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I picked up on that as well. Just wow. Although based on previous posts I’m not too surprised. Poor girl doesn’t realize what she is getting into.
There are plenty of lazy Americans who would love to stay at your home and not work if that’s what you wanted- you didn’t need to find a young pretty girl abroad. Sheesh. I can’t believe someone would actually complain about a spouse wanting to work.

I had my both citizenship and oath ceremony today at Baltimore field office. It was an emotional experience.
 
Interviewing officer was super super nice. As I mentioned in one of my previous posts here, I had a complex immigration history spanning over 20 years. She was very sympathetic towards me. Interview went very well. She jokingly said, that she does not want me see deal with USCIS any more, she will schedule the oath the same day.
 
Thank you very much all here for all your support. And good luck.

As far as the other issues you brought up go as others have suggested counseling might help but as far as her wanting to get a job right away goes that is fairly normal. My wife was the same way when she first got here 5+ years ago. I discovered it was because she felt guilt for lack of a better term over all the money I spent to get her here and all the overtime I worked to earn it so she just wanted to contribute financially. Also as others have stated it is a big deal to leave everyone you know and move to a country you have never been to before. Give her some time to adjust. While I can't say my wife and I had the issues you brought up our marriage like many others wasn't perfect at first. Over time though we have been able to work out our differences and our marriage is a lot better now than it was 5 years ago. You invested all this time and money. I would say give it some time and if need be some counseling and see if things get better.

So poor girl moved half way around the world to live in an abusive situation? I wish she was here to understand this is not normal.

I picked up on that as well. Just wow. Although based on previous posts I’m not too surprised. Poor girl doesn’t realize what she is getting into.
There are plenty of lazy Americans who would love to stay at your home and not work if that’s what you wanted- you didn’t need to find a young pretty girl abroad. Sheesh. I can’t believe someone would actually complain about a spouse wanting to work.

Sorry this is screaming scam. 
Not a single thing she showed you pictures of couldn't be staged. 

Sorry Bud but you are coming off very self-centered.  There are literally thousands who would trade places with you.  You got her here and so many others are struggling to do the same.   My wife and I have been together for 9 months and we work on our relationship every day.  I would not trade her for anything and I know she feels the same way.  ADVENTINE gave you some good advise.  Don't berate her on a public forum. 

I don’t think they need couples therapy. I think he desperately need professional help and she needs to be in a safer place.

^^^ Less talking to us. More talking to her. 

You two need marital counseling ASAP. Certain issues are best discussed in private with a professional counselor. After all the time and effort you've both put into the immigration process, it's a shame to throw that all away just because you have disagreements about intimacy.
 
On another thread about scams in the Philippines, you posted that you think that might be happening in your marriage. That lack of trust in your wife is something you also need to address with professional counseling.
 
She's been in the US only a few weeks. It's stressful and overwhelming to move to a different country. That could be another reason for her not being interested in intimacy. Probably, the way you respond to her is likely contributing to the stress. This is where a professional counselor can really help - identifying the actions you are BOTH doing that are undermining the marriage.
 
Ranting here on VJ about your private marital problems might make you feel good in the short term, but I don't think it's going to help either of you in the long run. Especially when your wife finds out you're sharing these intimate details to internet strangers.
 

Does she know you are posting personal details about her online?
 
How does she feel about you telling strangers details about her and her "intimacy" likes or dislikes?
 
Could it be that you are a different person than she thought you were and she is turned off by that?
 
Did you ever consider that the problem may be with you and not her?

I picked up on that as well. Just wow. Although based on previous posts I’m not too surprised. Poor girl doesn’t realize what she is getting into.
There are plenty of lazy Americans who would love to stay at your home and not work if that’s what you wanted- you didn’t need to find a young pretty girl abroad. Sheesh. I can’t believe someone would actually complain about a spouse wanting to work.

So poor girl moved half way around the world to live in an abusive situation? I wish she was here to understand this is not normal.

I picked up on that as well. Just wow. Although based on previous posts I’m not too surprised. Poor girl doesn’t realize what she is getting into.
There are plenty of lazy Americans who would love to stay at your home and not work if that’s what you wanted- you didn’t need to find a young pretty girl abroad. Sheesh. I can’t believe someone would actually complain about a spouse wanting to work.

So poor girl moved half way around the world to live in an abusive situation? I wish she was here to understand this is not normal.

I picked up on that as well. Just wow. Although based on previous posts I’m not too surprised. Poor girl doesn’t realize what she is getting into.
There are plenty of lazy Americans who would love to stay at your home and not work if that’s what you wanted- you didn’t need to find a young pretty girl abroad. Sheesh. I can’t believe someone would actually complain about a spouse wanting to work.

I picked up on that as well. Just wow. Although based on previous posts I’m not too surprised. Poor girl doesn’t realize what she is getting into.
There are plenty of lazy Americans who would love to stay at your home and not work if that’s what you wanted- you didn’t need to find a young pretty girl abroad. Sheesh. I can’t believe someone would actually complain about a spouse wanting to work.

Reading your post history and how critical you've been about her, I won't lie and say I didn't see this coming...

So poor girl moved half way around the world to live in an abusive situation? I wish she was here to understand this is not normal.

I picked up on that as well. Just wow. Although based on previous posts I’m not too surprised. Poor girl doesn’t realize what she is getting into.
There are plenty of lazy Americans who would love to stay at your home and not work if that’s what you wanted- you didn’t need to find a young pretty girl abroad. Sheesh. I can’t believe someone would actually complain about a spouse wanting to work.

This isn't the first time I've seen you create a thread declaring you want to send your fiance back to the province like a defective product. Last time it was over a misunderstanding beyond her control and when you learned the truth, you didn't seem the least bit remorseful about your initial reaction. If you're so quick to call things off every time things aren't playing out like you think they should, you're probably making her feel insecure, which is making her anxious to find some stability that doesn't directly depend on you - hence the job search. 

An x-ray is just a preliminary diagnostic tool for TB.  If an x-ray is, at all, suspicious, then they move to more precise diagnosis like the sputum test.  Below might be a reason sputum tests are more common there:
"About 1 million Filipinos have active TB disease. This is the third highest prevalence rate in the world, after South Africa and Lesotho. It is a highly curable disease. Yet, it is the number one killer among all infectious diseases."

Apparently they did do something  They notified the state health department.
 
I for one think someone ought to be double checking Saint Luke's x-rays.  I'd be curious if American doctors come up with similarly vast numbers of false positives from viewing the same x-rays.

I don't see why this is "messed up". I am glad to see that local authorities are doing their job and following up to protect public health.

So poor girl moved half way around the world to live in an abusive situation? I wish she was here to understand this is not normal.