want to send her home while i can

[map1map 3]

wont she need money for the fee's,??,i control the money..at this point the only money she will get is enough for one way plane tickets and monthy payment for the kids

A 2 way ticket is cheaper

[Gary and Alla 3,694]

wont she need money for the fee's,??,i control the money..at this point the only money she will get is enough for one way plane tickets and monthy payment for the kids

I think maybe her boyfriend would give her some money. Then what?

Why do I doubt the US citizen kids you would gladly let her take back to PI would get an money? What a guy.

[Ana Paula 2]

I think you wrote it wrong....

I think you meant she has a demon living WITH her...

in short want to send the crazy,immature,selfcentered woman home before she betrays me,her 2 year green card is going to expire and i and going to let it...i have tryed everything marrage counceling,having family members talk to her but she continues to have these crazy mood swings,honestly i think she has a demon living in her..

now here is the thing we have 1 year old twins and i would freely let them go with her to the phillippines,,,now what can she do if her green card expires and i refuse to go any farther with the visa process???

[Elham 1]

Poor her... how could she tolerate you?

[chizkeyk 0]

wont she need money for the fee's,??,i control the money..at this point the only money she will get is enough for one way plane tickets and monthy payment for the kids

What kind of father are you? Seem like you just wanna get rid of your wife and don't ever bother of what will going to happen to your twins...

Goodness!!!

[L179 1]

I understand you don't want to have anything to do with your wife, however why would someone let their own children go so 'easily'. sounds like you have a life you want to move on with and wana to get the burden off your shoulders.

betrayal?

You could have said one twin can go with her and one with me, although seperating twins is not a wise idea, however how simple you just want everything gone and you be a bachelor again. Sad that God blessed you with twins.

If you just want them out of your life, then file for a divorce, and let them be. You are not responsible for them and they are not for you.

you will be a free bird

[sara..... 371]

no matter what u or her thinks children need both parents, divorce does not mean the only thing u have to do is give them money.

if she is sent back to her country with the children ur depriving the children of a mother and a father they need both

just get a divorce pay child support and have ur visitation with ur children.

sara

[L179 1]

True sara,

but i think he does not want to have anything to do with the kids

[luckymom 0]

Wowwww heavy! A demon living in her, someone is right maybe there is a typographical error there "with her" should be. I can't imagine a so-called father can just give away her twins like that? The OP posted such a horrible post, and he didn't even give a bit detailed information. Oh well, I guess this is just another post from a person who hates my fellow filipinas. Let's see if he will post more relationship issues.

[Susita 175]

That's all I have to say about this.

[JeremySusan 0]

OMG, talk about being brutal. it appears you maybe so wrapped up in your problems with your wife that you forget your are a father to 2 children. that should be where your priority lies.

my advice would be to put your energies into being the best father you can be, they will thank you when they are older, sending them back with your "demon" wife will only make them resent you when they are older........you may need them to pick your nursing home

[leapoffaith 0]

wont she need money for the fee's,??,i control the money..at this point the only money she will get is enough for one way plane tickets and monthy payment for the kids

Of course, she would need money and plenty of it - all from you !

Divorcing a mom with two kids ( you said twins, right ) is going to be pretty expensive.

And since she has kids, she can prove she married in good faith and remove conditions on her own.

The most you can do is have a speedy divorce, rest depends upon her.

[halimandserena 0]

wow....whos really the crazy one here?

[Bobby+Umit 161]

The Power of JeeBus compels you!

Smells like a troll post, but waiting since 2006? That is one dedicated troll.

[ScottThuy 140]

Hindenberg,

Go here to start the process ;

http://www.visajourney.com/timeline/intro.php?cfl=

This way the people you are asking questions will have a better picture of the situation.