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    Bengoj reacted to Family in Marriage fraud   
    A court case that features a “savvy college educated” fellow, a fake Nigerian divorce decree, a Consulate Officer testimony and a Nigerian Attorney ( testifying on Zoom)…

     
     

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    Bengoj reacted to Pinkrlion in Marriage fraud   
    Make a statement that has been notorized with a copy of the fraud decree and submit the info to the fraud dept. Also get a statement from the attorney with investigation results. 
     
     
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    Bengoj reacted to Pinkrlion in Marriage fraud   
    It is immigration fraud. He will use his fraud antics and file for his wife and child and return to the US. 
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    Bengoj reacted to afry2021 in fake divorce cert / kid / noid   
    I am a USC married to a man from ghana in 2019. we filed for I-130, I-485 etc and after some months of submitting his paper-works to USCIS, he eventually got his EAD and starts working. This guy support me in everything that requires finances (including my bills and rents), help with my crippled daughter and I was diagnosed with type-2 diabetes which makes my health to get worse everyday. we got notice for his AOS interview in Chicago local office and after few month of waiting we got reply that my husband need to authenticate the divorce certificate he presented from ghana (NOID). At this point my husband opens up to me that the divorce cert was fake that he is never married back home and that the son he told me he had was a lie too. he told me this was the lie he presented in ghana to get visa to come here.

    Now my major concern now is he presented this same fake certificate in the court to get married to me and the fake son's name he claimed is on our marriage license. Now he is ready to tell the USCIS the whole truth and not cover more lies.

    My readers, what should we do ? what are the implications of this on his chance of getting his green-card? Are we still legally married if we inform the court house? because without this my husband, myself and my daughter we're doomed.

    Every reply and contributions will be appreciated.
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    Bengoj reacted to RANNK1 in Think carefully before you marry a Nigerian, I regret doing so!   
    Hi everyone. I have not posted or even logged on here for years. I met my Nigerian husband in 2008 and brought him here on a K-1 visa in 2009. I thought he loved me by all the sweet words he said, the hundreds of hours on the phone and webcam, messenger..... Well he was only here three days and took my bank card and purchased dating website subscriptions. He was on several sites. I was not aware of this until three months later. Meanwhile, we got married and I got pregnant . I was devestated when I found out and confronted him. he said it didn't matter because he was just bored and wanted to talk to them for fun and wasn't planning to meet anyone. He promised to stop, but he fell into a habit of doing it every few months, me catching him and then he would do it again. We got into a lot of heated arguements and I turned into a detective in my own house. He claimed to be addicted to it and it wasn't personal. We went to counseling , we prayed and fasted, he even fly to Nigeria to seek deliverance from his Pastor. He still kept having emotional affairs, often getting a woman's phone number and then talking to her secretly. Twice he had physical affairs. By August of this year I caught him again and kicked him out. I told him to get help and if he could control himself, he could return. He decided to get a second job, buy himself a new car, a new tv, anything but get help. On Christmas ev he announced that he want to have all the young pretty woman he wants now and wants to be single. He said he cant stop going on dating websites and will cheat on me if he returns. He is also emotionally and verbally abusive. He never even gave our kids Christmas presents.
    He has ruined my life and my kids' lives. He sucked $15,000 from me overall, he took my youth and beauty, he damaged my relationship with my family, I lost my best friend, he took away all my hope and happiness in life. I regret ever meeting him!!!! Everyone told me he is going to scam you or treat you badly, don't talk to him, but I did it anyways.
    In addition, I many many other people on here who married a nigerian a few years ago and we all regret. One lady married the guy and he turned around and married a Nigerian woman right after his interview (meanwhile taking thousands from her over the years). Another lady brought her husband here on a K-1 and he cheated on her allll the time, was rude, unloving. He was even doing romance scamming here in the states in front of her and the kids. When he wasn't doing that he was in stip clubs and bars picking up new girls. another lady just found out her Nigerian husband of two years, has been having an affair for the past year with a co-worker much older than him.
    Many of these men have no shame and no integrety. Please use extreme caution. Run away!!
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    Bengoj got a reaction from yellowtulips in Case Complete to Interview February 2020   
    I’m the US born citizen and my husband is Nigerian. My husband Always  Sent Me money via western union and I didn’t have to provide proof of none of that. Our visa is approved. 
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    Bengoj reacted to Iscir in Case Complete to Interview February 2020   
    because they could think he using you for money. maybe it could be good proof in other countries but not Nigeria, especially since it's you the woman sending money to the man. Usually it's the man sending money to the woman
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    Bengoj reacted to dwheels76 in Case Complete to Interview February 2020   
    Way to go. Proud of you too. Now all that money you  saved not needing a lawyer a nice honeymoon exotic.
     
    Or rest too.
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    Bengoj got a reaction from JC&PB in Case Complete to Interview February 2020   
    Good morning. I am back home in the US from my husband’s interview that was located at Ankara, Turkey Embassy. He is a Nigerian with permanent residency in Turkey. 
    PD-10/9/2018
    I-130 approved-7/24/2019
    Document qualifies-11/22/9
    interview January 27. 
    Visa Approved🎉
     
    Thank you to everyone that helped with questions that I had❤️ Everyone else still waiting, hang In there it will come. It’s not easy, I swear me and my husband almost divorced about a thousand times due to frustration, mainly my troublesome frustration towards this because he was the calmer one. In the past 2 years I have flown to Nigeria and Turkey a total of 9 times. It wasn’t easy but We overcame it! We are finally finished with this thank God!  
     
    The day After interview, he was sent a notification via text notifying him to pick up Visa❤️ 
    Timeline is updated. 
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    Bengoj got a reaction from CaylinObinna in Case Complete to Interview February 2020   
    I’m the US born citizen and my husband is Nigerian. My husband Always  Sent Me money via western union and I didn’t have to provide proof of none of that. Our visa is approved. 
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    Bengoj reacted to dwheels76 in Case Complete to Interview February 2020   
    Congratulations. Happy Married life to you both.
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    Bengoj got a reaction from Shaylan21 in Case Complete to Interview February 2020   
    Good morning. I am back home in the US from my husband’s interview that was located at Ankara, Turkey Embassy. He is a Nigerian with permanent residency in Turkey. 
    PD-10/9/2018
    I-130 approved-7/24/2019
    Document qualifies-11/22/9
    interview January 27. 
    Visa Approved🎉
     
    Thank you to everyone that helped with questions that I had❤️ Everyone else still waiting, hang In there it will come. It’s not easy, I swear me and my husband almost divorced about a thousand times due to frustration, mainly my troublesome frustration towards this because he was the calmer one. In the past 2 years I have flown to Nigeria and Turkey a total of 9 times. It wasn’t easy but We overcame it! We are finally finished with this thank God!  
     
    The day After interview, he was sent a notification via text notifying him to pick up Visa❤️ 
    Timeline is updated. 
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    Bengoj got a reaction from AndyRoo6 in Case Complete to Interview February 2020   
    Good morning. I am back home in the US from my husband’s interview that was located at Ankara, Turkey Embassy. He is a Nigerian with permanent residency in Turkey. 
    PD-10/9/2018
    I-130 approved-7/24/2019
    Document qualifies-11/22/9
    interview January 27. 
    Visa Approved🎉
     
    Thank you to everyone that helped with questions that I had❤️ Everyone else still waiting, hang In there it will come. It’s not easy, I swear me and my husband almost divorced about a thousand times due to frustration, mainly my troublesome frustration towards this because he was the calmer one. In the past 2 years I have flown to Nigeria and Turkey a total of 9 times. It wasn’t easy but We overcame it! We are finally finished with this thank God!  
     
    The day After interview, he was sent a notification via text notifying him to pick up Visa❤️ 
    Timeline is updated. 
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    Bengoj got a reaction from Bking in Case Complete to Interview February 2020   
    Good morning. I am back home in the US from my husband’s interview that was located at Ankara, Turkey Embassy. He is a Nigerian with permanent residency in Turkey. 
    PD-10/9/2018
    I-130 approved-7/24/2019
    Document qualifies-11/22/9
    interview January 27. 
    Visa Approved🎉
     
    Thank you to everyone that helped with questions that I had❤️ Everyone else still waiting, hang In there it will come. It’s not easy, I swear me and my husband almost divorced about a thousand times due to frustration, mainly my troublesome frustration towards this because he was the calmer one. In the past 2 years I have flown to Nigeria and Turkey a total of 9 times. It wasn’t easy but We overcame it! We are finally finished with this thank God!  
     
    The day After interview, he was sent a notification via text notifying him to pick up Visa❤️ 
    Timeline is updated. 
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    Bengoj got a reaction from mam521 in Case Complete to Interview February 2020   
    Good morning. I am back home in the US from my husband’s interview that was located at Ankara, Turkey Embassy. He is a Nigerian with permanent residency in Turkey. 
    PD-10/9/2018
    I-130 approved-7/24/2019
    Document qualifies-11/22/9
    interview January 27. 
    Visa Approved🎉
     
    Thank you to everyone that helped with questions that I had❤️ Everyone else still waiting, hang In there it will come. It’s not easy, I swear me and my husband almost divorced about a thousand times due to frustration, mainly my troublesome frustration towards this because he was the calmer one. In the past 2 years I have flown to Nigeria and Turkey a total of 9 times. It wasn’t easy but We overcame it! We are finally finished with this thank God!  
     
    The day After interview, he was sent a notification via text notifying him to pick up Visa❤️ 
    Timeline is updated. 
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    Bengoj got a reaction from Iscir in Case Complete to Interview February 2020   
    Good morning. I am back home in the US from my husband’s interview that was located at Ankara, Turkey Embassy. He is a Nigerian with permanent residency in Turkey. 
    PD-10/9/2018
    I-130 approved-7/24/2019
    Document qualifies-11/22/9
    interview January 27. 
    Visa Approved🎉
     
    Thank you to everyone that helped with questions that I had❤️ Everyone else still waiting, hang In there it will come. It’s not easy, I swear me and my husband almost divorced about a thousand times due to frustration, mainly my troublesome frustration towards this because he was the calmer one. In the past 2 years I have flown to Nigeria and Turkey a total of 9 times. It wasn’t easy but We overcame it! We are finally finished with this thank God!  
     
    The day After interview, he was sent a notification via text notifying him to pick up Visa❤️ 
    Timeline is updated. 
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    Bengoj got a reaction from SeMag2627 in Case Complete to Interview February 2020   
    That sounds so good😍🥰 Thank you!!
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    Bengoj got a reaction from SeMag2627 in Case Complete to Interview February 2020   
    Good morning. I am back home in the US from my husband’s interview that was located at Ankara, Turkey Embassy. He is a Nigerian with permanent residency in Turkey. 
    PD-10/9/2018
    I-130 approved-7/24/2019
    Document qualifies-11/22/9
    interview January 27. 
    Visa Approved🎉
     
    Thank you to everyone that helped with questions that I had❤️ Everyone else still waiting, hang In there it will come. It’s not easy, I swear me and my husband almost divorced about a thousand times due to frustration, mainly my troublesome frustration towards this because he was the calmer one. In the past 2 years I have flown to Nigeria and Turkey a total of 9 times. It wasn’t easy but We overcame it! We are finally finished with this thank God!  
     
    The day After interview, he was sent a notification via text notifying him to pick up Visa❤️ 
    Timeline is updated. 
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    Bengoj got a reaction from Juliet57 in Case Complete to Interview February 2020   
    Good morning. I am back home in the US from my husband’s interview that was located at Ankara, Turkey Embassy. He is a Nigerian with permanent residency in Turkey. 
    PD-10/9/2018
    I-130 approved-7/24/2019
    Document qualifies-11/22/9
    interview January 27. 
    Visa Approved🎉
     
    Thank you to everyone that helped with questions that I had❤️ Everyone else still waiting, hang In there it will come. It’s not easy, I swear me and my husband almost divorced about a thousand times due to frustration, mainly my troublesome frustration towards this because he was the calmer one. In the past 2 years I have flown to Nigeria and Turkey a total of 9 times. It wasn’t easy but We overcame it! We are finally finished with this thank God!  
     
    The day After interview, he was sent a notification via text notifying him to pick up Visa❤️ 
    Timeline is updated. 
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    Bengoj got a reaction from Caresse33 in Case Complete to Interview February 2020   
    Good morning. I am back home in the US from my husband’s interview that was located at Ankara, Turkey Embassy. He is a Nigerian with permanent residency in Turkey. 
    PD-10/9/2018
    I-130 approved-7/24/2019
    Document qualifies-11/22/9
    interview January 27. 
    Visa Approved🎉
     
    Thank you to everyone that helped with questions that I had❤️ Everyone else still waiting, hang In there it will come. It’s not easy, I swear me and my husband almost divorced about a thousand times due to frustration, mainly my troublesome frustration towards this because he was the calmer one. In the past 2 years I have flown to Nigeria and Turkey a total of 9 times. It wasn’t easy but We overcame it! We are finally finished with this thank God!  
     
    The day After interview, he was sent a notification via text notifying him to pick up Visa❤️ 
    Timeline is updated. 
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    Bengoj got a reaction from FloraTen in Case Complete to Interview February 2020   
    Good morning. I am back home in the US from my husband’s interview that was located at Ankara, Turkey Embassy. He is a Nigerian with permanent residency in Turkey. 
    PD-10/9/2018
    I-130 approved-7/24/2019
    Document qualifies-11/22/9
    interview January 27. 
    Visa Approved🎉
     
    Thank you to everyone that helped with questions that I had❤️ Everyone else still waiting, hang In there it will come. It’s not easy, I swear me and my husband almost divorced about a thousand times due to frustration, mainly my troublesome frustration towards this because he was the calmer one. In the past 2 years I have flown to Nigeria and Turkey a total of 9 times. It wasn’t easy but We overcame it! We are finally finished with this thank God!  
     
    The day After interview, he was sent a notification via text notifying him to pick up Visa❤️ 
    Timeline is updated. 
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    Bengoj got a reaction from mac_skendy in Case Complete to Interview February 2020   
    That sounds so good😍🥰 Thank you!!
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    Bengoj got a reaction from mac_skendy in Case Complete to Interview February 2020   
    Good morning. I am back home in the US from my husband’s interview that was located at Ankara, Turkey Embassy. He is a Nigerian with permanent residency in Turkey. 
    PD-10/9/2018
    I-130 approved-7/24/2019
    Document qualifies-11/22/9
    interview January 27. 
    Visa Approved🎉
     
    Thank you to everyone that helped with questions that I had❤️ Everyone else still waiting, hang In there it will come. It’s not easy, I swear me and my husband almost divorced about a thousand times due to frustration, mainly my troublesome frustration towards this because he was the calmer one. In the past 2 years I have flown to Nigeria and Turkey a total of 9 times. It wasn’t easy but We overcame it! We are finally finished with this thank God!  
     
    The day After interview, he was sent a notification via text notifying him to pick up Visa❤️ 
    Timeline is updated. 
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    Bengoj got a reaction from DKing in Case Complete to Interview February 2020   
    Good morning. I am back home in the US from my husband’s interview that was located at Ankara, Turkey Embassy. He is a Nigerian with permanent residency in Turkey. 
    PD-10/9/2018
    I-130 approved-7/24/2019
    Document qualifies-11/22/9
    interview January 27. 
    Visa Approved🎉
     
    Thank you to everyone that helped with questions that I had❤️ Everyone else still waiting, hang In there it will come. It’s not easy, I swear me and my husband almost divorced about a thousand times due to frustration, mainly my troublesome frustration towards this because he was the calmer one. In the past 2 years I have flown to Nigeria and Turkey a total of 9 times. It wasn’t easy but We overcame it! We are finally finished with this thank God!  
     
    The day After interview, he was sent a notification via text notifying him to pick up Visa❤️ 
    Timeline is updated. 
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    Bengoj got a reaction from PrincessCRV in Case Complete to Interview January 2020   
    hello all!  I just received my husband’s interview letter for January 27🙏🏽
    DQ 11/22.  It’s a new week and They are working on these letters so for those that didn’t get it yet, it’s coming soon enough. Good luck to all! 
    This process is about a good 15 months for ir1/cr1 give or take.
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