The True Approval doesn't come till Issued Status

[QueenOfBlades 224]

Ugh. Why do you have to make things so difficult and stressful for yourself? At your point in the process, I was off my tits that the interview had gone well and I was approved, and just kept checking my CEAC every day until it said "Issued". Once it got there, also again very happy, went through at POE with no issues at all. The horror stories are not common. I get the feeling you're a very pessimistic person; you always look for the negative in everything, even his interview that went well. You also said about giving up when you thought he'd failed the medical. Stop being so negative and just look forward to him coming to be with you.

[corvusheart 163]

Ugh. Why do you have to make things so difficult and stressful for yourself? At your point in the process, I was off my tits that the interview had gone well and I was approved, and just kept checking my CEAC every day until it said "Issued". Once it got there, also again very happy, went through at POE with no issues at all. The horror stories are not common. I get the feeling you're a very pessimistic person; you always look for the negative in everything, even his interview that went well. You also said about giving up when you thought he'd failed the medical. Stop being so negative and just look forward to him coming to be with you.

My concern is he only gave the VO my letter from employer, paystubs, tax return etc. But not the I-134 Affidavit of Support. So I'm pretty sure we're getting a 221 g in the mail.

[Lemonslice 4,557]

Here is the story: http://www.visajourney.com/forums/topic/230871-denied-at-poe/

Also, if you were my friend or my sister, I would strongly recommend you try to find someone to help you find strategies to deal with your anxiety; you can't live like that and make yourself miserable...

Edited May 26, 2014 by Boston~Montreal

[christeen 966]

I agree... Quit being such a Debbie downer... I heard of glass held full or half empty, but you seem not just to be a glass half empty person... But a glass half empty and broken at the top and the sharp edges likely to cut you and you would bleed to death because you were unable to dial 911 with your bloody stump of fingers so you might as well never bother to drink from a glass again regardless of how full or empty... Sheesh...

Just sit back, let them do their process and wait for the passport with the visa. No need to microanalyze ... Celebrate for one moment that your fiancé did good... Tell him he did well, give him some positivity that is what a spouse does, supports through positive encouragement... Give it a try...

[QueenOfBlades 224]

My concern is he only gave the VO my letter from employer, paystubs, tax return etc. But not the I-134 Affidavit of Support. So I'm pretty sure we're getting a 221 g in the mail.

You've already been told how unlikely that is. The document lady and the IO both know what they want to see and they ask for it. If they didn't ask for it, forget about it.

If you carry on like this, you're going to be an emotional wreck further along in the process. The K-1 is only the beginning of a very long immigration journey. Sometimes you have to learn not to worry yourself to death, let go and accept what happens will happen and that you will deal with it as a couple. You have to, for the sake of your sanity.

Edited May 26, 2014 by QueenOfBlades

[corvusheart 163]

Here is the story: http://www.visajourney.com/forums/topic/230871-denied-at-poe/

Also, if you were my friend or my sister, I would strongly recommend you try to find someone to help you find strategies to deal with your anxiety; you can't live like that and make yourself miserable...

This person had a criminal offense in their past that was the reason for their denied entry. My fiance has a clean record.

[Lemonslice 4,557]

This person had a criminal offense in their past that was the reason for their denied entry. My fiance has a clean record.

So then, why exactly are you still worried???

[corvusheart 163]

So then, why exactly are you still worried???

I'm not worried about POE, im worried about Affidavit of Support. How could they both forget such a mandatory document?

[Boiler 43,456]

I self sponsored.

[Hotter Otter 1,211]

The good thing about you being such a worrier is that if we ever get a similar London filer we can point them to your (many) threads.

Relax, and stop worrying about every small step of the Visa, this process must be even more unpleasant for you than it is for the rest of us.

[Laspoxaroumeni 68]

Even if u get approved on the interview... The officer in the airport has the right to deny ur entrance.... So u cant be sure for anything till u hug ur fiance!

[Hypnos 6,576]

The odds of being denied entry on either a K visa or immigrant visa are miniscule. Yes, it's happened, but it's not happened on many orders of magnitude more.

[Laspoxaroumeni 68]

But it happens. So u cant be sure for anything!!!

[Hypnos 6,576]

It happens so rarely that it's essentially not something you need to worry about.

[Laspoxaroumeni 68]

I'm worry more that we havent hear anything from nvc yet! :/