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Good Morning Everyone... After 5 years of a " stable " relationship, long 7 months with nights without sleep and thousands of dollars spend in lawyer, USCIS fees and trips there, unfortunally I have noticed after my fiancee got his visa things has changed and two months after he got it he is not doing the effort to be here with me, instead he only respond he has six months to enter USA, and his atitude towards me and the relationship has changed, I have been aware by his sister of infidelity while me suffering here for him. At this point I do not want to marry him anymore and I would like to do a visa withdrawal. Does anybody knows what should i say and where should I send it ? I am devastated I never thought I will be going through this situation !!! Thanks


04/29/06 - Meet in Dom. Rep.

05/01/06 - Our first date

10/30/06 - Living together

08/03/07 - Back to USA

12/01/07 - Back to DR (one Week)

02/01/08 - Back DR ( one week )

04/29/09 - Back to DR ( 3 days )

02/27/10 - Back to DR ( 16 days )

07/15/10 - 129F sent to USCIS

07/23/10 - NOA1

10/06/10 - Touched

01/13/11 - Service Request Form

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First of all I'm really sad to be reading your post, its just awful and I'm really sorry!!

Second, DO NOT MARRY HIM!!!! I don't know you but you deserve SO much better!!!! and there is SO much better out there!!!!

Let me get this right he has the visa in his passport and yet he's still in D.R.??? IS HE FOR REAL?? I'll be over the second I have that visa in my hand and the next second I'll be in my fiance's arms!!! Call the USCIS and get them to void his visa or whatever they can do so that when he tries to enter the US he can't.

Does he understand the conditions of the K1 visa?? or does he think that he has a proper immigration visa??

If he can't put the effort in now after going through the whole process then he won't put any effort into your marriage!!!

Please don't get upset by this, but could he possibly be using you?? What is his life like in D.R.??

I hope you have the strengh to do the right thing but yourself, not by him x!!!!!!

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Since your visa is already approved and issued you need to do more than contact just USCIS. It is not so simple as withdrawing the visa application now. You need to contact every agency, USCIS, NVC and the consulate to let them know you will not marry the beneficiary and the visa should be cancelled. This needs to be done in writing and you should get a confirmation back. Call the USCIS also to let them know. Do this ASAP as the visa is valid until it is cancelled by the government. Your fiance could use this to enter the country and then dissapear into the woodwork so to speak.

Sounds like this is the right decision. If your "fiance" has already been unfaithful and has this attitude now, it will only get worse once he has arrived.


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Consulate : Guangzhou, China
Marriage (if applicable): 2010-04-26
I-130 Sent : 2010-06-01
I-130 NOA1 : 2010-06-08
I-130 RFE : 2010-11-05
I-130 RFE Sent : 2010-11-06
I-130 Approved : 2010-11-10
NVC Received CaseFile: 2010-11-16
NVC Casefile Number Issued: 2010-11-22
Received DS-3032 / I-864 Bill : 2010-11-23
OPTIN EMAIL SENT TO NVC: 2010-11-23
OPTIN ACCEPTED by NVC: 2010-12-14
Pay I-864 Bill 2010-11-23
Receive I-864 Package : 2010-11-23
Return Completed I-864 : 2011-03-30
Return Completed DS-3032 : 2010-11-23
Receive IV Bill : 2010-12-17
Pay IV Bill : 2011-03-16
AOS CoverSheets Generated: 2010-11-27
IV Fee Bill marked as PAID: 2011-03-18
IV CoverSheets Generated: 2011-03-18
IV email packet sent: 2011-04-4
NVC reports 'Case Completed': 2011-5-2
'Sign in Fail' at the Online Payment Portal: 2011-5-2
Final Review Started at NVC: 2011-5-2
Final Review Completed at NVC: ????
Interview Date Set: 2011-5-5
Appointment Letter Received via Email: 2011-5-6
Interview Date: 2011-6-1
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I'm so sorry to hear this. If your decision is to cancel the visa the best thing to do is to communicate this with all 3 agencies: USCIS, NVC, and US embassy over there. I'm so sorry things didnt work out but if you look on the bright side better now then later.... :(


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Sorry

JMO as a newbie here but would contacting the POE help and tell them your pulling out ofvisa they don't have to let him in ?? And after hearing what he's done I would not want him here


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The visa has been issued and can only be canceled by the US Consulate, there's nothing USCIS can do, they don't issue visa. And since the petitioner will not marry the beneficiary the visa become useless because the sole purpose is to enter to marry the petitioner or stay home. The beneficiary can only use it to enter and live here illegally after 90 days is due. :wacko:

I think the POE Officer may cancel the visa as well.

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AOS TIMELINE

AOS package mailed on 12/16/08

AOS package delivered on 12/19/08

Check cashed on 12/26/08

NOA1 received on 12/30/08

Biometrics on 01/20/09

AOS interview on 04/30/09

EAD Card production ordered on 03/17/09

EAD Card received on 03/21/09

AOS interview APPROVED on 04/30/09

Card production ordered on 05/27/09

Welcome letter received on 06/05/09

Card production ordered again on 06/15/09

Permanent Resident Card received on 07/09/09

I-751 ROC TIMELINE

I-751 package mailed on 02/28/2011

I-751 package delivered on 03/02/2011

Check payment cashed on 03/04/2011

NOA1 received on 03/08/2011

Biometrics appointment on 04/05/2011

Card production ordered on 05/06/2011

I-751 Petition Approved on 05/06/2011

Approval letter received on 05/12/2011

Green Card finally received on 07/29/2011

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No, a POE officer can only deny entry.

They can void the visa with their sharpie if you've lied about your intention and will sent back home with a ban for life.

Edited by katiemanny

AOS TIMELINE

AOS package mailed on 12/16/08

AOS package delivered on 12/19/08

Check cashed on 12/26/08

NOA1 received on 12/30/08

Biometrics on 01/20/09

AOS interview on 04/30/09

EAD Card production ordered on 03/17/09

EAD Card received on 03/21/09

AOS interview APPROVED on 04/30/09

Card production ordered on 05/27/09

Welcome letter received on 06/05/09

Card production ordered again on 06/15/09

Permanent Resident Card received on 07/09/09

I-751 ROC TIMELINE

I-751 package mailed on 02/28/2011

I-751 package delivered on 03/02/2011

Check payment cashed on 03/04/2011

NOA1 received on 03/08/2011

Biometrics appointment on 04/05/2011

Card production ordered on 05/06/2011

I-751 Petition Approved on 05/06/2011

Approval letter received on 05/12/2011

Green Card finally received on 07/29/2011

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I see what you mean. I think we were just at cross purposes on the term 'cancel'. CBP can void - yes. Cancel in advance (which was what i thought you meant) - no.

Hopefully in the case of the OP's husband, the CBP officers will smell a rat and send him back if he tries to enter. If not, he will still have the problem of adjusting status without her help.


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So sorry to hear this. Just be glad he did you the favor before he came here. Try to look at it as a learning experience and move on. You deserve nothing less than the best!!


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OP: In addition to calling the Embassy in Santo Domingo to see if the visa can be canceled, try contacting CBP. CBP can deny him entry.

Sorry to hear of your situation.


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September 2007: Met online via social networking site (MySpace); began exchanging messages.
March 26, 2009: We become a couple!
September 10, 2009: Arrived for first meeting in-person!
June 17, 2010: Arrived for second in-person meeting and start of travel together to other areas of China!
June 21, 2010: Engaged!!!
September 1, 2010: Switched course from K1 to CR-1
December 8, 2010: Wedding date set; it will be on February 18, 2011!
February 9, 2011: Depart for China
February 11, 2011: Registered for marriage in Wuhan, officially married!!!
February 18, 2011: Wedding ceremony in Shiyan!!!
April 22, 2011: Mailed I-130 to Chicago
April 28, 2011: Received NOA1 via text/email, file routed to CSC (priority date April 25th)
April 29, 2011: Updated
May 3, 2011: Received NOA1 hardcopy in mail
July 26, 2011: Received NOA2 via text/email!!!
July 30, 2011: Received NOA2 hardcopy in mail
August 8, 2011: NVC received file
September 1, 2011: NVC case number assigned
September 2, 2011: AOS invoice received, OPTIN email for EP sent
September 7, 2011: Paid AOS bill (payment portal showed PAID on September 9, 2011)
September 8, 2011: OPTIN email accepted, GZO number assigned
September 10, 2011: Emailed AOS package
September 12, 2011: IV bill invoiced
September 13, 2011: Paid IV bill (payment portal showed PAID on September 14, 2011)
September 14, 2011: Emailed IV package
October 3, 2011: Emailed checklist response (checklist generated due to typo on Form DS-230)
October 6, 2011: Case complete at NVC
November 10, 2011: Interview - APPROVED!!!
December 7, 2011: POE - Sea-Tac Airport

September 17, 2013: Mailed I-751 to CSC

September 23, 2013: Received NOA1 in mail (receipt date September 19th)

October 16, 2013: Biometrics Appointment

January 28, 2014: Production of new Green Card ordered

February 3, 2014: New Green Card received; done with USCIS until fall of 2023*

 

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sooo sorry you have to go through all this. I'm thinking that if he does enter the US, you may be able to contact ICE at some point? Be strong and don't marry him, no matter how heartbreaking this is...


Our Love Story's 1st page: June 15, 2008

K 1: 98 days!
May 11 - August 17, 2010 APPROVED!!!
POE: September 14, 2010 Chicago, IL
Wedding Day: September 22, 2010

AOS from K1: 96 days!
November 19, 2010 - February 24, 2011 APPROVED!!!
November 19, 2010: AOS, EAD & AP applications mailed
December 20, 2010: Biometrics (day 31)
January 18, 2011: case transfered to CSC (day 60)
February 10, 2011: EAD & AP approved! (day 83)
February 24, 2011: GC production ordered! (day 96)

Removing conditions: 5 months and 30 days!
December 6, 2012: package mailed
December 10, 2012: NOA 1 (day 4)

June, 5, 2013: APPROVED!!!

June, 10 2013: 10 yr GC received


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