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    Catia&Sal got a reaction from AKN2 in Big fight, husband crossed a line   
    An advice from an old experienced italian lady: don't leave immediately!
    Leave the "dust" fell down on the floor, and take your time to rethink about the entire situation.
    If you moved here, leaving your Country and went through the (endless) process to obtein the GC, it means something, right? Just now was a fight. It happens sometimes to say things you don't really think only because you are angry. Now I try to see your point: "I'm here alone, nobody from my family, US is a difficult Country for living, maybe some problem with language (as I have!)... and this man I gave everything for, the love of my life, now became my worst enemy!!!"... It is  very human reaction thinking to run away!
    But take a bit for thinking about it , and all the consequences it would bring. It's worth to do it? Are you really sure that coming back to your Country is the solution that would make you happier and safer? If you leave now, probably will be very difficult to step back. Running  and doing things on the spur of the moment never solved a problem. So, unless you are afraid for your security, I would take some time for myself, just to clear my mind.    
    Good luck!
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    Catia&Sal got a reaction from NomadTravels in Big fight, husband crossed a line   
    An advice from an old experienced italian lady: don't leave immediately!
    Leave the "dust" fell down on the floor, and take your time to rethink about the entire situation.
    If you moved here, leaving your Country and went through the (endless) process to obtein the GC, it means something, right? Just now was a fight. It happens sometimes to say things you don't really think only because you are angry. Now I try to see your point: "I'm here alone, nobody from my family, US is a difficult Country for living, maybe some problem with language (as I have!)... and this man I gave everything for, the love of my life, now became my worst enemy!!!"... It is  very human reaction thinking to run away!
    But take a bit for thinking about it , and all the consequences it would bring. It's worth to do it? Are you really sure that coming back to your Country is the solution that would make you happier and safer? If you leave now, probably will be very difficult to step back. Running  and doing things on the spur of the moment never solved a problem. So, unless you are afraid for your security, I would take some time for myself, just to clear my mind.    
    Good luck!
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    Catia&Sal got a reaction from RO_AH in Big fight, husband crossed a line   
    An advice from an old experienced italian lady: don't leave immediately!
    Leave the "dust" fell down on the floor, and take your time to rethink about the entire situation.
    If you moved here, leaving your Country and went through the (endless) process to obtein the GC, it means something, right? Just now was a fight. It happens sometimes to say things you don't really think only because you are angry. Now I try to see your point: "I'm here alone, nobody from my family, US is a difficult Country for living, maybe some problem with language (as I have!)... and this man I gave everything for, the love of my life, now became my worst enemy!!!"... It is  very human reaction thinking to run away!
    But take a bit for thinking about it , and all the consequences it would bring. It's worth to do it? Are you really sure that coming back to your Country is the solution that would make you happier and safer? If you leave now, probably will be very difficult to step back. Running  and doing things on the spur of the moment never solved a problem. So, unless you are afraid for your security, I would take some time for myself, just to clear my mind.    
    Good luck!
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    Catia&Sal got a reaction from Marshae04 in Big fight, husband crossed a line   
    An advice from an old experienced italian lady: don't leave immediately!
    Leave the "dust" fell down on the floor, and take your time to rethink about the entire situation.
    If you moved here, leaving your Country and went through the (endless) process to obtein the GC, it means something, right? Just now was a fight. It happens sometimes to say things you don't really think only because you are angry. Now I try to see your point: "I'm here alone, nobody from my family, US is a difficult Country for living, maybe some problem with language (as I have!)... and this man I gave everything for, the love of my life, now became my worst enemy!!!"... It is  very human reaction thinking to run away!
    But take a bit for thinking about it , and all the consequences it would bring. It's worth to do it? Are you really sure that coming back to your Country is the solution that would make you happier and safer? If you leave now, probably will be very difficult to step back. Running  and doing things on the spur of the moment never solved a problem. So, unless you are afraid for your security, I would take some time for myself, just to clear my mind.    
    Good luck!
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    Catia&Sal got a reaction from Prisonmate in Big fight, husband crossed a line   
    An advice from an old experienced italian lady: don't leave immediately!
    Leave the "dust" fell down on the floor, and take your time to rethink about the entire situation.
    If you moved here, leaving your Country and went through the (endless) process to obtein the GC, it means something, right? Just now was a fight. It happens sometimes to say things you don't really think only because you are angry. Now I try to see your point: "I'm here alone, nobody from my family, US is a difficult Country for living, maybe some problem with language (as I have!)... and this man I gave everything for, the love of my life, now became my worst enemy!!!"... It is  very human reaction thinking to run away!
    But take a bit for thinking about it , and all the consequences it would bring. It's worth to do it? Are you really sure that coming back to your Country is the solution that would make you happier and safer? If you leave now, probably will be very difficult to step back. Running  and doing things on the spur of the moment never solved a problem. So, unless you are afraid for your security, I would take some time for myself, just to clear my mind.    
    Good luck!
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    Catia&Sal got a reaction from bdglen in Big fight, husband crossed a line   
    OP doesn't have a green card, just filed adjustment of status in June 2023.  
    Right, she's in the GC process... But my advice remains the same: when it comes to major decisions that will impact the course of your life permanently, try to be cool and don't rush"  
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    Catia&Sal got a reaction from Thrillhouse in Big fight, husband crossed a line   
    An advice from an old experienced italian lady: don't leave immediately!
    Leave the "dust" fell down on the floor, and take your time to rethink about the entire situation.
    If you moved here, leaving your Country and went through the (endless) process to obtein the GC, it means something, right? Just now was a fight. It happens sometimes to say things you don't really think only because you are angry. Now I try to see your point: "I'm here alone, nobody from my family, US is a difficult Country for living, maybe some problem with language (as I have!)... and this man I gave everything for, the love of my life, now became my worst enemy!!!"... It is  very human reaction thinking to run away!
    But take a bit for thinking about it , and all the consequences it would bring. It's worth to do it? Are you really sure that coming back to your Country is the solution that would make you happier and safer? If you leave now, probably will be very difficult to step back. Running  and doing things on the spur of the moment never solved a problem. So, unless you are afraid for your security, I would take some time for myself, just to clear my mind.    
    Good luck!
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    Catia&Sal got a reaction from SalishSea in Big fight, husband crossed a line   
    An advice from an old experienced italian lady: don't leave immediately!
    Leave the "dust" fell down on the floor, and take your time to rethink about the entire situation.
    If you moved here, leaving your Country and went through the (endless) process to obtein the GC, it means something, right? Just now was a fight. It happens sometimes to say things you don't really think only because you are angry. Now I try to see your point: "I'm here alone, nobody from my family, US is a difficult Country for living, maybe some problem with language (as I have!)... and this man I gave everything for, the love of my life, now became my worst enemy!!!"... It is  very human reaction thinking to run away!
    But take a bit for thinking about it , and all the consequences it would bring. It's worth to do it? Are you really sure that coming back to your Country is the solution that would make you happier and safer? If you leave now, probably will be very difficult to step back. Running  and doing things on the spur of the moment never solved a problem. So, unless you are afraid for your security, I would take some time for myself, just to clear my mind.    
    Good luck!
  9. Confused
    Catia&Sal got a reaction from igoyougoduke in Big fight, husband crossed a line   
    An advice from an old experienced italian lady: don't leave immediately!
    Leave the "dust" fell down on the floor, and take your time to rethink about the entire situation.
    If you moved here, leaving your Country and went through the (endless) process to obtein the GC, it means something, right? Just now was a fight. It happens sometimes to say things you don't really think only because you are angry. Now I try to see your point: "I'm here alone, nobody from my family, US is a difficult Country for living, maybe some problem with language (as I have!)... and this man I gave everything for, the love of my life, now became my worst enemy!!!"... It is  very human reaction thinking to run away!
    But take a bit for thinking about it , and all the consequences it would bring. It's worth to do it? Are you really sure that coming back to your Country is the solution that would make you happier and safer? If you leave now, probably will be very difficult to step back. Running  and doing things on the spur of the moment never solved a problem. So, unless you are afraid for your security, I would take some time for myself, just to clear my mind.    
    Good luck!
  10. Confused
    Catia&Sal got a reaction from Lemonslice in Big fight, husband crossed a line   
    An advice from an old experienced italian lady: don't leave immediately!
    Leave the "dust" fell down on the floor, and take your time to rethink about the entire situation.
    If you moved here, leaving your Country and went through the (endless) process to obtein the GC, it means something, right? Just now was a fight. It happens sometimes to say things you don't really think only because you are angry. Now I try to see your point: "I'm here alone, nobody from my family, US is a difficult Country for living, maybe some problem with language (as I have!)... and this man I gave everything for, the love of my life, now became my worst enemy!!!"... It is  very human reaction thinking to run away!
    But take a bit for thinking about it , and all the consequences it would bring. It's worth to do it? Are you really sure that coming back to your Country is the solution that would make you happier and safer? If you leave now, probably will be very difficult to step back. Running  and doing things on the spur of the moment never solved a problem. So, unless you are afraid for your security, I would take some time for myself, just to clear my mind.    
    Good luck!
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    Catia&Sal got a reaction from Sam Burns in Big fight, husband crossed a line   
    An advice from an old experienced italian lady: don't leave immediately!
    Leave the "dust" fell down on the floor, and take your time to rethink about the entire situation.
    If you moved here, leaving your Country and went through the (endless) process to obtein the GC, it means something, right? Just now was a fight. It happens sometimes to say things you don't really think only because you are angry. Now I try to see your point: "I'm here alone, nobody from my family, US is a difficult Country for living, maybe some problem with language (as I have!)... and this man I gave everything for, the love of my life, now became my worst enemy!!!"... It is  very human reaction thinking to run away!
    But take a bit for thinking about it , and all the consequences it would bring. It's worth to do it? Are you really sure that coming back to your Country is the solution that would make you happier and safer? If you leave now, probably will be very difficult to step back. Running  and doing things on the spur of the moment never solved a problem. So, unless you are afraid for your security, I would take some time for myself, just to clear my mind.    
    Good luck!
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    Catia&Sal got a reaction from AlwaysLearning in Big fight, husband crossed a line   
    OP doesn't have a green card, just filed adjustment of status in June 2023.  
    Right, she's in the GC process... But my advice remains the same: when it comes to major decisions that will impact the course of your life permanently, try to be cool and don't rush"  
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    Catia&Sal got a reaction from AlwaysLearning in Big fight, husband crossed a line   
    An advice from an old experienced italian lady: don't leave immediately!
    Leave the "dust" fell down on the floor, and take your time to rethink about the entire situation.
    If you moved here, leaving your Country and went through the (endless) process to obtein the GC, it means something, right? Just now was a fight. It happens sometimes to say things you don't really think only because you are angry. Now I try to see your point: "I'm here alone, nobody from my family, US is a difficult Country for living, maybe some problem with language (as I have!)... and this man I gave everything for, the love of my life, now became my worst enemy!!!"... It is  very human reaction thinking to run away!
    But take a bit for thinking about it , and all the consequences it would bring. It's worth to do it? Are you really sure that coming back to your Country is the solution that would make you happier and safer? If you leave now, probably will be very difficult to step back. Running  and doing things on the spur of the moment never solved a problem. So, unless you are afraid for your security, I would take some time for myself, just to clear my mind.    
    Good luck!
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    Catia&Sal reacted to TBoneTX in I'VE LOST MY GREEN CARD   
    Thank you for the happy update!
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    Catia&Sal got a reaction from TBoneTX in I'VE LOST MY GREEN CARD   
    JUST FOR UPDATE:
    Last Monday May 15th I went to Federal Plaza USCIS in NYC downton, in 15 min they put a stamp on my passport, 1 year validity.
    Very fast and organized, and It allow me to leave without troubles.
     
    Another good news is that I receveid an mail last week...I thought was the same thing, but no!
    It's  about the I-90 application, I have appointment for the biometric exam  next Friday May 26.
    Much faster than I imagined... USCIS website calculates about 4 months for biometrics, and 8 months for GC replacement,.
    Eventually NYC offices are more efficient. 
     
     
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    Catia&Sal got a reaction from Chancy in I'VE LOST MY GREEN CARD   
    JUST FOR UPDATE:
    Last Monday May 15th I went to Federal Plaza USCIS in NYC downton, in 15 min they put a stamp on my passport, 1 year validity.
    Very fast and organized, and It allow me to leave without troubles.
     
    Another good news is that I receveid an mail last week...I thought was the same thing, but no!
    It's  about the I-90 application, I have appointment for the biometric exam  next Friday May 26.
    Much faster than I imagined... USCIS website calculates about 4 months for biometrics, and 8 months for GC replacement,.
    Eventually NYC offices are more efficient. 
     
     
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    Catia&Sal got a reaction from jackiegringa in I'VE LOST MY GREEN CARD   
    JUST FOR UPDATE:
    Last Monday May 15th I went to Federal Plaza USCIS in NYC downton, in 15 min they put a stamp on my passport, 1 year validity.
    Very fast and organized, and It allow me to leave without troubles.
     
    Another good news is that I receveid an mail last week...I thought was the same thing, but no!
    It's  about the I-90 application, I have appointment for the biometric exam  next Friday May 26.
    Much faster than I imagined... USCIS website calculates about 4 months for biometrics, and 8 months for GC replacement,.
    Eventually NYC offices are more efficient. 
     
     
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    Catia&Sal reacted to jackiegringa in I'VE LOST MY GREEN CARD   
    Great news! You will get a stamp in your passport valid for a year and your July plans are going to be totally fine.
     
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    Catia&Sal got a reaction from Chancy in I'VE LOST MY GREEN CARD   
    Just to update:
    last Friday (following your advices, thanks!) I called the USCIS, the lady on phone was very kind and told me in 3 days we will contact you to make an appointment. In fact, Tuesday they called on my phone and we talked about date and time for an appointment. After they sent me an email with the confirmation number, place and time, and all the details of documents to bring there. 
    So I'm going to USCIS in NYC at Federal Plaza next Monday morning!
    I hope everything will be fine.
    Thank you for all the help and support.    
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    Catia&Sal got a reaction from OldUser in I'VE LOST MY GREEN CARD   
    Just to update:
    last Friday (following your advices, thanks!) I called the USCIS, the lady on phone was very kind and told me in 3 days we will contact you to make an appointment. In fact, Tuesday they called on my phone and we talked about date and time for an appointment. After they sent me an email with the confirmation number, place and time, and all the details of documents to bring there. 
    So I'm going to USCIS in NYC at Federal Plaza next Monday morning!
    I hope everything will be fine.
    Thank you for all the help and support.    
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    Catia&Sal reacted to TBoneTX in I'VE LOST MY GREEN CARD   
    Thread is moved from the CR-1 Process forum to General Immigration Discussion, where similar situations are often discussed.
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    Catia&Sal reacted to Allaboutwaiting in I'VE LOST MY GREEN CARD   
    Call customer service and ask for an ADIT stamp to be mailed to your home. To be able to talk to an agent say "Infopass".
     
    Hopefully your GC arrives before you leave, but if it doesn't -and even if you can get it sent to you if it arrives while you are traveling- DO NOT travel without the ADIT stamp.
     
    With no GC nor ADIT stamp, you must pay 575dlls. for a boarding foil to be able to get on the plane to fly back to the US.
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    Catia&Sal reacted to NorthByNorthwest in I'VE LOST MY GREEN CARD   
    You have to get an InfoPass appointment to get an I-551 stamp in your passport. You might need to bring the I-90 receipt for this along with passport and other ID.
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    Catia&Sal reacted to Sammisauras in Married to US Citizen, left to visit Canada but now denied re-entry to the US by CBP officer -- Help!   
    Okay listen. I have already hit my 10 year visa and went through all of this.
     2015 my husband moved to stay with me so that we could see if our relationship was sustainable. 5 months in we decided to travel to the USA to visit and meet his family and to reset the 6 month period. We were rudely awakened that this was not how the border would allow us to behave and essentially I got told that he could finish the remainder of his 6 months and then we needed to leave. We were devastated and embarrassed by how the officer treated us ( basically calling us stupid and telling me that we had no rights because we were not married. After crying I began to research.
     
    I immediately applied to get my spouse a temporary residency for Canada, so that he could remain longer( as long as you have a pending application before your passport stamp runs out you are fine). We married in feb of 2016. After trying and trying to get PR in Canada I gave up and decided to go the other way. We applied in oct 2016. 
     
    during this time I continued to apply for temporary residency, 3 times in fact and when I got to the interview portion of the cr1 on sept 11 2017 because I did this and because we remained in domicile the entire time the officer changed their entire attitude! I had proven our marriage was bonafide simply because my husband remained with me, unable to work etc, through the entire process. 
     
    I had to remove conditions and truthfully 680 dollars will be worth it every time. Many petitions that begin in the United States first are deemed suspicious.
     
    I highly recommend having her enter to visit you, and take appropriate steps to make her a temporary resident while you complete all your processes.
     
    have someone on the USA side help you. STAY AWAY from the border. It’s hard but necessary because it proves you are there for them and not to evade immigration law. 
     
    I am in the process of naturalizing. I wish you luck! 
     
     
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    Catia&Sal reacted to Orangesapples in BE A RESIDENT IN THE UNITED STATES   
    That's just called an immigrant visa, not a provisional visa. 
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