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Sandra G.

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    Sandra G. got a reaction from C-ma'am in hepa b reactive   
    I think you should disclose to the doctor your full medical history.On DS-230 part II there is a question asking if the beneficiary has a Communicable disease of public health significance, but hepatitis B is not listed by the CDC as communicable disease of public health significance.
    Immigration law requires that all individuals applying for permanent U.S. residency have been vaccinated against hepatitis B, but non-immigrant visa applicants are not required to comply with the vaccination requirements, but must you must have the vaccine when you will apply for AOS.
    http://www.cdc.gov/immigrantrefugeehealth/laws-regs/ifr/final-rule.html
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    Sandra G. got a reaction from BethandBilly in Thinking of a divorce after his Visa approval a week ago.   
    I don't think your husband is quite uncaring and unkind because of his culture, I think he doesn't love you. Look EAbbas how they interact with each other. You can tell they show respect,passion and love!.Your husband sounds pretty apathetic and cold. You deserve better!
    "Life is way too short to spend it in bad shoes, polyester clothes, and poor relationships".!
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    Sandra G. got a reaction from tany1157 in Thinking of a divorce after his Visa approval a week ago.   
    I don't think your husband is quite uncaring and unkind because of his culture, I think he doesn't love you. Look EAbbas how they interact with each other. You can tell they show respect,passion and love!.Your husband sounds pretty apathetic and cold. You deserve better!
    "Life is way too short to spend it in bad shoes, polyester clothes, and poor relationships".!
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    Sandra G. got a reaction from Shane and Lovely in Thinking of a divorce after his Visa approval a week ago.   
    I don't think your husband is quite uncaring and unkind because of his culture, I think he doesn't love you. Look EAbbas how they interact with each other. You can tell they show respect,passion and love!.Your husband sounds pretty apathetic and cold. You deserve better!
    "Life is way too short to spend it in bad shoes, polyester clothes, and poor relationships".!
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    Sandra G. got a reaction from EAbbas in Thinking of a divorce after his Visa approval a week ago.   
    I don't think your husband is quite uncaring and unkind because of his culture, I think he doesn't love you. Look EAbbas how they interact with each other. You can tell they show respect,passion and love!.Your husband sounds pretty apathetic and cold. You deserve better!
    "Life is way too short to spend it in bad shoes, polyester clothes, and poor relationships".!
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    Sandra G. got a reaction from BethandBilly in Marriage fraud victim asking for advice..   
    Contact ICE, and do not be surprised if she claims "battered spouse".
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    Sandra G. got a reaction from Iyawo Ijebu in Marriage fraud victim asking for advice..   
    Contact ICE, and do not be surprised if she claims "battered spouse".
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    Sandra G. got a reaction from Cathi in Abusive Immigrant Husband   
    Thanks Charles!.
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    Sandra G. got a reaction from BasmaHicham in Abusive Immigrant Husband   
    farid&lisa your comment is disgusting to say the least. No one deserves to be abused.If You don't have anything nice to say, don't say anything at all!. You should educate yourself and learn that the scars of domestic violence and abuse run deep. Mona was victim of domestic violence at the hands of her abusive husband.
    Mona81 I am so sorry for all that you have been through. I hope soon you look back and say " I was a victim and moved past it". You deserve better my dear.I just sent a private message for you, check your inbox ok.
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    Sandra G. got a reaction from Kathryn41 in Abusive Immigrant Husband   
    farid&lisa your comment is disgusting to say the least. No one deserves to be abused.If You don't have anything nice to say, don't say anything at all!. You should educate yourself and learn that the scars of domestic violence and abuse run deep. Mona was victim of domestic violence at the hands of her abusive husband.
    Mona81 I am so sorry for all that you have been through. I hope soon you look back and say " I was a victim and moved past it". You deserve better my dear.I just sent a private message for you, check your inbox ok.
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    Sandra G. got a reaction from Darnell in Married for love, barred for life??   
    Why she is in removal proceedings if she has a pending asylum application? There is something not right here.
    The INA specifically states that a K-1 beneficiary can only adjust based on the marriage to the fiancé(e) petitioner INA 245(d).The section 245(d) is clear the marriage to the fiance petitioner must exist on the date of adjudication.It's not her cause tho.She won't be able to adjust her status based in her marriage with Brad.
    If the Court does not grant asylum then she can ask for voluntary departure through withdrawal of her Asylum Application, usually the Court allow voluntary departure once the individual withdrawn the asylum claim.
    She can apply for CR1 after arriving in her Country,but definitely she will need to apply to have the ground of inadmissibly waived(unlawful presence) filing an I-601 Waiver, but if she gets deported then she will need two waivers (I-601 and I-212)
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    Sandra G. got a reaction from TBoneTX in Should I help possibly cheating wife?   
    Your wife is controlling,insecure,lunatic,fight all the time and she is lazy. I think you have enough in your plate to get divorced huh? I don't think you need to add "possible cheater". Your child won't have any benefit growing up in a dysfunction house.My advice remove yourself from this situation before things get worse. You deserve better.
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    Sandra G. got a reaction from Inky in Marriage in Mexico   
    US recognize marriages taking place overseas.If you got married without divorcing your first wife then you screwed up and they won't approve your Citizenship based on lack of good moral character.It happened with one of my friends, she was legally separated but not divorced. The USCIS denied her Citizenship.
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    Sandra G. got a reaction from elmcitymaven in ROC on process   
    issha2lynden you said "the only valid reason getting out the marriage is when the spouse commits adultery"... really?. There are so many reasons for divorcing like falling out of love, domestic violence,addiction, sexual abuse,mistreatment,etc.
    I read one day "Life is way too short to spend it in bad shoes, polyester clothes, and poor relationships", and I agree 100% with that.
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    Sandra G. got a reaction from NancyNguyen in Wife pulled petition without my knowledge   
    Nijabound I didn't find any Immigration Law or amendment stating what are you saying. The Class Member in Hootkins v. Chertoff refers to widows and to all aliens who within ninety days of admission to the United States as a nonimmigrant fiancé(e) the US Citizen spouse DIED. Please provide some reference. You've posted a broken link.
    The Class member states:
    -"All aliens who, within ninety days of admission to the United States as a nonimmigrant fiancé(e), married the petitioning United States citizen, and whose citizen spouse died before the couple's two-year wedding anniversary, so long as he or she can also demonstrate that the citizen spouse filed an I-129F petition and a Form I-864 or I-864EZ affidavit of support on behalf of the alien spouse, and (1) the Form 1-129F petition is now pending with or was adjudicated by a USCIS office located within the jurisdiction of the Ninth Circuit, or (2) at the time of the citizen spouse's death, either the citizen spouse or the alien spouse resided within the jurisdiction of the Ninth Circuit:.
    -"For surviving spouses admitted to the United States as K nonimmigrants, there will be no Form I-130 if the couple married within 90 days of the K-1’s admission. In this situation, for purposes of adjudicating of a Form I-485 that was pending on October 28, 2009, the K-1 nonimmigrant, and any K-2 children, will be deemed to be the beneficiaries of an approved Form I-360".
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    Sandra G. got a reaction from X Factor in Cheating wife   
    You have pictures of your wife lip locking with another man at a cafe. It's crystal clear to me that the love was only one sided.Love is not just in the things you say ,it's in the things you do. Best to throw this fish back into the sea and look for love elsewhere. Protect yourself regarding Immigration matters before she gets here.Good luck.
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    Sandra G. got a reaction from Glyn and Kathy in Intrusive Ex   
    Yes your ex wife has the right to "demand" personal informations about your "new wife" if she is living in the house and/or spending time with the children. If you refuse to give any information then your ex wife can petition the court to order your to disclose who is in the house when the kids visitations, if she believes that the children may be in danger. She has to demonstrate that it is in the child's best interest for her to know who he children are exposed to.There is a legal recourse in the law for that. If the Court grant her motion you will be forced to disclose the name of the person living in the house.In the event she prove that your new wife is a bad influence for the kids, because she is for example a felon, a drug addict, she can petition the court for a restraining order to keep your new wife around the children.
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    Sandra G. got a reaction from faithinGod in Intrusive Ex   
    Yes your ex wife has the right to "demand" personal informations about your "new wife" if she is living in the house and/or spending time with the children. If you refuse to give any information then your ex wife can petition the court to order your to disclose who is in the house when the kids visitations, if she believes that the children may be in danger. She has to demonstrate that it is in the child's best interest for her to know who he children are exposed to.There is a legal recourse in the law for that. If the Court grant her motion you will be forced to disclose the name of the person living in the house.In the event she prove that your new wife is a bad influence for the kids, because she is for example a felon, a drug addict, she can petition the court for a restraining order to keep your new wife around the children.
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    Sandra G. got a reaction from Jason and Shifa in Intrusive Ex   
    Yes your ex wife has the right to "demand" personal informations about your "new wife" if she is living in the house and/or spending time with the children. If you refuse to give any information then your ex wife can petition the court to order your to disclose who is in the house when the kids visitations, if she believes that the children may be in danger. She has to demonstrate that it is in the child's best interest for her to know who he children are exposed to.There is a legal recourse in the law for that. If the Court grant her motion you will be forced to disclose the name of the person living in the house.In the event she prove that your new wife is a bad influence for the kids, because she is for example a felon, a drug addict, she can petition the court for a restraining order to keep your new wife around the children.
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    Sandra G. got a reaction from Army wife in Intrusive Ex   
    Yes your ex wife has the right to "demand" personal informations about your "new wife" if she is living in the house and/or spending time with the children. If you refuse to give any information then your ex wife can petition the court to order your to disclose who is in the house when the kids visitations, if she believes that the children may be in danger. She has to demonstrate that it is in the child's best interest for her to know who he children are exposed to.There is a legal recourse in the law for that. If the Court grant her motion you will be forced to disclose the name of the person living in the house.In the event she prove that your new wife is a bad influence for the kids, because she is for example a felon, a drug addict, she can petition the court for a restraining order to keep your new wife around the children.
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    Sandra G. got a reaction from tany1157 in Intrusive Ex   
    Yes your ex wife has the right to "demand" personal informations about your "new wife" if she is living in the house and/or spending time with the children. If you refuse to give any information then your ex wife can petition the court to order your to disclose who is in the house when the kids visitations, if she believes that the children may be in danger. She has to demonstrate that it is in the child's best interest for her to know who he children are exposed to.There is a legal recourse in the law for that. If the Court grant her motion you will be forced to disclose the name of the person living in the house.In the event she prove that your new wife is a bad influence for the kids, because she is for example a felon, a drug addict, she can petition the court for a restraining order to keep your new wife around the children.
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    Sandra G. got a reaction from soteropolitana in Intrusive Ex   
    Yes your ex wife has the right to "demand" personal informations about your "new wife" if she is living in the house and/or spending time with the children. If you refuse to give any information then your ex wife can petition the court to order your to disclose who is in the house when the kids visitations, if she believes that the children may be in danger. She has to demonstrate that it is in the child's best interest for her to know who he children are exposed to.There is a legal recourse in the law for that. If the Court grant her motion you will be forced to disclose the name of the person living in the house.In the event she prove that your new wife is a bad influence for the kids, because she is for example a felon, a drug addict, she can petition the court for a restraining order to keep your new wife around the children.
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    Sandra G. got a reaction from Inky in Intrusive Ex   
    Yes your ex wife has the right to "demand" personal informations about your "new wife" if she is living in the house and/or spending time with the children. If you refuse to give any information then your ex wife can petition the court to order your to disclose who is in the house when the kids visitations, if she believes that the children may be in danger. She has to demonstrate that it is in the child's best interest for her to know who he children are exposed to.There is a legal recourse in the law for that. If the Court grant her motion you will be forced to disclose the name of the person living in the house.In the event she prove that your new wife is a bad influence for the kids, because she is for example a felon, a drug addict, she can petition the court for a restraining order to keep your new wife around the children.
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    Sandra G. got a reaction from Merrytooth in sending money to his family (long)   
    A few weeks ago he said about to bring his parents EVERY YEAR FOR SIX month to be with you guys, after a while he said about the possibility to bring his brother to study in the USA.I said before and I repeat myself as soon he becomes US Citizen he will bring the WHOLE family to live in the USA.He needs to realize he will have a life with you soon and you should come first in his life, period!!!!. He can help his family of course sending $200/$300 monthly more than that I think is ridiculous, to say the least.
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    Sandra G. got a reaction from Princessblack in Abused wife applied for AOS, I'm lost plz help me!   
    Alma I am the director of a non profit organization that provides help for abused women, and I am an attorney as well. I helped more than forty five women since 2010 with their VAWA applications, and all petitions were approved.You have a strong case and you have enough evidence of the abuse suffered. As soon a prima facie determination is made in your case, you will be eligible for public benefits.
    Studies show that abusers often use their partners’ immigration status as a tool of control and to force their partner to remain in the relationship. It sounds you are trying to justify his action telling that "he did not try to kill you...that you still love him...". Alma you need to understand no one should have to endure abuse!!! Please DO NOT tolerate domestic violence.It doesn't matter if you love him, it's crystal clear that HE DOES NOT LOVE YOU!! Love is a thing shared by two. Do not excuse him from taking responsibility for an action that he did – not you. It's his fault. He is the abuser you are the victim!
    Don’t be so hard on yourself, and don’t try to get through all of this alone. You might feel helpless or paralyzed, but I do recommend a good counselor asap. As you heal and rebuild your self-esteem you will learn how to fall in love with yourself ,and then soon you will be able to say" I love him, but I will get over him, because I deserve better!. You’re on your way to getting over him and stopping loving him.There is more to life than stay together with someone who disrespected and abused you. I am here for you my dear. I can't change what's happened with you, and I am really sorry about what happened. You are not alone.
    May God be with you always.
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