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Finally someone realizes that HE is the one on the wrong (he have to pay child support before “traveling the world” whit his new wife), his kids should come first!
A woman that fight for child support is not fighting for herself, she is fighting for her kids and a man that fight against is fighting against his kids...a judge won’t give the kids more or less then they have THE RIGHT TO HAVE!
 

Wow so many judgemental and nasty responses to the OP.  I'm not sure why the OP asking about how her ex-husband's obligation to pay her court ordered support will be affected should he file a petition for his new wife automatically makes her a scorned and bitter person. 
   She said he hasn't been paying. (where is all the judgement there?)  Writing a check is the easy part, being the single parent left alone to feed them every night, clothe them, take them to their activities, discipline them, miss work when they are sick and make sure they grow up to be productive members of society is the hard part.He is out of the country - its not like he is down the street and can help when one of them is sick.    I wonder how many times the ex has taken the kids with him on the trips with his new wife?    How dare people judge her for wanting him to support his children.  And as far as the spouse support - usually now days its awarded for a good reason - perhaps she has a health condition and can't work full time - either way she is carrying the burden everyday of being the full-time parent to those children while the ex is across the world and can't even send a check.   This doesn't make her greedy - it makes her responsible for her children's well being.  Telling her to just let it go and hope he will come back and have a great relationship with her kids someday.... i'm sure that is real helpful advice when she is trying to figure out how to pay for health care for her children.    
 

First off, if you transferred more than $10,000, remember to report it to FINCEN next year. You might also get a form from the bank to fill out already now.
 
Second, the money is fine in your account. Just make sure to include evidence of the money being in the foreign fiance’s account and the wire transfer. You might also want to look into adding your fiancé’s name to the bank account.

USC fiance will need to explain big cash to IRS and taxes. AOS affidavit of support is based on USC account, income or his cosponsor, the foreign fiance account doesn't qualify for the AOS affidavit of support. If there is trust, keep it wit USC as evidence for the AOS affidavit, later explaining to IRS the big money and keeping the transfer documents showing it came from abroad, no taxable

what im saying as of right now he is not in deportation are have they put him in one, so unless he go through judicial process he is still legal ,

He probably left so easy because it did not cost him anything to come on K1 visa, usually USC thinks Nigerians are poor and we pay for everything and help with money, then a Nigerian (my ex is a Nigerian also) thinks it was easy one K1 visa, he can waste it and ask for another one, it happened to me and then the 3rd one, it won't happen to me the 3rd one, no way.
Anyway, even the first K1 visa is very serious and if you go back to your country divorced or not married or still married but wasting all this so long waiting opportunity and so much money, better think well. To me the topic starter didn't take it serious (his marriage) and now wants to get back not his fiancee but America, the aunt birthday visa or anything but back to America

He probably left so easy because it did not cost him anything to come on K1 visa, usually USC thinks Nigerians are poor and we pay for everything and help with money, then a Nigerian (my ex is a Nigerian also) thinks it was easy one K1 visa, he can waste it and ask for another one, it happened to me and then the 3rd one, it won't happen to me the 3rd one, no way.
Anyway, even the first K1 visa is very serious and if you go back to your country divorced or not married or still married but wasting all this so long waiting opportunity and so much money, better think well. To me the topic starter didn't take it serious (his marriage) and now wants to get back not his fiancee but America, the aunt birthday visa or anything but back to America

Correct. She will have to initiate the process....again.

1.  K-1 is gone.....you abandoned it.
2.  B2 visa is almost certainly all but impossible.
3.  Teach your Aunt how to video chat from the party.
Sorry, but I don't think you can get here from there.
 

If she wants to go and doesn't want to come back, just let her go. I've learned that some times you have to learn to love with your brain instead of your heart

I would imagine you were refused for not showing noon immigrant intent.
 
Travelling half way around the world to attend your Aunts Birthday Party? Really?

I understand you. Only 1 thing, short time or long time to marry doesn't matter, it all depends how honest are both, some couple marry in 1 day and live all life together, some ... any longer time dating and it's not working.
 
Annul or Divorce ASAP as our American law could make you responsible for his living and his mistakes if you stay married longer. Better sooner because you see it very clear, it won't work. My prayers to you

It's totally correct. Please, read more about the job visa, even no brilliant people get a job visa and not necessary here are not Americans to fill up the vacancy, it all depends of the Company and the lawyer.
I know it well by personal experience, all my family including me, we came on a job visa each one.

It's totally correct. Please, read more about the job visa, even no brilliant people get a job visa and not necessary here are not Americans to fill up the vacancy, it all depends of the Company and the lawyer.
I know it well by personal experience, all my family including me, we came on a job visa each one.

It's totally correct. Please, read more about the job visa, even no brilliant people get a job visa and not necessary here are not Americans to fill up the vacancy, it all depends of the Company and the lawyer.
I know it well by personal experience, all my family including me, we came on a job visa each one.

And? America is about family and all families miss their parents, children, siblings, it's so natural to wish to bring the family members for better life and opportunities. Not easy yet we all are human

It's totally correct. Please, read more about the job visa, even no brilliant people get a job visa and not necessary here are not Americans to fill up the vacancy, it all depends of the Company and the lawyer.
I know it well by personal experience, all my family including me, we came on a job visa each one.

True

It's totally correct. Please, read more about the job visa, even no brilliant people get a job visa and not necessary here are not Americans to fill up the vacancy, it all depends of the Company and the lawyer.
I know it well by personal experience, all my family including me, we came on a job visa each one.

You are not alone trying to bring the dear brother, sister or adult children to this country. Long waiting time it's a huge waiting line of people who applied before you and still waiting years, you and your brother are not better than any other person to jump in front of the line, all people is waiting in line.
If your brother is a good professional, he can apply for a job visa and if the US company see him really brilliant, he will get his job and working visa which will bring him to US, work and see how his siblings line is moving. Good luck!

It's totally correct. Please, read more about the job visa, even no brilliant people get a job visa and not necessary here are not Americans to fill up the vacancy, it all depends of the Company and the lawyer.
I know it well by personal experience, all my family including me, we came on a job visa each one.

Sorry for your troubles, it was very similar for me, let him go back, usually immigrants later regret leaving and ask to come back to US again. If you feel unsafe, and as I see you do, you have a good job, longer you stay married, more you could be responsible for alimony or his bills even if no AOS the judge can see he needs a financial support during and after divorce. If you are worrying about the financial part, file the annulment, see all paperwork online, I did it myself. The annulment is more expensive than a divorce but there is the part, if the judge doesn't believe you can have the annulment, he/she gives you the divorce anyway.
 
If your husband doesn't sign, you will need to do the legal publication in his country or in your state and let him know, I showed him the legal publication in chat online, it's enough prove you told him as in the legal publication he will have the court place, case # and he can appeal or contest it, usually he is given 20 days after publication.
 
Don't wait 1 year to divorce if you believe you will do it anyway, do it ASAP, he can make debts or more troubles for you if you stay longer. It's a very hard time for you and it will be long healing. Good Luck! My prayers for you

Sorry for your troubles, it was very similar for me, let him go back, usually immigrants later regret leaving and ask to come back to US again. If you feel unsafe, and as I see you do, you have a good job, longer you stay married, more you could be responsible for alimony or his bills even if no AOS the judge can see he needs a financial support during and after divorce. If you are worrying about the financial part, file the annulment, see all paperwork online, I did it myself. The annulment is more expensive than a divorce but there is the part, if the judge doesn't believe you can have the annulment, he/she gives you the divorce anyway.
 
If your husband doesn't sign, you will need to do the legal publication in his country or in your state and let him know, I showed him the legal publication in chat online, it's enough prove you told him as in the legal publication he will have the court place, case # and he can appeal or contest it, usually he is given 20 days after publication.
 
Don't wait 1 year to divorce if you believe you will do it anyway, do it ASAP, he can make debts or more troubles for you if you stay longer. It's a very hard time for you and it will be long healing. Good Luck! My prayers for you

We have big age difference, more than you, I am white, he is a Nigerian, he has kids, we were approved with no troubles, the main trouble was for us both to accept we fall in love with such a big age difference, the Lagos embassy was asking questions but all normal about how we met. All good, now we are married and waiting for his green card, his baby is here in US with us, she's a doll

One thing, if your fiance prefers to go back to Nigeria instead to marry and adjust his status in US, maybe he is telling you the truth he loves you. If he wanted the green card only, he would marry you and stay as he can read in English and knows, the immigration process inside US is more secure than applying from Nigeria. He is not asking you for money, it's another good sign. I wouldn't judge all Nigerian people by the stories we read online, everybody is different. 
 
Also, not only Nigeria or Morocco people divorce after getting the green card, so many other countries do it, it's a mixed marriage, different culture and the people the same age, same race but from different countries may have much more differences than you and this Nigerian man.
 
It's true, the age difference is big, we have 30 years difference and we were approved relatively easy in Lagos for K1 visa. Only one thing I would be worry, in Nigerian culture the man needs to have children, at least one, you marrying him can't give him children, I don't know how true is he had a vasectomy but even in this case in a few years if you are still together, think about the possibility to adopt.
 
Anyway, you both love each other, go for it! Any marriage is a lottery, enjoy your time now and do what you believe is good for you both. I wouldn't be afraid of divorce once he gets his green card, young people the same age divorce even faster. So many immigration marriages end in divorce, all countries, not only Nigeria
Tasha