Sponsor Wants To Report Soon To Be Ex Wife For Work Authorization Violation

[Timona 3,970]

Lemme sum it up:

1. You have been told how to submit evidence. You can submit anything apart from videos / anything on flash drives etc. So, take statics of the video of you want. 

2. Once you're satisfied, because that's what you want, concentrate on your divorce. 

3. I would not even be talking to the lady about you doing 1 above because she can use it and twist it against you to justify why she divorced you. 

4. I'd suggest heal and then try dating and marrying closer to home, someone without need for immigration paperwork. 

 

If you want sidechat, PM me. I can tell you about a divorce that happened this year, a friend, same story. I can tell you how he went through it. He did pay an attorney but results are the same. So, instead of you paying an attorney, I can give you the specifics and you can then choose if it worth huffing and puffing. 

[Kanja 201]

Here he asked how he can withdraw his Affidavit of support. Everyone told him it’s not possible so now it seems like he’s looking for another way to get back at her by reporting her for working unauthorized. Even the language is same. 
 

 

[AsientoDelNegro 13]

7 minutes ago, milimelo said:

They won’t accept anything that’s not on paper only. Digital thumb drives, cds, dvd’s. So anything video is out (unless they’re willing to go to a link you provide to watch the video but that’s be unlikely). 

I was going to submit it through their tips page, I could link to a image holder website, and a video holder website, where they could click on a link I provide and they could easily view and download the screenshots and/or the video.

[iwannaplay54 985]

1 hour ago, AsientoDelNegro said:

When I get back from vacation, I will attempt to talk to HR directly to try and get her off of it. 

Your tab if she uses public benefits dude. I’d insure her to the last moment she qualifies. 

1 hour ago, K1visaHopeful said:

This isn't the first time someone has wanted to punish their immigrant in the forums.

These guys are a dime a dozen 😂 They recycle the last ones plans and ideas

 

It’s like reading the same bitter dude’s posts for what almost two decades now 

Edited December 22, 2022 by iwannaplay54

[AsientoDelNegro 13]

10 minutes ago, Timona said:

Lemme sum it up:

1. You have been told how to submit evidence. You can submit anything apart from videos / anything on flash drives etc. So, take statics of the video of you want. 

2. Once you're satisfied, because that's what you want, concentrate on your divorce. 

3. I would not even be talking to the lady about you doing 1 above because she can use it and twist it against you to justify why she divorced you. 

4. I'd suggest heal and then try dating and marrying closer to home, someone without need for immigration paperwork. 

 

If you want sidechat, PM me. I can tell you about a divorce that happened this year, a friend, same story. I can tell you how he went through it. He did pay an attorney but results are the same. So, instead of you paying an attorney, I can give you the specifics and you can then choose if it worth huffing and puffing. 

Okay, I'll consider this. Thanks.

[iwannaplay54 985]

9 minutes ago, Kanja said:

Here he asked how he can withdraw his Affidavit of support. Everyone told him it’s not possible so now it seems like he’s looking for another way to get back at her by reporting her for working unauthorized. Even the language is same. 
 

 

OH you know it is

[AsientoDelNegro 13]

9 minutes ago, Kanja said:

Here he asked how he can withdraw his Affidavit of support. Everyone told him it’s not possible so now it seems like he’s looking for another way to get back at her by reporting her for working unauthorized. Even the language is same. 
 

 

You obviously believe you are apart of some tribe of some sort and seem emotionally invested in punishing people who you are prejudiced against, without provocation. Good luck with all that. 

[Timona 3,970]

5 minutes ago, AsientoDelNegro said:

I was going to submit it through their tips page, I could link to a image holder website, and a video holder website, where they could click on a link I provide and they could easily view and download the screenshots and/or the video.

 

Boss, they're not gonna do that. USCIS doesn't click on external links nor insert thumb drives provided by outsiders on their systems. Think security.

 

If that video really matters to you, just take screenshots of the video, number them in sequential order.

Edited December 22, 2022 by Timona

[iwannaplay54 985]

1 hour ago, AsientoDelNegro said:

Yeah but if she willingly quits her job, isn't that in and of itself a violation? No

This makes no sense. It's like the sponsor has no rights.  You dont

I understand that as the sponsor I'm responsible for her, ultimately, but does that give her the free reign to be belligerently taking advantage of my sponsorship.  Yes

That doesn't seem right.  Nope

 

I think you’re getting the message.  Your Best bet is help her get set up and independent as fast as possible

[Kanja 201]

2 minutes ago, AsientoDelNegro said:

You obviously believe you are apart of some tribe of some sort and seem emotionally invested in punishing people who you are prejudiced against, without provocation. Good luck with all that. 

Lol 

1) how am I punishing you? 
2) how am I prejudiced against you ? 
 

i pointed out the obvious and you didn’t deny it.

 

Edited December 22, 2022 by Kanja

[AsientoDelNegro 13]

1 minute ago, Timona said:

 

Boss,they're not gonna do that. USCIS doesn't click on external links nor insert thumb drivers on their systems, gadgets provided by outsiders. Think security.

 

If that video really matters to you, just take screenshots of the video, number them in sequential order.

Okay screenshots only, got it. Yeah numbering is good so they connect the dates. I mean, listen, I still might not submit it, but if I do, this is good to know. Thanks. 

[AsientoDelNegro 13]

Just now, Kanja said:

Lol 

1) how am I punishing you? 
2) how am I prejudiced against you ? 
 

i pointed out the obvious and you didn’t deny it.

 

..okay so why are you on my case without provocation?

Do you listen to yourself, you sound like a fevered, mindless, attack dog. 

Accusing innocent people of crimes, of domestic abuse. 

What's wrong with you.

Telling people they're not listening to advise and are lost causes, simply because they're asking questions and giving their two cents.

Seriously, grow up and get out of this gang up mentality. 

[Kanja 201]

10 minutes ago, AsientoDelNegro said:

..okay so why are you on my case without provocation?

Do you listen to yourself, you sound like a fevered, mindless, attack dog. 

Accusing innocent people of crimes, of domestic abuse. 

What's wrong with you.

Telling people they're not listening to advise and are lost causes, simply because they're asking questions and giving their two cents.

Seriously, grow up and get out of this gang up mentality. 

Yet you admitted domestic violence. , which is a crime. You admitted kicking someone out without going through the proper channels. Which is a crime. What have I done wrong? 

 

Literally everyone is telling you the same thing- you are a little upset because I figured out that you are the same person on the last post. 
 

I’m not on your case, I’m replying to a thread on a forum which I have the right to. Meanwhile you are calling names. 
 

I came on VJ back in 2008 for advice and guides to petition for my first husband. Guess what- he came, it didn’t work out and he was horrible to me. I moved on. Karma got him bad.

 

you can’t start a thread and be upset at some of the responses. I never called you a name, I answered your questions and also addressed the pieces of information you chose to disclose . That means I have a gang mentality? Please

 

Word of advice on this forum, if you don’t want comments on decisions you have made (such as shoving your wife or kicking her out), don’t post them on the forum. It really is that simple. 

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