Ok this may sound like a silly question, but I am concerned about having to choose between embarrassing myself and my fiance and possibly having our visa denied. We are a same sex couple with a considerable age gap (30 years). I am the older USC and my fiance is younger Colombiano. We communicate almost entirely on Whatsapp. We text every day and video chat several times a week.
Despite week long meetings together in Panama, Dominican Republic and Mexico, I am concerned that age gap and same sex relationship will be red flags for the CO, so I want to print out our WhatsApp chats (without pictures) as proof of our ongoing and consistent relationship. My concern is that our chats are frequently pretty spicy and I don't want to embarass my fiance at his interview (I will accompany him to the interview in month or so). So I have the choice, I can totally delete all the spicy chats, which will obviously make our chats seem way less frequent. Or, I can redact (black out) the offending words and phrases leaving everything else which will keep our daily contact intact.
Any suggestions will be greatly appreciated. Especially from those with a similar experience.