Visa Denied

[ADT 17]

I did told her, her case lack of evidence there must be some weakness in case

I not mean that way, but there something she kept said why they denied FB...We all read her posting and understand most likely

[Beth & Achraf 328]

It has nothing to do with the visit at all. It was all because she couldn't see anything on my page. He told her names and she said no because she couldn't see them. But it never dawned on her that my page was locked from outsiders?

Again I repeat we didn't get denied for lack of evidence or face time she didn't like that she couldn't find who our mutual friends were that's here in Nevada.

IF USCIS wants, they can get into any Facebook account.

[Eric-Pris 1,602]

Facebook doesn't determine a damn relationship! So please stop with the bs

Exactly. So there were other reason(s) why you were denied. It wasn't due to not having enough FB friends. That's ridiculous.

Stop with the bad attitude towards people who ARE trying to help you. People are trying to tell you that you need more trips and time with him in order to make it look legit.

[ADT 17]

Posted Today, 02:47 PM

JC&BB, on 08 Nov 2016 - 12:24 PM, said:

It has nothing to do with the visit at all. It was all because she couldn't see anything on my page. He told her names and she said no because she couldn't see them. But it never dawned on her that my page was locked from outsiders?

Again I repeat we didn't get denied for lack of evidence or face time she didn't like that she couldn't find who our mutual friends were that's here in Nevada.

IF USCIS wants, they can get into any Facebook account.

That is true..

She lack of evidence

People tried to help and you act rude.........

[JC&BB 33]

Exactly. So there were other reason(s) why you were denied. It wasn't due to not having enough FB friends. That's ridiculous.

Stop with the bad attitude towards people who ARE trying to help you. People are trying to tell you that you need more trips and time with him in order to make it look legit.

I don't have an attitude but when someone says something that I know isn't true I can speak my mind just ask they are. There wasn't an issue until she started questioning him about Facebook and ended it by saying I was just looking for a man!

[ADT 17]

well, how and why you know you don't have weakness in your case?

No one joy when you denied...Because you kept said not you not you...CO fault and rude... That is there jobs!!!!!!!!

[JC&BB 33]

Thank you all. I don't need any other comments. Enjoy your Election Day. ?

[Ezy_and_Oghene 10]

It's a frustrating time, I understand and nothing anyone says here will be logical to you. Please get some rest and cool off from this. It's heartbreaking when visa is denied and you are not even allowed to explain your side of the story. This is Visa Journey and we've all been in some funny scenerio with NVC, Embassy, USCIS and so on.

When you cool off, read the denial letter and see what you can do going forward.

Edited November 8, 2016 by Ezy_and_Oghene

[ADT 17]

Good luck

Calm down,

[LionessDeon 2,060]

I don't have an attitude but when someone says something that I know isn't true I can speak my mind just ask they are. There wasn't an issue until she started questioning him about Facebook and ended it by saying I was just looking for a man!

You don't know that or not. Just because she only mentioned the FB does not mean there weren't other issues.

[Eric-Pris 1,602]

I don't even know why I said anything on here. People at times are rude for no reason. They assume things without reading what's being said. I said many time my page is locked. If we aren't friends you can't see anything there's nothing wrong in that.

One visit isn't enough? Again there's no rule as to how many visits or days you stay. We met, and talk as much as we can considering they have issues with the internet and Facebook there.

First, the CO was "rude", now VJ'ers are being "rude". Do you see a pattern?

Same old stuff in every forum on earth... OP asks a question --> OP gets answers --> OP doesn't like answers --> OP gets angry at forum and blames everybody but himself.

There are several red flags:

-met on FB through xxx, but now xxx no longer exists (on FB that is)---so that can't be verified

-short relationship (just over a year)

-only 1 trip and only 7 days spent together

-older woman, younger man (although very small gap, culturally unusual)

[Eric-Pris 1,602]

IF USCIS wants, they can get into any Facebook account.

Nonsense. Maybe with a subpoena, but otherwise USCIS has no right to see the contents of anybody's FB account.

[Maria1989 403]

Some of the comments are insensitive and a little rude, but some are just giving tips and suggestions to build a better case for the CO. Most of us can understand how difficult it can be travel back and forth to other Countries especially when you have children here in the States. Lioness put to well, you've got more stuff to do! I can imagine you day is going very very badly, and no one can tell you about your relationship and how you feel, take the tips, ponder the constructive criticism and totally ignore ADT as it is advice, surrounded by insults and sarcastic remarks, which is totally uncalled for. But I know for sure I'm checking my Facebook settings for sure !!!

[tomatoboy 33]

Well who would of known the co would actually check the Facebook to me that seems odd.

FYI when I had my Facebook it was completely private I know a lot of people that do the same.

Too many phychos on fb in my opinion

I'm somewhat surprised as well, for two reasons... First, it seems like an unusual level of effort (which would suggest some other red flag might be present). Second, Facebook is usually blocked on US government computers.

Regardless, my wife and I both set ours to be private and unsearchable for reasons of personal security, due to work. Pretty much every professional I know does the same thing. However, the way OP could have solved this issue proactively would have been to provide printouts from Facebook showing how they met, etc... Much as one would do for a dating website like eHarmony or OKCupid. You establish the foundation of the relationship that way. Hindsight is 20/20, which is why OP could have used an attorney.

[gregcrs2 1,777]

Please explain how you're being "supportive"? There wasn't any issues. But once again your opinion is just that. None of you were there so to keep saying oh the issue was on us you're wrong. But it's fine! You clearly find joy in being an ####### about things.

And you were not there either. I will leave it at that. If you want to lock this thread, click report and ask it to be locked.