Why the rush, seems much easier to wait until you are living together and then apply.

[JFH 12,192]

3 hours ago, Danny93 said:

Ill try my best to come see here more often if that would help 😅

thank you so much 

 

Try your best? This is your wife you’re talking about. Aren’t you miserable that you can’t live together? My company was going to send me to Texas for a few months. I live in Washington state. I was dreading being apart from my husband. I would have been miserable the whole time there. I was so relieved when they sent someone else instead. You make it sound like it’s going to be an inconvenience to see your wife. 
 

Where do you spend the breaks between semesters? Now that colleges are closed due to the virus I assume you are under the same roof? 

Edited April 14, 2020 by JFH

[Nitas_man 3,100]

5 hours ago, Danny93 said:

Ok so im still months old in the US so if we live together maybe a year before applying for citizenship? Will that work?

I think it would be super helpful if you could make it at least look like you are spending as much time and effort on your marriage as you are on seeking ways to skirt the rules and game the system.

 

The impression you are leaving here is not favorable.  I suspect your case as stated  would flag the interest of a dim bulb IO and would flash red to a sharp one.  
 

Finish your schooling, set up a home together, play house for a couple of years, file.  What’s the emergency anyway.  
 

We’ve been married 13 years, Nita could file for citizenship now today if she wished, but we are waiting for 3 full uninterrupted years of physical presence before she does, so we can eliminate a long trip flag.

Edited April 14, 2020 by Nitas_man

[Cathi 5,825]

7 hours ago, Danny93 said:

Ill be doing masters in dentistry so basically all my work is clinical. 

2 years of a 4 year dental program is clinical. The final 2 years.

[SalishSea 18,412]

7 hours ago, Danny93 said:

Ill be doing masters in dentistry so basically all my work is clinical. 

In the US?  Not a thing.

[SalishSea 18,412]

7 hours ago, Danny93 said:

Ok so im still months old in the US so if we live together maybe a year before applying for citizenship? Will that work?

You make this sound like a green card marriage, dude.....

[Danny93 4]

2 hours ago, Jorgedig said:

You make this sound like a green card marriage, dude.....

Oh you have no idea. Please dont make accusations if you dont know me. I want to be with her 24/7 but not everything goes the way we plan. 
I am talking about the worst case scenario (never being able to live together in the coming 3 years) but if everything goes as planned we will be able to live together in the last year of the 3 years requirment.

 

[Danny93 4]

2 hours ago, Jorgedig said:

In the US?  Not a thing.

Oh it is a thing 

[Danny93 4]

I would like to thank everyone for your help. But i am surprised that some of you are accusing me of fraud? Why on earth would i be married for almost 3 years for just a green card. This accusation would hurt anyones feelings so please don’t say it if you have no idea who am i.
 

Thank you again

[Danny93 4]

5 hours ago, JFH said:

Now that colleges are closed due to the virus I assume you are under the same roof? 

Yes we are. Enjoying quarantine to the max 😂

[Marieke H 2,542]

6 hours ago, Danny93 said:

I am talking about the worst case scenario (never being able to live together in the coming 3 years) but if everything goes as planned we will be able to live together in the last year of the 3 years requirment.

What's the rush though? You have a 10 year green card. Wait until you have actually lived like a married couple for several years and then apply for naturalization. 

[Danny93 4]

31 minutes ago, Marieke H said:

What's the rush though? You have a 10 year green card. Wait until you have actually lived like a married couple for several years and then apply for naturalization. 

Sounds like a great plan!!.. I am not in a rush at all, i just wanted to know my options.

Frankly my original question was whether uscis can take my GC away from me bcz we dont live together but since naturalization issue was mentioned i just wanted to know that too 😅

[Marieke H 2,542]

15 minutes ago, Danny93 said:

Sounds like a great plan!!.. I am not in a rush at all, i just wanted to know my options.

Frankly my original question was whether uscis can take my GC away from me bcz we dont live together but since naturalization issue was mentioned i just wanted to know that too 😅

Oh, gotcha. No, that greencard will not be taken away. Even if you'd divorce you would not lose your greencard. 

Maybe consider filing for naturalization under the 5 year rule (5 years of permanent residence) instead of 3 years of marriage to a USC, because your marriage might be scrutinized. 

[Danny93 4]

1 minute ago, Marieke H said:

Oh, gotcha. No, that greencard will not be taken away. Even if you'd divorce you would not lose your greencard. 

Maybe consider filing for naturalization under the 5 year rule (5 years of permanent residence) instead of 3 years of marriage to a USC, because your marriage might be scrutinized. 

Will do so.. thank you very much 😊😊