About K1 visa

[Ramesha 0]

Hello,

 

We have applied for the K1 visa in 2019 and we got approved in month.I sent my visa approved paper to him and he was happy.but from after day He is silent. Mean no answer call,no repy for mail and atall silent.

 

We are knowing eachother from 2014 and now 7 years for our relationship.I can't understand why he is silent like that and my relatives are laughing to me.In fact this situation giving very pain and sad also too much stress for me.I was waiting for him 7 ywars and it's a big period in my life.

 

If someone can give advice for my situation I'm very glad about it.because this situation very painful and could't paitient my realatives ashamed words.

 

Good Luck for All.

[payxibka 10,044]

What advice do you want.   It appears he didn't take this process seriously.

[Ramesha 0]

1 minute ago, payxibka said:

What advice do you want.   It appears he didn't take this process seriously.

Thank you for your kind reply.yes I feel like that now.I could't understand why people are cheat otherone in longperiod.my heart not ready to accept it.He made many problems now for me 🙁

[Crazy Cat 39,343]

"You can lead a horse to water, but you can't make him drink"....... I am sorry he let you down.   It takes 2 willing people to make a productive relationship.  

[Ramesha 0]

35 minutes ago, Lucky Cat said:

"You can lead a horse to water, but you can't make him drink"....... I am sorry he let you down.   It takes 2 willing people to make a productive relationship.  

Thank you for your kind reply 🙁🙁

[Siggy 42]

1 hour ago, Ramesha said:

Hello,

 

We have applied for the K1 visa in 2019 and we got approved in month.I sent my visa approved paper to him and he was happy.but from after day He is silent. Mean no answer call,no repy for mail and atall silent.

 

We are knowing eachother from 2014 and now 7 years for our relationship.I can't understand why he is silent like that and my relatives are laughing to me.In fact this situation giving very pain and sad also too much stress for me.I was waiting for him 7 ywars and it's a big period in my life.

 

If someone can give advice for my situation I'm very glad about it.because this situation very painful and could't paitient my realatives ashamed words.

 

Good Luck for All.

If you know his passport number you can check if he made it  to USA ( i-94) you must be knowing his visa expiry date too( 6 months from the date of approval) try to contact his relatives; must be something wrong with him ( accidents/illness) if he won't come at all only option left for you is move on( part of life- learnt lesson) about your relatives they will be always there to comment wether you do good or bad in your life. so just ignore and move on....there must be lot of things in your life to concentrate and to make it better.Good luck.😀

[Rocio0010 5,569]

7 hours ago, Siggy said:

If you know his passport number you can check if he made it  to USA ( i-94) you must be knowing his visa expiry date too( 6 months from the date of approval) try to contact his relatives; must be something wrong with him ( accidents/illness) if he won't come at all only option left for you is move on( part of life- learnt lesson) about your relatives they will be always there to comment wether you do good or bad in your life. so just ignore and move on....there must be lot of things in your life to concentrate and to make it better.Good luck.😀

I think OP is the beneficiary 

[Lucky2Lucky 2,526]

I'm thinking you are the beneficiary and your "fiance" basically abandoned you? Are you saying you got the visa but never used it because he stopped communicating with you? If so- sorry- but unless he is willing to be in a relationship/marriage with you there isn't anything you can do. I would suggest to move on with your life. 

[Ramesha 0]

31 minutes ago, Luckycuds said:

I'm thinking you are the beneficiary and your "fiance" basically abandoned you? Are you saying you got the visa but never used it because he stopped communicating with you? If so- sorry- but unless he is willing to be in a relationship/marriage with you there isn't anything you can do. I would suggest to move on with your life. 

Yes I'm beneficiary.I told our visa approved.He saw it.after next day he waa silent till now.I can understand although can't believe.but sad and could't make mind easyly as  I was 7 years with him.This is my unluck.Thank you sooo much for your kind reply.

[Ramesha 0]

59 minutes ago, ra0010 said:

I think OP is the beneficiary 

Thank you sooo much for your kind reply.I'm beneficiary.🙁🙁

[Crazy Cat 39,343]

1 minute ago, Ramesha said:

Yes I'm beneficiary.I told our visa approved.He saw it.after next day he waa silent till now.I can understand although can't believe.but sad and could't make mind easyly as  I was 7 years with him.This is my unluck.Thank you sooo much for your kind reply.

What do you mean by "approved"?  Was the visa issued and placed in your passport?

[Ramesha 0]

1 minute ago, Lucky Cat said:

What do you mean by "approved"?  Was the visa issued and placed in your passport?

Yes visa ossued and placed my passport

Just now, Ramesha said:

Yes visa ossued and placed my passport

Now I have visa.but.......

Very unlucky 

[Maki&Kiki 123]

Isn't there some friend/relative of his that you can contact just to make sure he is ok or what's going on, since you said that he was happy the day you got visa? After all you known him for seven years, there must be someone who can explain you what's happening.. 

I am sorry that this happened to you, but if he just left you without even giving you a reason, means he is coward and you deserve much better. I know it's hard, but if this is the case, you have to move on.

Edited March 30, 2021 by Kittinpaw

[JonSeattle 201]

The thought that comes to mind is that your fiance is having second thoughts and doesn't have the strength to speak you. It would be worth contacting your fiance's friends, relatives, or even workplace to find out if something else happened.

 

As sad as this is, it is much better to find out now before you leave to go to another country.

 

 

[SalishSea 16,808]

Sorry to hear that happened to you.  7 years is a long time, but not really when it comes to long distance relationships, if you consider the actual amount of time spent together during the 7 years.

 

For future, I hope you can meet someone locally that you can spend some significant time getting to know slowly, before planning marriage.