i485 denial reasons USC withdraw petition reasons

[melissa.w 12]

My USC husband was upset on me on our interview date and withdrew petition. (It's long story including stopping pregnancy before). And my i485 was denied (of course).  I'm not sure what reason he wrote and sign. I'm thinking he said that it was sham marriage. But if it was so, am I the only one who is guilty? Is he innocent ? I made FOIA request and there I couldn't find reason of withdrawing petition. Do you have any ideas what reason could he wrote there???? because I know he had no any problems after that. what is the next step of immigration? 

[Georgia16 2,858]

9 minutes ago, melissa.w said:

My USC husband was upset on me on our interview date and withdrew petition. (It's long story including stopping pregnancy before). And my i485 was denied (of course).  I'm not sure what reason he wrote and sign. I'm thinking he said that it was sham marriage. But if it was so, am I the only one who is guilty? Is he innocent ? I made FOIA request and there I couldn't find reason of withdrawing petition. Do you have any ideas what reason could he wrote there???? because I know he had no any problems after that. what is the next step of immigration? 

What do you mean who is guilty and who is not? That's not up to us to judge we have no idea!

 

And what he wrote? Again we can guess a hundred things but we don't know he could have simple written that he wanted to withdraw his I-485.

 

Next step? Well are you still together? I'm guessing not since you ask those questions here and not him. So if he is not on board then your immigration path that way is dead.

[Boiler 45,658]

Where are you now, have you gone home?

[Transborderwife 4,666]

What happened to your VAWA case?

[Boiler 45,658]

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hi. I started WAVA process in January. I just send i 360. Immigration situation is very hard today, so I don't know if I'm allowed to have any hope to win this case. I just want to know if anybody goes this process now, and if anybody have any updates. and if anybody had lately VAWA process, how long did it take? thanks.

Slightly relevant to the question at hand?

[Hypnos 6,576]

38 minutes ago, Georgia16 said:

he could have simple written that he wanted to withdraw his I-485.

The I-485 isn't his application so he couldn't have withdrawn that. 

 

He could have pulled his I-864, and, if filed, an I-130, which would have had the effect of making the I-485 unapprovable.

[melissa.w 12]

36 minutes ago, Georgia16 said:

What do you mean who is guilty and who is not? That's not up to us to judge we have no idea!

 

And what he wrote? Again we can guess a hundred things but we don't know he could have simple written that he wanted to withdraw his I-485.

 

Next step? Well are you still together? I'm guessing not since you ask those questions here and not him. So if he is not on board then your immigration path that way is dead.

"That's not up to us to judge we have no idea!" I never asked you to judge. I bolded questions which people may know here.  thanks anyway for your quick response. 

[Georgia16 2,858]

1 minute ago, Hypnos said:

The I-485 isn't his application so he couldn't have withdrawn that. 

 

He could have pulled his I-864, and, if filed, an I-130, which would have had the effect of making the I-485 unapprovable.

Yeah I meant the I-864.

[melissa.w 12]

7 minutes ago, Transborderwife said:

What happened to your VAWA case?

I am not stupid so I knew that there are no chances to prove that I was right. I am not citizen and I know nobody will listen to me. that's what happened on my interview. Nobody listened to me they were just forcing me to tell them if i paid to my husband which I didn't. after years when I asked him just divorce he  hit me in front of the court house and some kind people took me, bleeding to the hospital. I didn't wanted to report him, because he had past problems with police. so I came at home and that day I decided to file VAWA maybe someone will listen and read my ruined life story  in spite of I am not citizen. I still understand my chances are very low.. I just wanted to know why? without any proof someone (USC) who was high on our interview, tells stupid stories and they listen only to him. It hurts. That's why I filled vawa in January 2017. But I dont expect any miracles anymore. 

[Transborderwife 4,666]

1 minute ago, melissa.w said:

I am not stupid so I knew that there are no chances to prove that I was right. I am not citizen and I know nobody will listen to me. that's what happened on my interview. Nobody listened to me they were just forcing me to tell them if i paid to my husband which I didn't. after years when I asked him just divorce he  hit me in front of the court house and some kind people took me, bleeding to the hospital. I didn't wanted to report him, because he had past problems with police. so I came at home and that day I decided to file VAWA maybe someone will listen and read my ruined life story  in spite of I am not citizen. I still understand my chances are very low.. I just wanted to know why? without any proof someone (USC) who was high on our interview, tells stupid stories and they listen only to him. It hurts. That's why I filled vawa in January 2017. But I dont expect any miracles anymore. 

You're all over the place here.  If you had problems physically with abuse your best recourse is to seek out counseling for your VAWA case to solidify claims that you neglected to report.

[Sol1427 23]

OMG, I am very sorry about what's going on.  I think you should talk with a lawyer, maybe there's a way that you can stay here while you get your status fixed.  Do you have family here in the US?

[melissa.w 12]

1 minute ago, Sol1427 said:

OMG, I am very sorry about what's going on.  I think you should talk with a lawyer, maybe there's a way that you can stay here while you get your status fixed.  Do you have family here in the US?

Please don't be sorry. I already used to it   that there is no justice for me. Lawyers didn't recommend to do anything at all. Thay said if immigration thinks it's sham, there is no other way. and i think they are right . So I did it myself without any help. I just filled that maybe anyone will at least read my story. And I did it for myself, I have no proof, I have no right to say any word, because it's nothing against my USC husband. Even here, After years I wrote one word and some people got angry  :)) it hurts. I don't have family. I'm alone. 

[neilsqueen 433]

56 minutes ago, melissa.w said:

I am not stupid so I knew that there are no chances to prove that I was right. I am not citizen and I know nobody will listen to me. that's what happened on my interview. Nobody listened to me they were just forcing me to tell them if i paid to my husband which I didn't. after years when I asked him just divorce he  hit me in front of the court house and some kind people took me, bleeding to the hospital. I didn't wanted to report him, because he had past problems with police. so I came at home and that day I decided to file VAWA maybe someone will listen and read my ruined life story  in spite of I am not citizen. I still understand my chances are very low.. I just wanted to know why? without any proof someone (USC) who was high on our interview, tells stupid stories and they listen only to him. It hurts. That's why I filled vawa in January 2017. But I dont expect any miracles anymore. 

Do you have the hospital records of the abuse?  You may be able to use that as some proof.

[Ontarkie 14,275]

~~Moved to Effects of Major Life Changes, from US Citizenship General Discussion~~

[Hypnos 6,576]

USCIS do not simply take someone's word about marriage fraud and sham marriages. They act upon receiving clear indicative proof--and even then it needs to be really good, because "my husband/wife only married me for a green card" is a story they hear day in, day out.

Edited April 1, 2017 by Hypnos