evidence of bonafide marriage (merged topics)

[powerpuff 6,594]

1 hour ago, Imili-Aksil said:

How come?   Changing name on SS is a big thing.  Wondering why. 

If that was considered an indication of a bona fide marriage then everyone would be doing that. Especially when it comes to difficult consulates.

[SalishSea 17,713]

1 hour ago, powerpuff said:

If that was considered an indication of a bona fide marriage then everyone would be doing that. Especially when it comes to difficult consulates.

Exactly.  In the world of immigration, it is not a measure of someone's love or commitment to another person.  Just like having kids is not.  

[SalishSea 17,713]

2 hours ago, Imili-Aksil said:

Yes... marriage certificate, consular embassy approved for the Moroccan marriage. Translated everything. 

Large age difference, with you being older?

[Ryan H 3,812]

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[SteveInBostonI130 3,402]

8 hours ago, SalishSea said:

Exactly.  In the world of immigration, it is not a measure of someone's love or commitment to another person.  Just like having kids is not.  

 

Having kids together actually is strong evidence for immigration, perhaps the strongest.  

 

[JeanneAdil 6,410]

13 hours ago, Imili-Aksil said:

Hello, 

 

Husband and I have bank accounts in Morocco.  We have "power of attorney" to access each others bank accounts.  The bank would not allow us to joint our finances together, but allow us to access each other's account individually.  SO... When I left Morocco, my husband tried to PUT CASH in my account.  They refused to let him do it.  I am baffled.  They say that I am not a Moroccan citizen.  So our bank accounts are just "SITTING" there with no activity.  That doesn't look good.  

 

How do you commingle finances in such situations like that?  They would not even let me co-sign for him a new vehicle, because I am not a Moroccan citizen. 

 

NOW, I am going to raise hackles when I go back and argue with the bank people there. What's the point of having power of atty to access each other's banks? 

 

SO, I changed my last name on my SS to my husband's last name.  I am going to change my driver license last name to his as well.  Is this bonafide enough?  

 

We've been legally married in Morocco since June 30, 2022.  I am making my 3rd trip back and sort this out with our banks.  

 

If financial commingling helps with the case, and banks forbid it and only allows POA, then ... I am lost here. 

 

Any help with this would be appreciated. 

 

IMILI. 

 

you can not do joint accounts in Moroc (we tried)

commingling in Moroc is not the issue

u have to live in Moroc 18 months and apply for residency to be able to do joint in Moroc

 

but we are talking about US accounts

your IRS tax returns needs to say Married with his name as spouse even if not doing MFJ  /MFS asks also for spouse's name

 

concentrate on your trips with boarding passes to show u were with him

of course,  the marriage certificate

adding him to an account her in US like a charge card or utility bill 

 

name change on SS card and your driving license is not real proof that u share a life and not normal for a woman in Moroc to change her name

[SalishSea 17,713]

4 hours ago, SteveInBostonI130 said:

 

Having kids together actually is strong evidence for immigration, perhaps the strongest.  

 

Not really.  And for this reason, we all know that pregnancy is not a reason for expedite.

 

All the couples who cannot or choose not to reproduce together do not have less legit marriages for immigration purposes.

[A&J22 30]

Keep in mind that USCIS understands that consular processing limits certain types of evidence, such as join accounts. You can submit proof of time spent together, such as photos, hotel and airline confirmations, money transfers (if applicable), being the beneficiary in life insurance or retirement plans, phone record, you do not need every single type of proof, just do your best and do not over think it. Good luck.

[SteveInBostonI130 3,402]

On 4/29/2023 at 1:30 PM, SalishSea said:

Not really.  And for this reason, we all know that pregnancy is not a reason for expedite.

 

All the couples who cannot or choose not to reproduce together do not have less legit marriages for immigration purposes.

 

Reason for expedite vs evidence of a bona fide relationship are 2 different things.  If they were tied, then all those whose expedites were denied would also have had their visas/adjustments denied.

 

Here's a post from a few months ago regarding the evidence of having children together:

 

 

I do agree that it is unfair for couples that cannot or do not wish to have children together, which includes my wife and me.  

 

[Imili-Aksil 10]

On 4/29/2023 at 12:05 AM, SalishSea said:

Large age difference, with you being older?

We have been together for 4 years since 2019, visited 3 times.  MARRIED last summer - spent 6 weeks. 

 

Yes, age is a mitigating factor.  

[Imili-Aksil 10]

On 4/28/2023 at 9:33 PM, Boiler said:

Did you marry on your second visit?

Affirmative, now on my 3rd visit 5 weeks. 

[Imili-Aksil 10]

On 4/29/2023 at 10:54 AM, JeanneAdil said:

you can not do joint accounts in Moroc (we tried)

commingling in Moroc is not the issue

u have to live in Moroc 18 months and apply for residency to be able to do joint in Moroc

 

but we are talking about US accounts

your IRS tax returns needs to say Married with his name as spouse even if not doing MFJ  /MFS asks also for spouse's name

 

concentrate on your trips with boarding passes to show u were with him

of course,  the marriage certificate

adding him to an account her in US like a charge card or utility bill 

 

name change on SS card and your driving license is not real proof that u share a life and not normal for a woman in Moroc to change her name

Thank you for your assistance and clarification.  I shall talk to my tax accountant now. 

 

[Boiler 45,281]

6 minutes ago, Imili-Aksil said:

Yes, age is a mitigating factor.  

I am not sure what that means

[powerpuff 6,594]

8 minutes ago, Boiler said:

I am not sure what that means

Same. Maybe they meant aggravating?

[JeanneAdil 6,410]

13 hours ago, Imili-Aksil said:

We have been together for 4 years since 2019, visited 3 times.  MARRIED last summer - spent 6 weeks. 

 

Yes, age is a mitigating factor.  

mitigating?

making something serious less severe

 

if the age difference is woman older than the Moroccan man by 10 or more years its a serious issue

inch allah  u will be ok