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sam singh Apprentice

sam singh   0

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Filed: K-1 Visa Country: India
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hi, everyone my fiancee was approved and came over, in june 2010 , we have an interview at in about 10 days for the aos

she left numerous times. but i think this time she left me for good. she just wanted to come over here. What can i do to stop her from getting a green card since she just used me. Also I know it sounds stupid , but i am inlove with her with all my heart and deep down in my heart I want to maybe give her another chance is there anyway i can postphone the interview process.

I appreciate your help

ateneaalexander Collaborator

ateneaalexander   10

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Filed: K-1 Visa Country: Mexico
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how can you still love someone that only used you? That proves she doesnt loves you and dont deserve a second chance!.

[*]june2009: met online

[*]july 28 2009: start dating

[*]october 09 2009: met in person

[*]oct 11 2009:he proposed :D i know crazy lol

[*]october 28 2009: deployment to iraq :(

[*]november 05 2010: visit to mexico for 20 days :D

[*]november 25 2010: last time i hold him :(

[*]january 18 2011: k-1 sent

[*]feb 09 2011:NOA1

[*]june 03 2011: NOA2 :D

[*]july 1st 2011: packet 3 yayy

[*]august 18 2011: interview! hoping for the best

[*]august 18 2011: APROVED :D

[*]sepyember 3 2011: POE

[*]september 6 2011: marriage yayy

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sciencenerd Enthusiast

sciencenerd   56

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My understanding is that you can either withdraw the application or even just not show up at the interview. You can't lie at the interview and it sounds like you aren't living as a married couple, so seems likely she'd be denied anyways. As far as the personal question, I'd say to just think with your mind and not your heart in this situation - think of how it looks to an outsider after only 6 months together here. There's no real way to delay the interview, especially due to needing more time to see if marital problems can be resolved. Sorry you're dealing with what must be a heartbreaking situation. Good luck.

AOS (from tourist w/overstay)

1/26/10 - NOA

5/04/10 - interview appt - approved

ROC

2/06/12 - NOA date

7/31/12 - card production ordered

N-400

2/08/13 - NOA date

3/05/13 - biometrics appt

6/18/13 - interview - passed!

7/18/13 - oath ceremony

VanessaTony Grand Master

VanessaTony   3,567

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Filed: Citizen (apr) Country: Australia
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There is a way to delay it but it doesn't always work so will probably be denied anyway.

While I understand you might love her, it's obvious she doesn't love you and no-one like that is worth your time.

** moved from "K1 Process & Procedures" to "AOS (Family)" as this is about the AOS process **

Aussie K1 process - http://www.visajourney.com/forums/topic/206016-australian-beneficiaries-packet-3-to-interview-date/
AOS, EAD & AP - the Aussie Way (including document list) - http://www.visajourney.com/forums/topic/235331-aos-ead-ap-from-k1-the-aussie-way-doc-list-included/
ROC April 2012 - http://www.visajourney.com/forums/topic/358760-i-751-april-2012-filers/ (includes document list)
N-400 April 2013 - http://www.visajourney.com/forums/topic/412738-n-400-april-2013-filers/ (includes document list)

N-400 Interview review - http://www.visajourney.com/forums/topic/412738-n-400-april-2013-filers/?p=6381814

N-400 Oath Ceremony review - http://www.visajourney.com/forums/topic/412738-n-400-april-2013-filers/?p=6537699
Aussie Chat page continued - http://www.visajourney.com/forums/topic/331922-new-2011-land-downunder-aussie-aussie-aussie-oi-oi-oi/
Aussie Name Change on Passport Process - http://www.visajourney.com/forums/topic/248400-australian-passport-name-change-process/
Travel on maiden name passport with married name GC, tickets in married name - http://www.visajourney.com/forums/topic/183541-land-downunder-aussie-aussie-aussie-oi-oi-oi/page__view__findpost__p__4135806
Shipping Costs from Aus to US - http://www.visajourney.com/forums/topic/293179-shipping-costs-aus-to-usa/

Notes:
- For my "standard" timeline please see timeline to the left
- For timeline with Aussie specifics & more detailed info, please see the "About Me" section of my profile

Brother Hesekiel Mentor

Brother Hesekiel   2,236

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If you are truly convinced that you have been used for immigration purposes, just DO NOT go to the AOS interview.

There is no room in this country for hyphenated Americanism. When I refer to hyphenated Americans, I do not refer to naturalized Americans. Some of the very best Americans I have ever known were naturalized Americans, Americans born abroad. But a hyphenated American is not an American at all . . . . The one absolutely certain way of bringing this nation to ruin, of preventing all possibility of its continuing to be a nation at all, would be to permit it to become a tangle of squabbling nationalities, an intricate knot of German-Americans, Irish-Americans, English-Americans, French-Americans, Scandinavian-Americans or Italian-Americans, each preserving its separate nationality, each at heart feeling more sympathy with Europeans of that nationality, than with the other citizens of the American Republic . . . . There is no such thing as a hyphenated American who is a good American. The only man who is a good American is the man who is an American and nothing else.

President Teddy Roosevelt on Columbus Day 1915

SuperDuper! Mentor

SuperDuper!   230

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hi, everyone my fiancee was approved and came over, in june 2010 , we have an interview at in about 10 days for the aos

she left numerous times. but i think this time she left me for good. she just wanted to come over here. What can i do to stop her from getting a green card since she just used me. Also I know it sounds stupid , but i am inlove with her with all my heart and deep down in my heart I want to maybe give her another chance is there anyway i can postphone the interview process.

I appreciate your help

As the song says, "A love affair by one can NEVER be." Act accordingly, and good luck! :star:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=y0qeTnigoOI

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raffy Explorer

raffy   7

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Filed: AOS (pnd) Country: Uruguay
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You sound like an easy puppy to manipulate... Read your own post a few times and think about it. No person on a decent state of mind will say what you are saying so, take care of you first.

I do believe all she needs to get approved its to ask you to go to the interview since she probably got what she wanted as far as "proof".... And it will probably be an easy thing for her to convince you to go cause she knows what we all know by now: she has you on the palm of her hand...

Call Usicis, inform them of the situation, withdraw the petition and take care of yourself. Watch out for vawa though...

Mochamich Collaborator

Mochamich   7

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Filed: AOS (pnd) Country: Haiti
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I agree you do not deserve to be treated this way. It seems like the moment you withdraw from the process she will have already made a plan to stay in the US another way. Move on take care of yourself and let her deal with the consequences of being sent back. There are plenty of people out there.

K-1 Journey

11/27/2010-SENT

12/11/2010 NOA1

04/20/2011 NOA2

04/28/2011 Received by NVC!!

4/29/2011 Sent to Haitian Embassy

6/24/2011 Medical completed

6/30/2011 Medical results picked up approved

7/1/2011 Documents sent to Haiti messenger

7/19/2011 Interview date to be announced

7/19/2011 Assigned interview date

9/2/2011 Interview date (NO RFE :)

9/2/2011 Visa APPROVED!!

9/7/2011 Visa in Hand in Haiti

9/16/2011 Passport in hand in Haiti

10/1/2011 POE EWR airport

11/8/2011 ***Married*** :)

11/17/2011 Applied Social Security #

11/21/2011 SS# Recieved

AOS Journey

12/30/2011 AOS Package Mailed

1/03/2012 Notice of Action

1/06/2012 Check cashed

1/25/2012 Biometrics Appointment..completed..

2/11/2012 RFE

3/7/2012 RFE response mailed

3/16/2012 EAD Card in production!!!!

10/09/2012 Green Card production ordered : } no interview

Sebas&Lily Enthusiast

Sebas&Lily   3

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Filed: Citizen (apr) Country: Romania
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I wonder if the OP posted on here right after they had an argument. Why did she leave you? If you guys were a real couple, then this is probably an argument you are having and you are probably mad because she left and feel like you want to do something to get back at her, in this case being getting her deported. If you guys were truly a couple just work things out. If it doesn't work out then just let it be, no reason to deport someone if the romance didn't work. If she is indeed taking advantage of you, then take appropriate action.

Edited by Sebas&Lily

N-400:

02/21/2015: N-400 sent via USPS Priority Mail to Phoenix, AZ Lockbox

02/23/2015: N-400 received by USCIS

02/27/2015: Check cashed

03/03/2015: I-797C, Notice of Action received

03/26/2015: Fingerprints done!

08/24/2015: Notice of Action received, Interview letter!

09/28/2015: Interview day, PASSED! Oath Ceremony same day :)

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amykathleen2005 Proficient

amykathleen2005   441

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Filed: Lift. Cond. (apr) Country: England
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You could just go to the interview and admit then that you think she used you.

England.gif England!

And in this crazy life, and through these crazy times

It's you, it's you, You make me sing.

You're every line, you're every word, you're everything.

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ROC Timeline

Sent: 7/21/12

NOA1: 7/23/12

Touch: 7/24/2012

Biometrics: 8/24/2012

Card Production Ordered: 3/6/2013

*Eligible for Naturalization: October 13, 2013*

jrmejia Proficient

jrmejia   31

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Filed: K-1 Visa Country: Philippines
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Very sad story. A second change? are you asking for advice or that is something you want to do? If that is something you want to do make sure you two guys go to some kind of marriage counselor? maybe he/she can help you guys.

best of luck. :thumbs:

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"The perfection/respect/credibility of a man decreases by the number of marriages he has had and by the number of kids he has outside his current marriage. ", Quote by Bite YourDust
  • Met on yahoo chat through a friend.
  • April 2010 - Decided to meet in person
  • 06.01.2010 - She flew from Dubai to Philippines for vacationing
  • 06.21.2010 - We met in Philippines
  • 06.24.2010 - Engaged
  • 06.28.2010 - Came back to USA
  • 07.05.2010 - She flew back to Dubai (work)
  • 08.02.2010 - Mailed I129F to VSC
  • 08.03.2010 - Delivered to VSC. Signed by D RENAUD.
  • 08.09.2010 - Check cashed
  • 08.14.2010 - NOA1 (Dated 08/06/2010)!!!!!!!!
  • 08.19.2010 - Touched!
  • 08.27.2010 - Received snail mail that typographical error was fixed.
  • 10.03.2010 - Touched!
  • 11.21.2010 - Visited her for a week in Dubai!
  • 02.14.2011 - NOA2 Approved on St. Valentine day!!!!!!!
  • 02.17.2011 - Packet left from NVC to ABU DHABI (Dubai)
  • 02.19.2011 - NOA2 hard copy received
  • 02.22.2011 - Packet reached ABU DHABI's consulate
  • 03.02.2011 - packet 3 & 4 received by email
  • 03.02.2011 - Confirmation of Interview on 04.14.2011 -
  • 03.07.2011 - Fiancee passed medical exam.
  • 04.14.2011 - K1-Visa Approved!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
  • 04.21.2011 - Picked up Visa !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
sachinky Mentor

sachinky   465

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Filed: Lift. Cond. (apr) Country: India
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Do NOT attend the interview.

Or better yet, attend it and then let the IO know that you are pulling your I-864 since you're convinced that this woman married you solely for immigrating to the US.

That'd be priceless.

03/27/2009: Engaged in Ithaca, New York.
08/17/2009: Wedding in Calcutta, India.
09/29/2009: I-130 NOA1
01/25/2010: I-130 NOA2
03/23/2010: Case completed.
05/12/2010: CR-1 interview at Mumbai, India.
05/20/2010: US Entry, Chicago.
03/01/2012: ROC NOA1.
03/26/2012: Biometrics completed.
12/07/2012: 10 year card production ordered.

09/25/2013: N-400 NOA1

10/16/2013: Biometrics completed

12/03/2013: Interview

12/20/2013: Oath ceremony

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TBoneTX Grand Master

TBoneTX   47,050

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Filed: Citizen (apr) Country: Ecuador
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attend it and then let the IO know that you are pulling your I-864 since you're convinced that this woman married you solely for immigrating to the US.
Si, man.

06-04-2007 = TSC stamps postal return-receipt for I-129f.

06-11-2007 = NOA1 date (unknown to me).

07-20-2007 = Phoned Immigration Officer; got WAC#; where's NOA1?

09-25-2007 = Touch (first-ever).

09-28-2007 = NOA1, 23 days after their 45-day promise to send it (grrrr).

10-20 & 11-14-2007 = Phoned ImmOffs; "still pending."

12-11-2007 = 180 days; file is "between workstations, may be early Jan."; touches 12/11 & 12/12.

12-18-2007 = Call; file is with Division 9 ofcr. (bckgrnd check); e-prompt to shake it; touch.

12-19-2007 = NOA2 by e-mail & web, dated 12-18-07 (187 days; 201 per VJ); in mail 12/24/07.

01-09-2008 = File from USCIS to NVC, 1-4-08; NVC creates file, 1/15/08; to consulate 1/16/08.

01-23-2008 = Consulate gets file; outdated Packet 4 mailed to fiancee 1/27/08; rec'd 3/3/08.

04-29-2008 = Fiancee's 4-min. consular interview, 8:30 a.m.; much evidence brought but not allowed to be presented (consul: "More proof! Second interview! Bring your fiance!").

05-05-2008 = Infuriating $12 call to non-English-speaking consulate appointment-setter.

05-06-2008 = Better $12 call to English-speaker; "joint" interview date 6/30/08 (my selection).

06-30-2008 = Stokes Interrogations w/Ecuadorian (not USC); "wait 2 weeks; we'll mail her."

07-2008 = Daily calls to DOS: "currently processing"; 8/05 = Phoned consulate, got Section Chief; wrote him.

08-07-08 = E-mail from consulate, promising to issue visa "as soon as we get her passport" (on 8/12, per DHL).

08-27-08 = Phoned consulate (they "couldn't find" our file); visa DHL'd 8/28; in hand 9/1; through POE on 10/9 with NO hassles(!).

Deep2009 Proficient

Deep2009   18

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Filed: Other Country: India
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Do NOT attend the interview.

Or better yet, attend it and then let the IO know that you are pulling your I-864 since you're convinced that this woman married you solely for immigrating to the US.

That'd be priceless.

100% in agreement with the comments...

...Don't let anyone use for any purpose.

 
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