MzAllen

No it wasn't all on me because he was denied at initially, then the embassy official pulled strings...

Your post makes more sense to me than any of the previous posts so I'll gladly respond. First of all, thanks for your consideration. In hindsight, now I see clearly that this fiasco was all staged and fraud, no matter what anyone says nor thinks about me. I can't explain specifically in great detail how I was "duped", it was just the entire change of emotions, feelings, emotional and mental abuse then abandonment after the green card was issued.
No, I can tell you, it just didn't work out, it was planned for the situationship not to work out. And I agree with you wholeheartedly, I'm sure the reality shock came once he entered and found out that life wasn't like it is on TV. And I finally woke up and refused to take care of him! I made him get out there and find gainful employment and stop being a walking ATM machine to him and his family, that caused some of the problems too, according to him.
And whatever lawsuit I will pursue, I am basing it on the grounds that the USCIS and ICE failed to protect my best interests. By that I mean, the embassy in Jamaica allowed him to come over, despite the fact that he was flagged in their system for attempting to come over to the US before illegally and they didn't followup up with any type of accountability as they promised (home visits for example) after he came over to the US from Jamaica.
And he has a 10 yr green card, and we have been separated for almost 4 years. I am not as hurt as one thinks any longer and healing by becoming in love with myself. Yet,if you can just imagine for one minute, it's the circumstances, and manipulation that's hard to swallow. At this point, I am not even covertly trying to get this man deported...The entire vision here is to get the government to look at this type of fraud too, and not solely for people just trying to make a better life for themselves, jumping over walls, going through tunnels etc., and not using other people on the pretense on a bonafide relationship. I definitely have proof to provide to whomever that we never had anything close to a relationship, ever!
 
https://www.alllaw.com/articles/nolo/us-immigration/proving-bona-fide-marriage.html
 

No it wasn't all on me because he was denied at initially, then the embassy official pulled strings...

There is an old adage, If you don't have anything good to say, don't say anything!!!! Thanks and have a happy life!!!!

No it wasn't all on me because he was denied at initially, then the embassy official pulled strings...

There is an old adage, If you don't have anything good to say, don't say anything!!!! Thanks and have a happy life!!!!

Your post makes more sense to me than any of the previous posts so I'll gladly respond. First of all, thanks for your consideration. In hindsight, now I see clearly that this fiasco was all staged and fraud, no matter what anyone says nor thinks about me. I can't explain specifically in great detail how I was "duped", it was just the entire change of emotions, feelings, emotional and mental abuse then abandonment after the green card was issued.
No, I can tell you, it just didn't work out, it was planned for the situationship not to work out. And I agree with you wholeheartedly, I'm sure the reality shock came once he entered and found out that life wasn't like it is on TV. And I finally woke up and refused to take care of him! I made him get out there and find gainful employment and stop being a walking ATM machine to him and his family, that caused some of the problems too, according to him.
And whatever lawsuit I will pursue, I am basing it on the grounds that the USCIS and ICE failed to protect my best interests. By that I mean, the embassy in Jamaica allowed him to come over, despite the fact that he was flagged in their system for attempting to come over to the US before illegally and they didn't followup up with any type of accountability as they promised (home visits for example) after he came over to the US from Jamaica.
And he has a 10 yr green card, and we have been separated for almost 4 years. I am not as hurt as one thinks any longer and healing by becoming in love with myself. Yet,if you can just imagine for one minute, it's the circumstances, and manipulation that's hard to swallow. At this point, I am not even covertly trying to get this man deported...The entire vision here is to get the government to look at this type of fraud too, and not solely for people just trying to make a better life for themselves, jumping over walls, going through tunnels etc., and not using other people on the pretense on a bonafide relationship. I definitely have proof to provide to whomever that we never had anything close to a relationship, ever!
 
https://www.alllaw.com/articles/nolo/us-immigration/proving-bona-fide-marriage.html
 

I agree. I just want to add if a person you meet online first ask about your income, property and are you an American citizen it's big no to continue relationships, I mean it's normal to ask what profession you have and who do you live with but at the beginning if they ask you details of income and property is not a good sign. I see many women on Facebook who ask about bringing 20 years old guys to states when they are 50 and people give them advises and wish happiness, the same old men and young women, people don't understand or they understand but they are afraid of loneliness and just pay for that, I wonder to know the answer.

No it wasn't all on me because he was denied at initially, then the embassy official pulled strings...

i can not even begin to count the times i have opened and scanned posts when an american is "in love online " sometimes never having met the person
and people here tell them 'take it easy"  " don't rush into a marriage"   get to know the man/woman
but if fact ,  no one wants to hear that but it is said many times
and even if a person marries another american,  it can be for the wrong reasons and one of them is using the other
Please forget and forgive and move on 
and take this as a hard hard lesson to learn because if you don't ,,  you will age fast and none of us needs premature  grey hair

Your post makes more sense to me than any of the previous posts so I'll gladly respond. First of all, thanks for your consideration. In hindsight, now I see clearly that this fiasco was all staged and fraud, no matter what anyone says nor thinks about me. I can't explain specifically in great detail how I was "duped", it was just the entire change of emotions, feelings, emotional and mental abuse then abandonment after the green card was issued.
No, I can tell you, it just didn't work out, it was planned for the situationship not to work out. And I agree with you wholeheartedly, I'm sure the reality shock came once he entered and found out that life wasn't like it is on TV. And I finally woke up and refused to take care of him! I made him get out there and find gainful employment and stop being a walking ATM machine to him and his family, that caused some of the problems too, according to him.
And whatever lawsuit I will pursue, I am basing it on the grounds that the USCIS and ICE failed to protect my best interests. By that I mean, the embassy in Jamaica allowed him to come over, despite the fact that he was flagged in their system for attempting to come over to the US before illegally and they didn't followup up with any type of accountability as they promised (home visits for example) after he came over to the US from Jamaica.
And he has a 10 yr green card, and we have been separated for almost 4 years. I am not as hurt as one thinks any longer and healing by becoming in love with myself. Yet,if you can just imagine for one minute, it's the circumstances, and manipulation that's hard to swallow. At this point, I am not even covertly trying to get this man deported...The entire vision here is to get the government to look at this type of fraud too, and not solely for people just trying to make a better life for themselves, jumping over walls, going through tunnels etc., and not using other people on the pretense on a bonafide relationship. I definitely have proof to provide to whomever that we never had anything close to a relationship, ever!
 
https://www.alllaw.com/articles/nolo/us-immigration/proving-bona-fide-marriage.html
 

Your post makes more sense to me than any of the previous posts so I'll gladly respond. First of all, thanks for your consideration. In hindsight, now I see clearly that this fiasco was all staged and fraud, no matter what anyone says nor thinks about me. I can't explain specifically in great detail how I was "duped", it was just the entire change of emotions, feelings, emotional and mental abuse then abandonment after the green card was issued.
No, I can tell you, it just didn't work out, it was planned for the situationship not to work out. And I agree with you wholeheartedly, I'm sure the reality shock came once he entered and found out that life wasn't like it is on TV. And I finally woke up and refused to take care of him! I made him get out there and find gainful employment and stop being a walking ATM machine to him and his family, that caused some of the problems too, according to him.
And whatever lawsuit I will pursue, I am basing it on the grounds that the USCIS and ICE failed to protect my best interests. By that I mean, the embassy in Jamaica allowed him to come over, despite the fact that he was flagged in their system for attempting to come over to the US before illegally and they didn't followup up with any type of accountability as they promised (home visits for example) after he came over to the US from Jamaica.
And he has a 10 yr green card, and we have been separated for almost 4 years. I am not as hurt as one thinks any longer and healing by becoming in love with myself. Yet,if you can just imagine for one minute, it's the circumstances, and manipulation that's hard to swallow. At this point, I am not even covertly trying to get this man deported...The entire vision here is to get the government to look at this type of fraud too, and not solely for people just trying to make a better life for themselves, jumping over walls, going through tunnels etc., and not using other people on the pretense on a bonafide relationship. I definitely have proof to provide to whomever that we never had anything close to a relationship, ever!
 
https://www.alllaw.com/articles/nolo/us-immigration/proving-bona-fide-marriage.html
 

Did it happen to you may I ask?

That makes perfect sense, I fell for the love bombing and actually met my husband's family...
Can you ask her if she'd be interested in filing a mandamus action or class action lawsuit or give her my information please?
Thanks for your response

That makes perfect sense, I fell for the love bombing and actually met my husband's family...
Can you ask her if she'd be interested in filing a mandamus action or class action lawsuit or give her my information please?
Thanks for your response

Just wondering how many people were "duped" into thinking they were in a actual relationship, just to find out shortly afterwards you were not....and were essentially used for a green card.
There is a possibility of preventing this from happening to anyone else....if we brainstorm and work together!!!!
Naysayers, please keep in mind that we petitioners spent considerable amounts spent time, energy and money, so be kind. And finally, any negativity is not appreciated here. If you haven't been in our shoes...how would you even know how we feel????

Just wondering how many people were "duped" into thinking they were in a actual relationship, just to find out shortly afterwards you were not....and were essentially used for a green card.
There is a possibility of preventing this from happening to anyone else....if we brainstorm and work together!!!!
Naysayers, please keep in mind that we petitioners spent considerable amounts spent time, energy and money, so be kind. And finally, any negativity is not appreciated here. If you haven't been in our shoes...how would you even know how we feel????

Just wondering how many people were "duped" into thinking they were in a actual relationship, just to find out shortly afterwards you were not....and were essentially used for a green card.
There is a possibility of preventing this from happening to anyone else....if we brainstorm and work together!!!!
Naysayers, please keep in mind that we petitioners spent considerable amounts spent time, energy and money, so be kind. And finally, any negativity is not appreciated here. If you haven't been in our shoes...how would you even know how we feel????

Just wondering how many people were "duped" into thinking they were in a actual relationship, just to find out shortly afterwards you were not....and were essentially used for a green card.
There is a possibility of preventing this from happening to anyone else....if we brainstorm and work together!!!!
Naysayers, please keep in mind that we petitioners spent considerable amounts spent time, energy and money, so be kind. And finally, any negativity is not appreciated here. If you haven't been in our shoes...how would you even know how we feel????

That makes perfect sense, I fell for the love bombing and actually met my husband's family...
Can you ask her if she'd be interested in filing a mandamus action or class action lawsuit or give her my information please?
Thanks for your response

That makes perfect sense, I fell for the love bombing and actually met my husband's family...
Can you ask her if she'd be interested in filing a mandamus action or class action lawsuit or give her my information please?
Thanks for your response

That makes perfect sense, I fell for the love bombing and actually met my husband's family...
Can you ask her if she'd be interested in filing a mandamus action or class action lawsuit or give her my information please?
Thanks for your response

That makes perfect sense, I fell for the love bombing and actually met my husband's family...
Can you ask her if she'd be interested in filing a mandamus action or class action lawsuit or give her my information please?
Thanks for your response

Just wondering how many people were "duped" into thinking they were in a actual relationship, just to find out shortly afterwards you were not....and were essentially used for a green card.
There is a possibility of preventing this from happening to anyone else....if we brainstorm and work together!!!!
Naysayers, please keep in mind that we petitioners spent considerable amounts spent time, energy and money, so be kind. And finally, any negativity is not appreciated here. If you haven't been in our shoes...how would you even know how we feel????

That makes perfect sense, I fell for the love bombing and actually met my husband's family...
Can you ask her if she'd be interested in filing a mandamus action or class action lawsuit or give her my information please?
Thanks for your response